I read an article in the Daily Mail yesterday about this guy who loved his wife being bossy...Choosing his clothes and his friends etc etc.
I abhor men who let a woman boss them..I think they are wimpy...What happens in the day time between a man and woman can make or break what happens at bed time..I like a man to stand up to me..When I get a little bossy..that way passions get roused..Good passions..I need a man to be a man..Not a yes dear no dear three bags full dear...It is okay for a woman to boss a man in roll play
I think each to their own in a relationship. I don't like to be bossed, yet I like to feel protected and cared for - I also know some very strong men in capable positions of power in the workforce that want to surrender to their woman at home.
Some men do like a woman on top - it is a great position of enjoyment.
On the other side - A friend from work once told me she believes in her marriage the "love, honor and OBEY" vows. She says she always obeys her husband. I nearly fell out of my chair when I heard that.
JeanKimberley: I think each to their own in a relationship. I don't like to be bossed, yet I like to feel protected and cared for - I also know some very strong men in capable positions of power in the workforce that want to surrender to their woman at home.
Some men do like a woman on top - it is a great position of enjoyment.
On the other side - A friend from work once told me she believes in her marriage the "love, honor and OBEY" vows. She says she always obeys her husband. I nearly fell out of my chair when I heard that.
There is a match for everyone.
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Raynew1959Barrington, New Hampshire USA2,218 posts
Odette67: I read an article in the Daily Mail yesterday about this guy who loved his wife being bossy...Choosing his clothes and his friends etc etc.
I abhor men who let a woman boss them..I think they are wimpy...What happens in the day time between a man and woman can make or break what happens at bed time..I like a man to stand up to me..When I get a little bossy..that way passions get roused..Good passions..I need a man to be a man..Not a yes dear no dear three bags full dear...It is okay for a woman to boss a man in roll play
Not this one. My second wife was one who wanted full control over everything.
I couldn't make decisions without going through her first. I got into an auto accident and the other party was suing for $10,000. The lawyer for the insurance company called on a Fri night and needed a decision on proceeding as the court hearing was on the following Mon. She wasn't there and I had to make the decision. Well, she went ballistic when I told her about it.
When she went to work in the mornings, I had a list of things to do around the house if I were not out looking for work,
I have been in the manufacturing force for years and when those jobs disappeared, she tried pushing me into the school system. I took a bus drivers course knowing damn well I wouldn't get the cdl license because of heart disease and almost lost my regular drivers license over it.
My opinion meant nothing to her. She would take someone else's over mine.
Friends........I had none while with her. I was expected to drop someone as a friend because they were female. Her belief was that men and women could not be friends without being intimate. This woman and I had met in an online game, Ultima Online in early '98 and had never met in person. Despite the fact that she and I would never meet face to face, I was expected to drop her as a friend.
Odette67: I read an article in the Daily Mail yesterday about this guy who loved his wife being bossy...Choosing his clothes and his friends etc etc.
I abhor men who let a woman boss them..I think they are wimpy...What happens in the day time between a man and woman can make or break what happens at bed time..I like a man to stand up to me..When I get a little bossy..that way passions get roused..Good passions..I need a man to be a man..Not a yes dear no dear three bags full dear...It is okay for a woman to boss a man in roll play
I can't say what "men" want. That's too general and I can say I think generalizations should be avoided.
As to the OP most people probaly want those who compromise and accept others as they are without being controlling. From what I read on here in the threads many of us are remaining single because of the fear of having to deal with a controlling partner. I know after several years now of "freedom" I am not sure I can give that up no matter how non-controlling a man may be....
personally, i dont like anyone bossy, just shows arrogance more than anything...especially not a partner, had a girlfriend once who tried to be the boss shall we say ..ha
think most guys do like a woman who will stand up for herself, but guys who actually like bossy....just wimps, who cant make a decision or little confidence and see their partner almost as a 2nd mother..
michaelkk: personally, i dont like anyone bossy, just shows arrogance more than anything...especially not a partner, had a girlfriend once who tried to be the boss shall we say ..ha
soon finished with her
You are right.. people who are bossy are arrogant...With those kind of people...It's their way or the highway...If anyone tried to boss me I'd be off into the sunset.
michaelkk: think most guys do like a woman who will stand up for herself, but guys who actually like bossy....just wimps, who cant make a decision or little confidence and see their partner almost as a 2nd mother..
I can stand up for myself without being bossy..I am quite assertive though...I do not suffer fools.
Odette67: I read an article in the Daily Mail yesterday about this guy who loved his wife being bossy...Choosing his clothes and his friends etc etc.
I abhor men who let a woman boss them..I think they are wimpy...What happens in the day time between a man and woman can make or break what happens at bed time..I like a man to stand up to me..When I get a little bossy..that way passions get roused..Good passions..I need a man to be a man..Not a yes dear no dear three bags full dear...It is okay for a woman to boss a man in roll play
daily mail?? page 3 SUN is much better.at least the pic is exciting
JeanKimberley: I think each to their own in a relationship. I don't like to be bossed, yet I like to feel protected and cared for - I also know some very strong men in capable positions of power in the workforce that want to surrender to their woman at home.
Some men do like a woman on top - it is a great position of enjoyment.
On the other side - A friend from work once told me she believes in her marriage the "love, honor and OBEY" vows. She says she always obeys her husband. I nearly fell out of my chair when I heard that.
JeanKimberley: I think each to their own in a relationship. I don't like to be bossed, yet I like to feel protected and cared for - I also know some very strong men in capable positions of power in the workforce that want to surrender to their woman at home.
Some men do like a woman on top - it is a great position of enjoyment.
On the other side - A friend from work once told me she believes in her marriage the "love, honor and OBEY" vows. She says she always obeys her husband. I nearly fell out of my chair when I heard that.
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I abhor men who let a woman boss them..I think they are wimpy...What happens in the day time between a man and woman can make or break what happens at bed time..I like a man to stand up to me..When I get a little bossy..that way passions get roused..Good passions..I need a man to be a man..Not a yes dear no dear three bags full dear...It is okay for a woman to boss a man in roll play