Less than 1% reply to massages ( Archived) (32)

Sep 25, 2012 7:28 AM CST Less than 1% reply to massages
dilibogyo
dilibogyodilibogyoNarwee, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 8 Posts
Funny thing is that people are here to find someone, and even though I write lot of massages nobody seems to reply.
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Sep 25, 2012 7:35 AM CST Less than 1% reply to massages
blues don't if it a funny thing?

cswelcome all the best - it will happen - keep sending them out.
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Sep 25, 2012 7:55 AM CST Less than 1% reply to massages
vodla3
vodla3vodla3Rockhampton, Queensland Australia282 Posts
dilibogyo: Funny thing is that people are here to find someone, and even though I write lot of massages nobody seems to reply.


Unfortunately the world of today getting more n more dehumanised,there's NO respect for one another,but do NOT get discouraged,b/c there's still some lovely ladies around.,perhaps one in a million.After all it seems u'r looking for only ONE ! So keep searching mate,the same as I do !
cheers
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Sep 25, 2012 2:52 PM CST Less than 1% reply to massages
dilibogyo
dilibogyodilibogyoNarwee, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 8 Posts
JeanKimberley: don't if it a funny thing?

all the best - it will happen - keep sending them out.


Appreciate your comment, thanks for reading my post.
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Sep 25, 2012 2:54 PM CST Less than 1% reply to massages
dilibogyo
dilibogyodilibogyoNarwee, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 8 Posts
vodla3: Unfortunately the world of today getting more n more dehumanised,there's NO respect for one another,but do NOT get discouraged,b/c there's still some lovely ladies around.,perhaps one in a million.After all it seems u'r looking for only ONE ! So keep searching mate,the same as I do !


I fully agree with you, and thank you for your comment mate.
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Sep 25, 2012 3:49 PM CST Less than 1% reply to massages
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
HuggerMan4U: Scubadiva should be getting plenty of messages, I would imagine.


Real or scam messages?

I think I scare men laugh
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Sep 25, 2012 5:02 PM CST Less than 1% reply to massages
dilibogyo
dilibogyodilibogyoNarwee, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 8 Posts
HuggerMan4U: Scubadiva should be getting plenty of messages, I would imagine.


Yes scam is popular, but I do not really get many of those either. Not that I ask for it. laugh
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Sep 25, 2012 5:28 PM CST Less than 1% reply to massages
NotABlonde
NotABlondeNotABlondeSpringwood, New South Wales Australia8 Threads 1,210 Posts
Give it time.
I don't get many messages, other than scamming ones, but still live in hope.
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Sep 25, 2012 5:34 PM CST Less than 1% reply to massages
dilibogyo
dilibogyodilibogyoNarwee, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 8 Posts
NotABlonde: Give it time.
I don't get many messages, other than scamming ones, but still live in hope.

Like your positive spirit, it lifted me up too.banana
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Sep 25, 2012 6:30 PM CST Less than 1% reply to massages
zasimom
zasimomzasimomClarksville, Tennessee USA27 Posts
I try my best to reply back to people that email me, as long as they are respectful. I think in this day and age, people are weary.
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Sep 25, 2012 6:31 PM CST Less than 1% reply to massages
dilibogyo: lot of massages .

Yeah I'm good with massages, I have small but strong hands, so I get lots of feedback. thumbs up
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Sep 25, 2012 6:35 PM CST Less than 1% reply to massages
zasimom
zasimomzasimomClarksville, Tennessee USA27 Posts
MADDOG69: Yeah I'm good with massages, I have small but strong hands, so I get lots of feedback.

LOL. I thought that, but didn't want to point it out.
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Sep 25, 2012 6:38 PM CST Less than 1% reply to massages
michaelkk
michaelkkmichaelkkkilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland41 Posts
dilibogyo: Funny thing is that people are here to find someone, and even though I write lot of massages nobody seems to reply.


im guessing you mean messages not massages? ha

wouldnt worry about it..most women on here for their ego or some other reason..

one woman messaged me a few times, i didnt reply and she said..
'oh talk to me! i get lots of messages but im only interested in guys who ignore me'....yes thats what she said laugh
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Sep 25, 2012 6:41 PM CST Less than 1% reply to massages
sadgirl25
sadgirl25sadgirl25santo domingo, Distrito Nacional Dominican Republic6 Threads 9 Posts
Well the same happen to me, i flower some guys and they never reply, maybe because i am not the type of woman they are looking for, anyways dont give up, keep trying u would see. U would find someone special!
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Sep 25, 2012 7:20 PM CST Less than 1% reply to massages
Scubadiva: Real or scam messages?

I think I scare men


The only thing "scary" is the distance. I have no hope of ever visiting Germany, and I'm thinking that emigrating to the U.S. might not be that easy, either.
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Sep 25, 2012 8:56 PM CST Less than 1% reply to massages
dilibogyo
dilibogyodilibogyoNarwee, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 8 Posts
MADDOG69: Yeah I'm good with massages, I have small but strong hands, so I get lots of feedback.


Hehe, good one, now I know why I do not get any reply.
I ask "please massage me" thinking of "please message me", now my chance just doubled. laugh
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Sep 25, 2012 9:00 PM CST Less than 1% reply to massages
dilibogyo
dilibogyodilibogyoNarwee, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 8 Posts
michaelkk:
one woman messaged me a few times, i didnt reply and she said..
'oh talk to me! i get lots of messages but im only interested in guys who ignore me'....yes thats what she said


It is OK not to reply to few messages if we get many, not to mention the weird massages, on the other hand there are people who do not get any messages at all.
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Sep 25, 2012 10:19 PM CST Less than 1% reply to massages
dilibogyo: Funny thing is that people are here to find someone, and even though I write lot of massages nobody seems to reply.


I sometimes reply to emails, just to thank them for writing and then wished I hadn't...sometimes they think it gives them carte blanche to write anything. And well no.....sigh Then the rudeness starts etc...
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Sep 25, 2012 11:10 PM CST Less than 1% reply to massages
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
dilibogyo: Like your positive spirit, it lifted me up too.

Ponder that for a moment and then review your posts on this thread.
dilibogyo: [Unfortunately the world of today getting more n more dehumanised,there's NO respect for one another,]I fully agree with you, and thank you for your comment mate.

dilibogyo: Yes, there are different kind of people, some negligent and selfish so if they do not have any benefit from something they do not reply...

dilibogyo: Yes scam is popular...

dilibogyo: True that most people only after the other person's look...

I know I've been selective, but there's quite a lot of negativity and blaming others there. If you find someone else's positivity uplifting, how do you think your negativity impacts upon others?

This site is a tool for you to use. Nobody owes you anything just because they're a member. Learn to use the tool to your advantage.

Use the facilities provided. The forums, blogs and all the other activities bring you into social contact with others where people can see who you are as a person in so much more depth than they can from just a profile, or cold calling emails. Lots and lots of people read the forums etc., even if they don't contribute, so you have an opportunity to advertise yourself publicly with your views, humour, banter and friendliness.

Get to know people without an agenda. I've noticed many of the men who have women swooning over them are the ones who don't view every person as a potential partner, but who are simply warm and lovely to everyone.

Learn to project the qualities and the things you value about yourself...and you will attract those same values and qualities towards yourself. If you're bitter about other people not replying to you, you'll attract bitterness and no replies back. If you're warm, funny and friendly towards people, they will respond, especially as they get to know you through the forums and stuff.

Don't take things too seriously. The chances of finding the perfect partner in a few weeks, or months are slim, particularly if you're looking for a relationship with some longevity. If you're looking for a quickie, that's quicker to find because its not so important that you're compatible in a number of different ways.

Be patient, enjoy the experience, learn about yourself and other people, but most of all, have fun. yay
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Sep 25, 2012 11:37 PM CST Less than 1% reply to massages
Taobao
TaobaoTaobao*******, Michigan USA81 Posts
Make them laugh they'll write you back.
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