Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman? ( Archived) (61)

Oct 12, 2012 9:02 AM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
Odette67
Odette67Odette67Penrith, Cumbria, England UK15 Threads 263 Posts
I read an article in the Daily Mail yesterday about this guy who loved his wife being bossy...Choosing his clothes and his friends etc etc.

I abhor men who let a woman boss them..I think they are wimpy...What happens in the day time between a man and woman can make or break what happens at bed time..I like a man to stand up to me..When I get a little bossy..that way passions get roused..Good passions..I need a man to be a man..Not a yes dear no dear three bags full dear...It is okay for a woman to boss a man in roll playlaugh love purple heart
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Oct 12, 2012 9:10 AM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
I think each to their own in a relationship. I don't like to be bossed, yet I like to feel protected and cared for - I also know some very strong men in capable positions of power in the workforce that want to surrender to their woman at home.

Some men do like a woman on top - it is a great position of enjoyment. wink

On the other side - A friend from work once told me she believes in her marriage the "love, honor and OBEY" vows. She says she always obeys her husband. I nearly fell out of my chair when I heard that.

There is a match for everyone.
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Oct 12, 2012 9:17 AM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia207 Threads 7 Polls 29,897 Posts
JeanKimberley: I think each to their own in a relationship. I don't like to be bossed, yet I like to feel protected and cared for - I also know some very strong men in capable positions of power in the workforce that want to surrender to their woman at home.

Some men do like a woman on top - it is a great position of enjoyment.

On the other side - A friend from work once told me she believes in her marriage the "love, honor and OBEY" vows. She says she always obeys her husband. I nearly fell out of my chair when I heard that.

There is a match for everyone.

Influence of the decadent west-world
Men hate women on top...

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Oct 12, 2012 9:20 AM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
Boban1: Influence of the decadent west-world
Men hate women on top...


or the position that men in Russia like.... man on top.... woman under bed. doh
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Oct 12, 2012 9:28 AM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
Thats good signal, mean man cant do anything without our approval. cheers
its shown woman are stronger than man.
we will rule the world. cheering
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Oct 12, 2012 9:28 AM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia207 Threads 7 Polls 29,897 Posts
JeanKimberley: or the position that men in Russia like.... man on top.... woman under bed.
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 12, 2012 9:54 AM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
Raynew1959
Raynew1959Raynew1959Barrington, New Hampshire USA146 Threads 3 Polls 3,041 Posts
Odette67: I read an article in the Daily Mail yesterday about this guy who loved his wife being bossy...Choosing his clothes and his friends etc etc.

I abhor men who let a woman boss them..I think they are wimpy...What happens in the day time between a man and woman can make or break what happens at bed time..I like a man to stand up to me..When I get a little bossy..that way passions get roused..Good passions..I need a man to be a man..Not a yes dear no dear three bags full dear...It is okay for a woman to boss a man in roll play


Not this one. My second wife was one who wanted full control over everything.

I couldn't make decisions without going through her first. I got into an auto accident and the other party was suing for $10,000. The lawyer for the insurance company called on a Fri night and needed a decision on proceeding as the court hearing was on the following Mon. She wasn't there and I had to make the decision. Well, she went ballistic when I told her about it.

When she went to work in the mornings, I had a list of things to do around the house if I were not out looking for work,

I have been in the manufacturing force for years and when those jobs disappeared, she tried pushing me into the school system. I took a bus drivers course knowing damn well I wouldn't get the cdl license because of heart disease and almost lost my regular drivers license over it.

My opinion meant nothing to her. She would take someone else's over mine.

Friends........I had none while with her. I was expected to drop someone as a friend because they were female. Her belief was that men and women could not be friends without being intimate. This woman and I had met in an online game, Ultima Online in early '98 and had never met in person. Despite the fact that she and I would never meet face to face, I was expected to drop her as a friend.

Trust was one sided and it killed our marriage.
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Oct 12, 2012 10:05 AM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
Bossed me??? never have allowed it.-Bossed her never tried it.-
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Oct 12, 2012 10:08 AM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
Odette67: I read an article in the Daily Mail yesterday about this guy who loved his wife being bossy...Choosing his clothes and his friends etc etc.

I abhor men who let a woman boss them..I think they are wimpy...What happens in the day time between a man and woman can make or break what happens at bed time..I like a man to stand up to me..When I get a little bossy..that way passions get roused..Good passions..I need a man to be a man..Not a yes dear no dear three bags full dear...It is okay for a woman to boss a man in roll play


I can't say what "men" want. That's too general and I can say I think generalizations should be avoided.

As to the OP most people probaly want those who compromise and accept others as they are without being controlling. From what I read on here in the threads many of us are remaining single because of the fear of having to deal with a controlling partner. I know after several years now of "freedom" I am not sure I can give that up no matter how non-controlling a man may be....dunno
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Oct 12, 2012 10:33 AM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
Odette67
Odette67Odette67Penrith, Cumbria, England UK15 Threads 263 Posts
My opinion meant nothing to her. She would take someone else's over mine.

You poor man...I'm pleased to hear you are not with that Ogre anymore..Best rid I say...Life is far too short to be under the thumb. thumbs down thumbs up laugh purple heart
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Oct 12, 2012 10:41 AM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
michaelkk
michaelkkmichaelkkkilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland90 Posts
personally, i dont like anyone bossy, just shows arrogance more than anything...especially not a partner, had a girlfriend once who tried to be the boss shall we say professor..ha

soon finished with her wave
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Oct 12, 2012 10:44 AM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
michaelkk
michaelkkmichaelkkkilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland90 Posts
think most guys do like a woman who will stand up for herself, but guys who actually like bossy....just wimps, who cant make a decision or little confidence and see their partner almost as a 2nd mother..
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Oct 12, 2012 10:47 AM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
Odette67
Odette67Odette67Penrith, Cumbria, England UK15 Threads 263 Posts
michaelkk: personally, i dont like anyone bossy, just shows arrogance more than anything...especially not a partner, had a girlfriend once who tried to be the boss shall we say ..ha

soon finished with her


You are right.. people who are bossy are arrogant...With those kind of people...It's their way or the highway...If anyone tried to boss me I'd be off into the sunset. wine purple heart
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Oct 12, 2012 10:51 AM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
Odette67
Odette67Odette67Penrith, Cumbria, England UK15 Threads 263 Posts
michaelkk: think most guys do like a woman who will stand up for herself, but guys who actually like bossy....just wimps, who cant make a decision or little confidence and see their partner almost as a 2nd mother..


I can stand up for myself without being bossy..I am quite assertive though...I do not suffer fools. purple heart
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Oct 12, 2012 10:54 AM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
michaelkk
michaelkkmichaelkkkilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland90 Posts
Odette67: I can stand up for myself without being bossy..I am quite assertive though...I do not suffer fools.


assertive is good, guys like and respect that...but bossy is unattractive
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Oct 12, 2012 10:54 AM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
Influence of the decadent west-world
Men love women on top...[/quote]


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Oct 12, 2012 12:26 PM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada183 Threads 44 Polls 4,986 Posts
Odette67: I read an article in the Daily Mail yesterday about this guy who loved his wife being bossy...Choosing his clothes and his friends etc etc.

I abhor men who let a woman boss them..I think they are wimpy...What happens in the day time between a man and woman can make or break what happens at bed time..I like a man to stand up to me..When I get a little bossy..that way passions get roused..Good passions..I need a man to be a man..Not a yes dear no dear three bags full dear...It is okay for a woman to boss a man in roll play


daily mail??rolling on the floor laughing page 3 SUN is much better.at least the pic is excitingyay
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Oct 12, 2012 12:26 PM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada183 Threads 44 Polls 4,986 Posts
Singlelisious: Influence of the decadent west-world
Men love women on top...


only the young tin ones..yesssssssssssssssssssssssslips heart wings yay
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Oct 12, 2012 12:28 PM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada183 Threads 44 Polls 4,986 Posts
JeanKimberley: I think each to their own in a relationship. I don't like to be bossed, yet I like to feel protected and cared for - I also know some very strong men in capable positions of power in the workforce that want to surrender to their woman at home.

Some men do like a woman on top - it is a great position of enjoyment.

On the other side - A friend from work once told me she believes in her marriage the "love, honor and OBEY" vows. She says she always obeys her husband. I nearly fell out of my chair when I heard that.

There is a match for everyone.


you are talking about a chicken not a manlaugh
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Oct 12, 2012 12:29 PM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada183 Threads 44 Polls 4,986 Posts
JeanKimberley: I think each to their own in a relationship. I don't like to be bossed, yet I like to feel protected and cared for - I also know some very strong men in capable positions of power in the workforce that want to surrender to their woman at home.

Some men do like a woman on top - it is a great position of enjoyment.

On the other side - A friend from work once told me she believes in her marriage the "love, honor and OBEY" vows. She says she always obeys her husband. I nearly fell out of my chair when I heard that.

There is a match for everyone.


even for this woman??!!!! noooooooooodoh
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