Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman? ( Archived) (54)

Oct 12, 2012 11:31 AM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
Odette67: I can stand up for myself without being bossy..I am quite assertive though...I do not suffer fools.


in just one short sentence you have repeated the word " I ",
3 times...over inflated igocomfort
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Oct 12, 2012 11:46 AM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
Odette67
Odette67Odette67Penrith, Cumbria, England UK9 Threads 139 Posts
michaelkk: assertive is good, guys like and respect that...but bossy is unattractive


One thing I do know...Most men do not want a woman who is a doormat..They like a woman with fire in her bellyapplause purple heart
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Oct 12, 2012 2:38 PM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
a44dreamer
a44dreamera44dreamerNicosia, Cyprus22 Threads 12 Polls 237 Posts
Odette67: You are right.. people who are bossy are arrogant...With those kind of people...It's their way or the highway...If anyone tried to boss me I'd be off into the sunset.

There are bossy men as well. It can work both ways.
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Oct 12, 2012 3:10 PM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
I think some men do but certainly not all. I dont go for that type myself, but I have seen that. But who knows what goes on in the dynamics of a relationship? If it works for them its all good. wine
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Oct 12, 2012 3:12 PM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Odette67: One thing I do know...Most men do not want a woman who is a doormat..They like a woman with fire in her belly


Thats true most men like feistiness, but not all of them can handle it devil
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Oct 12, 2012 3:14 PM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
Odette67
Odette67Odette67Penrith, Cumbria, England UK9 Threads 139 Posts
a44dreamer: There are bossy men as well. It can work both ways.


Sure there are...In my life I have known more bossy woman...My Gran, My Mother, my daughter...They all had and have men who jump..when they speak..All their husbands were quiet and anything for a quiet life.purple heart
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Oct 12, 2012 3:15 PM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
Odette67: Sure there are...In my life I have known more bossy woman...My Gran, My Mother, my daughter...They all had and have men who jump..when they speak..All their husbands were quiet and anything for a quiet life.

Mangina husbands. laugh
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Oct 12, 2012 7:10 PM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
22W00
22W0022W00Antibes, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France1 Threads 313 Posts
Odette67: I can stand up for myself without being bossy..I am quite assertive though...I do not suffer fools.


Ditto! I would not be dictated to by any guy, but a wimpy "yes man" would be worse. Life does not have to be a battle of wills, sometimes compromise is the way forward, although persuasion to my way of thinking can be fun! grin
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Oct 12, 2012 7:18 PM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
Boban1: Influence of the decadent west-world
Men hate women on top...


SOME men, not all men. My first wife liked it this way.
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Oct 12, 2012 7:23 PM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
Sunny143
Sunny143Sunny143christchurch, Canterbury New Zealand112 Threads 20 Polls 1,093 Posts
Woman being bossy..noooooooo way..I don' like any one commanding me..freedom to be myself is what I need..!!dancing
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Oct 12, 2012 7:25 PM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
I will never again be with a bossy woman like my first wife. I learn fast.
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Oct 12, 2012 7:25 PM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Sunny143: Woman being bossy..noooooooo way..I don' like any one commanding me..freedom to be myself is what I need..!!


Sooo I guess tying you up and having my wicked way with you is out eh blues moping
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Oct 12, 2012 7:31 PM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
solsticemoon
solsticemoonsolsticemoonjavea, Valencia Spain64 Threads 4,504 Posts
Hey you..ok lemme bore the pants off ya then!
Nearly missed you, it was the missing 6 that did it!devil
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Oct 12, 2012 7:34 PM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
BigBad
BigBadBigBadMelbourne, Victoria Australia1 Threads 33 Posts
I'd prefer a bossy woman, to a submissive one. To me a battle of wills with someone who knows their own mind and is not shy of expressing it, is far more appealing than a timid door mouse who won't express anything, without involving a long painful drawn out process.
That being said, there is no way I'd just roll over and let her have her way without a fight grin
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Oct 13, 2012 6:19 AM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
Odette67
Odette67Odette67Penrith, Cumbria, England UK9 Threads 139 Posts
HuggerMan4U: I will never again be with a bossy woman like my first wife. I learn fast.


Good for you..You deserve better. purple heart
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Oct 13, 2012 6:23 AM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
Odette67
Odette67Odette67Penrith, Cumbria, England UK9 Threads 139 Posts
BigBad: I'd prefer a bossy woman, to a submissive one. To me a battle of wills with someone who knows their own mind and is not shy of expressing it, is far more appealing than a timid door mouse who won't express anything, without involving a long painful drawn out process.
That being said, there is no way I'd just roll over and let her have her way without a fight


No way would I be submissive...And if I don't like something I can speak up for myself. Me a timid door mouse hehehehelaugh
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Oct 13, 2012 6:44 AM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
I have enough trouble managing my own life let alone another. laugh I'm neither bossy nor submissive...but then my friends don't call me "Freebird" for nothing. laugh

Lots of couples I know get hung-up and fight over little nit picky things instead of agreeing that it's OK to disagree. One does not have to "give into" the other unless it's a serious issue requiring compromise, which anyone can handle if you approach it as an adult. Just understand the differences between you and be considerate instead of bulldozing your opinion over theirs and insisting your right.

Generally, if you R E S P E C T the person then you should respect their opinions, whether you agree or not.


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Oct 13, 2012 6:50 AM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
chris27292729: Bossed me??? never have allowed it.-Bossed her never tried it.-



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Oct 13, 2012 7:04 AM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
And you preference is,???? Let me guess "" to take the initiative,now and then"".dunno
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Oct 13, 2012 7:38 AM CST Do Men Secretly Love Bossy Woman?
whistlinwheel
whistlinwheelwhistlinwheelmelbourne, Victoria Australia296 Posts
Never being in any sort of intimite relationship with a overly bossy girl,which is probably good cause I don't think it would work.beer
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