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Oct 27, 2012 2:51 AM CST unfinished relationships
abcWOMAN
abcWOMANabcWOMANLuleå, Norrbotten Sweden20 Threads 2 Polls 1,583 Posts
It doesn't matter where you live to feel jealousy. If you haven't finished your relationship with your ex, it's better to finish it before moving into a new relationship.

Jealousy got a normal man to kill two people last week. A Finnish woman met a Texas man on the Facebook. They were both around 50 yr. He came to her in Finland and had spent one month in Finland, when they both got shot by her former husband, a 63 year old man. The killer is now in custody. I'm sure he would have gotten a death sentence In Texas.
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Oct 27, 2012 2:57 AM CST unfinished relationships
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
abcWOMAN: It doesn't matter where you live to feel jealousy. If you haven't finished your relationship with your ex, it's better to finish it before moving into a new relationship.

Jealousy got a normal man to kill two people last week. A Finnish woman met a Texas man on the Facebook. They were both around 50 yr. He came to her in Finland and had spent one month in Finland, when they both got shot by her former husband, a 63 year old man. The killer is now in custody. I'm sure he would have gotten a death sentence In Texas.

Ah yes, I can already see the "Better than the rest of us mortals" who never felt jealous and condemn this natural feeling as "primitive" and as soon as someone lifts a eyebrow, he/she should get some anger management as he/she dared to show that they aren`t emotionally dead ...
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Oct 27, 2012 2:57 AM CST unfinished relationships
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
abcWOMAN: It doesn't matter where you live to feel jealousy. If you haven't finished your relationship with your ex, it's better to finish it before moving into a new relationship.

Jealousy got a normal man to kill two people last week. A Finnish woman met a Texas man on the Facebook. They were both around 50 yr. He came to her in Finland and had spent one month in Finland, when they both got shot by her former husband, a 63 year old man. The killer is now in custody. I'm sure he would have gotten a death sentence In Texas.


sometimes , you have to wait till next spring, when the long dark winter is over, then mend the relationships
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Oct 27, 2012 3:09 AM CST unfinished relationships
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
abcWOMAN: It doesn't matter where you live to feel jealousy. If you haven't finished your relationship with your ex, it's better to finish it before moving into a new relationship.

Jealousy got a normal man to kill two people last week. A Finnish woman met a Texas man on the Facebook. They were both around 50 yr. He came to her in Finland and had spent one month in Finland, when they both got shot by her former husband, a 63 year old man. The killer is now in custody. I'm sure he would have gotten a death sentence In Texas.

Ummm...so if someone decides they can't let go of you, you're never allowed to have another relationship?

Or do you demand they no longer feel murderous?
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Oct 27, 2012 3:16 AM CST unfinished relationships
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
jac379: Ummm...so if someone decides they can't let go of you, you're never allowed to have another relationship?

Or do you demand they no longer feel murderous?


Strange things happen in the cold darkness of winter in Finland
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Oct 27, 2012 3:25 AM CST unfinished relationships
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
tomcatwarne: Strange things happen in the cold darkness of winter in Finland

I just don't understand what the OP is saying.

Its like she's blaming the victims for starting a relationship and the fact that a perfectly normal ex-husband murdered them wasn't his fault at all.

He was an ex-husband, ergo the marriage was finished.

Being so jealous that you commit murder is not indicative of a 'normal' psychology.

Is there some information that you've missed out, OP that would make your statements clearer?
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Oct 27, 2012 3:32 AM CST unfinished relationships
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
jac379: I just don't understand what the OP is saying.

Its like she's blaming the victims for starting a relationship and the fact that a perfectly normal ex-husband murdered them wasn't his fault at all.

He was an ex-husband, ergo the marriage was finished.

Being so jealous that you commit murder is not indicative of a 'normal' psychology.

Is there some information that you've missed out, OP that would make your statements clearer?


The inference is that the ex husband was so jealous he was driven insane enough to murder. You would have to understand the psyche of the Finish people to make any sense of it.
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Oct 27, 2012 3:42 AM CST unfinished relationships
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
tomcatwarne: The inference is that the ex husband was so jealous he was driven insane enough to murder. You would have to understand the psyche of the Finish people to make any sense of it.


Odd, I know hundreds of Finnish people, including my whole family, and not one has ever murdered anyone out of jealousy after a split. Nor has any extended family, or friends of the family.

I've never had those sort of feelings myself either, so I don't know where you get the idea that it's a part of a entire nation's psyche.
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Oct 27, 2012 3:46 AM CST unfinished relationships
lonelygal122
lonelygal122lonelygal122HallsGap, Victoria Australia8 Threads 4,567 Posts
kidatheart: Odd, I know hundreds of Finnish people, including my whole family, and not one has ever murdered anyone out of jealousy after a split. Nor has any extended family, or friends of the family.

I've never had those sort of feelings myself either, so I don't know where you get the idea that it's a part of a entire nation's psyche.
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Oct 27, 2012 3:50 AM CST unfinished relationships
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
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I've never had those sort of feelings myself either, so I don't know where you get the idea that it's a part of a entire nation's psyche.


Well it's not my fault you don't have any feelings Kid, hug
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Oct 27, 2012 4:11 AM CST unfinished relationships
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
tomcatwarne: [quote=

I've never had those sort of feelings myself either, so I don't know where you get the idea that it's a part of a entire nation's psyche.Well it's not my fault you don't have any feelings Kid,



I see you're in the mood for insulting people today, well, I'll leave you to it.
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Oct 27, 2012 4:30 AM CST unfinished relationships
Nikogas
NikogasNikogasMetro, Oregon USA46 Threads 5 Polls 4,037 Posts
kidatheart: I see you're in the mood for insulting people today, well, I'll leave you to it.


Hey Kid. wave
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Oct 27, 2012 4:39 AM CST unfinished relationships
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
Nikogas: Hey Kid.
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Hi Bettis wave
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Oct 27, 2012 4:55 AM CST unfinished relationships
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Good post Bobanthumbs up thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
Boban1: Ah yes, I can already see the "Better than the rest of us mortals" who never felt jealous and condemn this natural feeling as "primitive" and as soon as someone lifts a eyebrow, he/she should get some anger management as he/she dared to show that they aren`t emotionally dead ...
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Oct 27, 2012 5:01 AM CST unfinished relationships
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
I'm still confused by the OP.
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Oct 27, 2012 5:40 AM CST unfinished relationships
lastwaltz
lastwaltzlastwaltzSunshine Coast, Queensland Australia7 Threads 143 Posts
abcWOMAN: It doesn't matter where you live to feel jealousy. If you haven't finished your relationship with your ex, it's better to finish it before moving into a new relationship.

Jealousy got a normal man to kill two people last week. A Finnish woman met a Texas man on the Facebook. They were both around 50 yr. He came to her in Finland and had spent one month in Finland, when they both got shot by her former husband, a 63 year old man. The killer is now in custody. I'm sure he would have gotten a death sentence In Texas.


Normal people don't kill whether they are finnish or finished. When it's over you move on.....are you condoning the murders because of jealousy confused No matter it is a very sad event beware the green eyed monstercrazy
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Oct 27, 2012 6:11 AM CST unfinished relationships
abcWOMAN
abcWOMANabcWOMANLuleå, Norrbotten Sweden20 Threads 2 Polls 1,583 Posts
OP doesn't have any opinion or what so ever in this case. Just wanted to point out, what could happened if jealousy stops people from moving on with their lives.
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Oct 27, 2012 6:21 AM CST unfinished relationships
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
kidatheart: I see you're in the mood for insulting people today, well, I'll leave you to it.


Not at all Kid, I would point out the prevalence of SAD in Finland because of the long months without light and sunshine. Also the high incidence of alcoholism for the same reason (I think) . Just because someone has a different point of view does not mean they are being insulting. I see you live in Canada, how long have you been there, have you ever been to Finland???????
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Oct 27, 2012 6:29 AM CST unfinished relationships
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
lastwaltz: Normal people don't kill whether they are finnish or finished. When it's over you move on.....are you condoning the murders because of jealousy No matter it is a very sad event beware the green eyed monster



In France they recognise "a crime of passion" and it is considered mitigating. I believe this is so in other countries but I can't be bothered to google.grin
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Oct 27, 2012 6:36 AM CST unfinished relationships
abcWOMAN
abcWOMANabcWOMANLuleå, Norrbotten Sweden20 Threads 2 Polls 1,583 Posts
kidatheart: Odd, I know hundreds of Finnish people, including my whole family, and not one has ever murdered anyone out of jealousy after a split. Nor has any extended family, or friends of the family.

I've never had those sort of feelings myself either, so I don't know where you get the idea that it's a part of a entire nation's psyche.


I visit Finland quite often (I live not too far away from Finland) and I know Finns are good people. This was just something that happened. It could happened anywhere on this globe!bouquet
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