There was a time that I was aggrivated with these single sites I couldn't believe many women are here, just to chat, long story short, I think the best thing to do is have a mind-set that this and other single site's are for fun and just remember a lot of these women on here have many more problems then most men want to deal with (that's why their on CS)LOL! So I recommend to get advice from dating guru's like David D. , on which lay out ways to improve your confidence on meeting women out and around town. Seeing a women out in person is 200 times better then hoping and wishing on good things on here with these war torn women ... Good Luck!
paydaydave: I think the title kind of says it all.
Personally I find it offensive when they come up as my matches...???
I'm here to meet someone...hopefully! So why match me with someone who doesn't want to meet someone?
"Not single, Not looking" should NOT be an option when filling out a profile on a dating site!
Find something else to pass your time...LIKE YOUR MATE!!
Maybe get a hobby or join a gym, a job, whatever?
It will be curious to see who dis-agrees with this and why!!
This was discussed last week. You might not get many responses since we discussed it thoroughly already. On the other hand, maybe people want to hash over it again. I sure don't.
paydaydave: I think the title kind of says it all.
Personally I find it offensive when they come up as my matches...???
I'm here to meet someone...hopefully! So why match me with someone who doesn't want to meet someone?
"Not single, Not looking" should NOT be an option when filling out a profile on a dating site!
Find something else to pass your time...LIKE YOUR MATE!!
Maybe get a hobby or join a gym, a job, whatever?
It will be curious to see who dis-agrees with this and why!!
Well, since the married guys are now shackled with balls and chains, on-line dating sites has to be a better option to learning how to quilt, being a socker-dad, work, mowing the lawn, maintaining and redecorating the home and running errands.... don't you agree?
im single, and looking for soulmate so thats why im join this site...ahahahah just well se did this website is working or not ....have a nice day guyyy
paydaydave: I think the title kind of says it all.
Personally I find it offensive when they come up as my matches...???
I'm here to meet someone...hopefully! So why match me with someone who doesn't want to meet someone?
"Not single, Not looking" should NOT be an option when filling out a profile on a dating site!
Find something else to pass your time...LIKE YOUR MATE!!
Maybe get a hobby or join a gym, a job, whatever?
It will be curious to see who dis-agrees with this and why!!
Take the option "not single, not looking" away, and you will have the exact same people here, only you have taken away from them the chance to be honest and upfront on their profile.
Also, consider this: those, who are no longer single, may have found their partner here plus a lot of friends - it is only natural that they might want to choose to stay on this site to further communicate with friends and even with their partner, if they are in a long-distance relationship.
I suggest to stop being angry over nothing and to start going with the flow here.
Answer to your question it's very easy, in the female international language the sentence, l'm here not looking for, it mean = l'm here just for the best the handsome the most gifted and, at last but not the least, the richest young man in this cruel world
Jokerman73: Answer to your question it's very easy, in the female international language the sentence, l'm here not looking for, it mean = l'm here just for the best the handsome the most gifted and, at last but not the least, the richest young man in this cruel world
paydaydave: I think the title kind of says it all.
Personally I find it offensive when they come up as my matches...???
I'm here to meet someone...hopefully! So why match me with someone who doesn't want to meet someone?
"Not single, Not looking" should NOT be an option when filling out a profile on a dating site!
Find something else to pass your time...LIKE YOUR MATE!!
Maybe get a hobby or join a gym, a job, whatever?
It will be curious to see who dis-agrees with this and why!!
some were single when they first joined. also not everyone here is looking for a date, marriage or even a relationship.
I am very single but I am not looking and have never received a match here. I go to the Gym 3 x a week, I volunteer besides my job. I have a social life away from CS but I enjoy the forums discussions too, so what's the deal ? I shouldn't be on CS because I am not looking?
equiya: some were single when they first joined. also not everyone here is looking for a date, marriage or even a relationship.
I am very single but I am not looking and have never received a match here. I go to the Gym 3 x a week, I volunteer besides my job. I have a social life away from CS but I enjoy the forums discussions too, so what's the deal ? I shouldn't be on CS because I am not looking?
Haha...I completely agree with you!! I have been thinking about it for a longer time...,, Oh god, what is that option about?? ,,. It does not give me any sense! :)
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Personally I find it offensive when they come up as my matches...???
I'm here to meet someone...hopefully! So why match me with someone who doesn't want to meet someone?
"Not single, Not looking" should NOT be an option when filling out a profile on a dating site!
Find something else to pass your time...LIKE YOUR MATE!!
Maybe get a hobby or join a gym, a job, whatever?
It will be curious to see who dis-agrees with this and why!!