If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE??? ( Archived) (194)

Sep 11, 2012 8:12 PM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
paydaydave
paydaydavepaydaydaveHamilton, Ontario Canada3 Threads 15 Posts
I think the title kind of says it all.

Personally I find it offensive when they come up as my matches...???frustrated

I'm here to meet someone...hopefully! So why match me with someone who doesn't want to meet someone?

"Not single, Not looking" should NOT be an option when filling out a profile on a dating site! doh

Find something else to pass your time...LIKE YOUR MATE!!

Maybe get a hobby or join a gym, a job, whatever? dunno

It will be curious to see who dis-agrees with this and why!!rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 11, 2012 9:16 PM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
rivame
rivamerivamemelbourne, Victoria Australia54 Threads 3 Polls 4,601 Posts
paydaydave: I think the title kind of says it all.

Personally I find it offensive when they come up as my matches...?


"Not single, Not looking" should NOT be an option when filling out a profile on a dating site!

Find something else to pass your time...LIKE YOUR MATE!!

Maybe get a hobby or join a gym, a job, whatever?

It will be curious to see who dis-agrees with this and why!!


cutting a long answer short....many were single when joining ...

made friends over the years and are here for those frienships..

hope that explains it wine
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Sep 11, 2012 9:40 PM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
There was a time that I was aggrivated with these single sites I couldn't believe many women are here, just to chat, long story short, I think the best thing to do is have a mind-set that this and other single site's are for fun and just remember a lot of these women on here have many more problems then most men want to deal with (that's why their on CS)LOL! So I recommend to get advice from dating guru's like David D. , on which lay out ways to improve your confidence on meeting women out and around town. Seeing a women out in person is 200 times better then hoping and wishing on good things on here with these war torn women ...
Good Luck!
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Sep 11, 2012 9:46 PM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
paydaydave: I think the title kind of says it all.

Personally I find it offensive when they come up as my matches...???

I'm here to meet someone...hopefully! So why match me with someone who doesn't want to meet someone?

"Not single, Not looking" should NOT be an option when filling out a profile on a dating site!

Find something else to pass your time...LIKE YOUR MATE!!

Maybe get a hobby or join a gym, a job, whatever?

It will be curious to see who dis-agrees with this and why!!



This was discussed last week. You might not get many responses since we discussed it thoroughly already. On the other hand, maybe people want to hash over it again. I sure don't.

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Sep 11, 2012 10:25 PM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
paydaydave: I think the title kind of says it all.

Personally I find it offensive when they come up as my matches...???

I'm here to meet someone...hopefully! So why match me with someone who doesn't want to meet someone?

"Not single, Not looking" should NOT be an option when filling out a profile on a dating site!

Find something else to pass your time...LIKE YOUR MATE!!

Maybe get a hobby or join a gym, a job, whatever?

It will be curious to see who dis-agrees with this and why!!

Well, since the married guys are now shackled with balls and chains, on-line dating sites has to be a better option to learning how to quilt, being a socker-dad, work, mowing the lawn, maintaining and redecorating the home and running errands.... don't you agree?
head banger
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Sep 12, 2012 12:28 AM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
paydaydave: I think the title kind of says it all.

Personally I find it offensive when they come up as my matches...???

I'm here to meet someone...hopefully! So why match me with someone who doesn't want to meet someone?

"Not single, Not looking" should NOT be an option when filling out a profile on a dating site!

Find something else to pass your time...LIKE YOUR MATE!!

Maybe get a hobby or join a gym, a job, whatever?

It will be curious to see who dis-agrees with this and why!!



I've yet to see CS offer a "matching" feature, so I don't see why you'd be offended. It's not like they're forcing anyone on you.roll eyes

If it bothers you so much, close your account, or gouge your eyes out so you don't have to read their profiles.laugh
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Sep 12, 2012 2:37 AM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
tiatia
tiatiatiatiaunknown, Jakarta Indonesia2 Posts
im single, and looking for soulmate so thats why im join this site...ahahahah just well se did this website is working or not ....have a nice day guyyy
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Sep 12, 2012 3:16 AM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
PS. You're coming across as a control freak.
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Sep 12, 2012 3:41 AM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
Susanne1
Susanne1Susanne1Kreuzberg, Berlin Germany7 Threads 2 Polls 437 Posts
paydaydave: I think the title kind of says it all.

Personally I find it offensive when they come up as my matches...???

I'm here to meet someone...hopefully! So why match me with someone who doesn't want to meet someone?

"Not single, Not looking" should NOT be an option when filling out a profile on a dating site!

Find something else to pass your time...LIKE YOUR MATE!!

Maybe get a hobby or join a gym, a job, whatever?

It will be curious to see who dis-agrees with this and why!!


Take the option "not single, not looking" away, and you will have the exact same people here, only you have taken away from them the chance to be honest and upfront on their profile.

Also, consider this: those, who are no longer single, may have found their partner here plus a lot of friends - it is only natural that they might want to choose to stay on this site to further communicate with friends and even with their partner, if they are in a long-distance relationship.

I suggest to stop being angry over nothing and to start going with the flow here. comfort
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Sep 12, 2012 4:02 AM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
Witchaywoman
WitchaywomanWitchaywomanCarpentersville, Illinois USA97 Threads 13 Polls 4,344 Posts
Maybe they are looking, but not for just anyone.
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Sep 12, 2012 4:24 AM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
Jokerman73
Jokerman73Jokerman73Milano, Lombardy Italy20 Threads 202 Posts
Answer to your question it's very easy, in the female international language the sentence, l'm here not looking for, it mean = l'm here just for the best the handsome the most gifted and, at last but not the least, the richest young man in this cruel world

case closed
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Sep 12, 2012 4:28 AM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
Etlal
EtlalEtlalNRW, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany1 Threads 273 Posts
Jokerman73: Answer to your question it's very easy, in the female international language the sentence, l'm here not looking for, it mean = l'm here just for the best the handsome the most gifted and, at last but not the least, the richest young man in this cruel world

case closed


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Sep 12, 2012 4:39 AM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
equiya
equiyaequiyaunknown, Ontario Canada2 Threads 4,055 Posts
paydaydave: I think the title kind of says it all.

Personally I find it offensive when they come up as my matches...???

I'm here to meet someone...hopefully! So why match me with someone who doesn't want to meet someone?

"Not single, Not looking" should NOT be an option when filling out a profile on a dating site!

Find something else to pass your time...LIKE YOUR MATE!!

Maybe get a hobby or join a gym, a job, whatever?

It will be curious to see who dis-agrees with this and why!!



some were single when they first joined. also not everyone here is looking for a date, marriage or even a relationship.

I am very single but I am not looking and have never received a match here. I go to the Gym 3 x a week, I volunteer besides my job. I have a social life away from CS but I enjoy the forums discussions too, so what's the deal ? I shouldn't be on CS because I am not looking?
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Sep 12, 2012 6:53 AM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
equiya: some were single when they first joined. also not everyone here is looking for a date, marriage or even a relationship.

I am very single but I am not looking and have never received a match here. I go to the Gym 3 x a week, I volunteer besides my job. I have a social life away from CS but I enjoy the forums discussions too, so what's the deal ? I shouldn't be on CS because I am not looking?


but some may be looking 4 uheart wings lips
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Sep 12, 2012 7:05 AM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
bungallow55
bungallow55bungallow55Lakeland, Florida USA238 Threads 10 Polls 3,837 Posts
paydaydave: I think the title kind of says it all.

Personally I find it offensive when they come up as my matches...???

I'm here to meet someone...hopefully! So why match me with someone who doesn't want to meet someone?

"Not single, Not looking" should NOT be an option when filling out a profile on a dating site!

Find something else to pass your time...LIKE YOUR MATE!!

Maybe get a hobby or join a gym, a job, whatever?

It will be curious to see who dis-agrees with this and why!!
Because they are idiots. Not knowing what a dating site is.confused grin
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Sep 12, 2012 7:25 AM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
paydaydave: I think the title kind of says it all.

Personally I find it offensive when they come up as my matches...???

I'm here to meet someone...hopefully! So why match me with someone who doesn't want to meet someone?

"Not single, Not looking" should NOT be an option when filling out a profile on a dating site!

Find something else to pass your time...LIKE YOUR MATE!!

Maybe get a hobby or join a gym, a job, whatever?

It will be curious to see who dis-agrees with this and why!!


Simple:



Filter your preferences and avoid the "Not single, Not looking"






professor
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Sep 12, 2012 8:06 AM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
lifeisadream: Simple:
Filter your preferences and avoid the "Not single, Not looking"

thumbs up B I N G O !
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Sep 12, 2012 9:00 AM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
equiya
equiyaequiyaunknown, Ontario Canada2 Threads 4,055 Posts
cloud747: but some may be looking 4 u


who is (maybe the FBI)
because even the scammers are not looking for me and don't contact me
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Sep 12, 2012 2:33 PM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
Carline365
Carline365Carline365Bratislava, Slovakia1 Posts
Haha...I completely agree with you!! I have been thinking about it for a longer time...,, Oh god, what is that option about?? ,,. It does not give me any sense! :)
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Sep 12, 2012 2:47 PM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
Simply_Pippa
Simply_PippaSimply_PippaDoha, Qatar11 Threads 1 Polls 49 Posts
There is a continuation on that line.. Not single, not Looking....but my heart is only reserved to someone who deserves it..heart wings heart wings
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