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Oct 27, 2012 2:01 PM CST PERSONALITY OF LOVE
whitehorse
whitehorsewhitehorseSt. Paul's Bay, Majjistral Malta204 Threads 631 Posts
lOVING SOMEONE UNCONDITIONALLY DOES NOT MEAN STAYING WITH THEM, NO MATTER WHAT.
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Oct 27, 2012 2:02 PM CST PERSONALITY OF LOVE
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
whitehorse: lOVING SOMEONE UNCONDITIONALLY DOES NOT MEAN STAYING WITH THEM, NO MATTER WHAT.



I'm totally with you on that one.thumbs up
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Oct 27, 2012 2:13 PM CST PERSONALITY OF LOVE
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
I agree wine
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Oct 27, 2012 2:18 PM CST PERSONALITY OF LOVE
whitehorse: lOVING SOMEONE UNCONDITIONALLY DOES NOT MEAN STAYING WITH THEM, NO MATTER WHAT.


Is that not just loving someone, why use the word UNCONDITIONALLY if it doesn't mean you will stay no matter what.confused
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Oct 27, 2012 2:21 PM CST PERSONALITY OF LOVE
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Only dogs love unconditionally. Mind you, If humans had hearts like dogs earth would be a better place dancing dog
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Oct 27, 2012 2:30 PM CST PERSONALITY OF LOVE
butterfly0123
butterfly0123butterfly0123Prague, Czech Republic3 Threads 447 Posts
whitehorse: lOVING SOMEONE UNCONDITIONALLY DOES NOT MEAN STAYING WITH THEM, NO MATTER WHAT.


So what does it mean then? confused
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Oct 27, 2012 2:46 PM CST PERSONALITY OF LOVE
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
butterfly0123: So what does it mean then?

Well I love someone, but sometimes she is impossible, well maybe you have had this experience as well, who said love should be easy???
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Oct 27, 2012 3:42 PM CST PERSONALITY OF LOVE
solitare
solitaresolitareBariloche, Rio Negro Argentina40 Threads 4,041 Posts
venusenvy: Only dogs love unconditionally. Mind you, If humans had hearts like dogs earth would be a better place

rolling on the floor laughing


(and cats!)cheering
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Oct 27, 2012 3:58 PM CST PERSONALITY OF LOVE
zmountainman: Is that not just loving someone, why use the word UNCONDITIONALLY if it doesn't mean you will stay no matter what.
Because some physical arrangements are untenable--I have a friend in the city that I love unconditionally. But he's not coming to live with me, guaranteed. Unconditional love does not mean taking whatever someone dishes out. Two different things there, pal.
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Oct 27, 2012 3:59 PM CST PERSONALITY OF LOVE
butterfly0123: So what does it mean then?
It means you accept them, warts and all. (But you don't have to touch the warts). Get it now?
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Oct 27, 2012 5:10 PM CST PERSONALITY OF LOVE
venusenvy: Only dogs love unconditionally. Mind you, If humans had hearts like dogs earth would be a better place


Oh my gosh Venus, so darn true!! heart wings teddybear
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Oct 27, 2012 5:58 PM CST PERSONALITY OF LOVE
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
whitehorse: lOVING SOMEONE UNCONDITIONALLY DOES NOT MEAN STAYING WITH THEM, NO MATTER WHAT.


what u say is NOT unconditionally then
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Oct 27, 2012 7:24 PM CST PERSONALITY OF LOVE
rohaan: Because some physical arrangements are untenable--I have a friend in the city that I love unconditionally. But he's not coming to live with me, guaranteed. Unconditional love does not mean taking whatever someone dishes out. Two different things there, pal.
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Oct 27, 2012 7:25 PM CST PERSONALITY OF LOVE
cloud747: what u say is NOT unconditionally then
You are mistaken about what unconditional means. One does not have to tolerate untenable situations to be said to love unconditionally. That is extremely ridiculous. We are not expected to just take whatever someone does. You need to read some literature about unconditional love.
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Oct 27, 2012 7:37 PM CST PERSONALITY OF LOVE
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
rohaan: You are mistaken about what unconditional means. One does not have to tolerate untenable situations to be said to love unconditionally. That is extremely ridiculous. We are not expected to just take whatever someone does. You need to read some literature about unconditional love.


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hiya rohaan wave

yup, sometimes ya just have to love someone from a distance.
loving someone unconditionally doesn't mean abandoning self love.
or even self respect.
i learned that from my family.
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Oct 27, 2012 7:40 PM CST PERSONALITY OF LOVE
jono7: hiya rohaan

yup, sometimes ya just have to love someone from a distance.
loving someone unconditionally doesn't mean abandoning self love.
or even self respect.
i learned that from my family.
Hiya Jono---have a great weekend, Lovie---teddybear
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Oct 27, 2012 7:43 PM CST PERSONALITY OF LOVE
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
rohaan: Hiya Jono---have a great weekend, Lovie---


thank you
right back at ya...teddybear wine
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Oct 27, 2012 7:47 PM CST PERSONALITY OF LOVE
Unconditional love is love without limitations, and it is constant no matter what the circumstances. If you love only when someone is nice, but not when they are doing wrong, that is not unconditional love. That would be saying, "I'll love you when you're being nice, but forget my loving you at all when you do bad." How can you possibly call this unconditional love? I would much rather be with a woman who would love me unconditionally, even if I occasionally did something stupid, than to have someone who was "on again, off again" in loving me.
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Oct 27, 2012 7:53 PM CST PERSONALITY OF LOVE
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
HuggerMan4U: Unconditional love is love without limitations, and it is constant no matter what the circumstances. If you love only when someone is nice, but not when they are doing wrong, that is not unconditional love. That would be saying, "I'll love you when you're being nice, but forget my loving you at all when you do bad." How can you possibly call this unconditional love? I would much rather be with a woman who would love me unconditionally, even if I occasionally did something stupid, than to have someone who was "on again, off again" in loving me.



I agree with the occasionally doing something stupid part, we all do that. But when things happen again and again that are hurtful I think it's best just to love that person from afar and not have them be a part of your everyday life.
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Oct 27, 2012 7:56 PM CST PERSONALITY OF LOVE
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
HuggerMan4U: Unconditional love is love without limitations, and it is constant no matter what the circumstances. If you love only when someone is nice, but not when they are doing wrong, that is not unconditional love. That would be saying, "I'll love you when you're being nice, but forget my loving you at all when you do bad." How can you possibly call this unconditional love? I would much rather be with a woman who would love me unconditionally, even if I occasionally did something stupid, than to have someone who was "on again, off again" in loving me.


hiya H wave
what if someone loves someone who is abusive?
what about domestic violence?
are you saying that they don't love the person if they leave?
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