robsantiago15: Myself I don't why I keep coming back, but I'm pretty sure a lot people on this ask themselves that question many times.
l agree 100%. l've been on this site since January and only got one ltr. l've sent out a some letters but never get a reply. l even updated my picture. still nothing. l don't know what these women are looking for. maybe they want somebody rich? l couldn't tell you. they don't know a good man when they see one.
robsantiago15: Myself I don't why I keep coming back, but I'm pretty sure a lot people on this ask themselves that question many times.
I've been on this site for six years. A lot of people have let but there are still some that I look forward to mingling with. Plus, I have met a couple people that I talk to everyday. So my reason for being here is just to talk in the forums. Not looking for the love of my life.
wgh30: l agree 100%. l've been on this site since January and only got one ltr. l've sent out a some letters but never get a reply. l even updated my picture. still nothing. l don't know what these women are looking for. maybe they want somebody rich? l couldn't tell you. they don't know a good man when they see one.
Well, I have met some good friends from here in the past but nothing came out of it, and I have met some real psychos in here, but I still haven't met right woman.
In response to: Myself I don't why I keep coming back, but I'm pretty sure a lot people on this ask themselves that question many times.
Its a great place to unwind and "converse" with a wide variety of great people. I have been exposed to some very interesting discussions, have heard some music I have never heard before, have read jokes that had me laughing til my sides hurt, have read original poems and stories (some of which were excellent) and have made some great friends (and beyond!)! Work and life sometimes dictate a departure, but its been five years on and off for me now.
Actually I have been gone for over a year, and only played a little here before then....I got an email that someone wanted to be-friend me...So here I am today....Not much has changed...same folks that were here then, or still here today....hummm I wonder do they ever get out from behind this computer and really meet folks, or do they live in the virtual world???
A_Non_A_Moose: Its a great place to unwind and "converse" with a wide variety of great people. I have been exposed to some very interesting discussions, have heard some music I have never heard before, have read jokes that had me laughing til my sides hurt, have read original poems and stories (some of which were excellent) and have made some great friends (and beyond!)! Work and life sometimes dictate a departure, but its been five years on and off for me now.
I have been a sporadic member of this site for the past couple years and I have to say that a lot of the blogs on this site kept me laughing.
Gagirl327: Actually I have been gone for over a year, and only played a little here before then....I got an email that someone wanted to be-friend me...So here I am today....Not much has changed...same folks that were here then, or still here today....hummm I wonder do they ever get out from behind this computer and really meet folks, or do they live in the virtual world???
I'm pretty sure they do, but perhaps the dating scene sometimes can be disappointing at times.
In response to: Myself I don't why I keep coming back, but I'm pretty sure a lot people on this ask themselves that question many times.
I left for awhile cause I became burnt out from the bickering and it wasn't fun to be here.But the other day I decided to just check in to see what the opinions would be regarding the president re-election.
Ccincy: I left for awhile cause I became burnt out from the bickering and it wasn't fun to be here.But the other day I decided to just check in to see what the opinions would be regarding the president re-election.
Gagirl327: Actually I have been gone for over a year, and only played a little here before then....I got an email that someone wanted to be-friend me...So here I am today....Not much has changed...same folks that were here then, or still here today....hummm I wonder do they ever get out from behind this computer and really meet folks, or do they live in the virtual world???
Speaking for myself I have indeed shut off the computer and gone out to meet "reality".
Gagirl327: Actually I have been gone for over a year, and only played a little here before then....I got an email that someone wanted to be-friend me...So here I am today....Not much has changed...same folks that were here then, or still here today....hummm I wonder do they ever get out from behind this computer and really meet folks, or do they live in the virtual world???
Like you Gagirl I left too only came back acouple days ago mainly to check on opinions regarding the election.
The day I left here it was long overdue for me to return to reality.
Personally I enjoy the forums and some of the games as well. Yes, I have met a few people from here for coffee or a meal and all were pleasant company.
I have not met 'Mr Right for me', and if he turns up it would be amazing. However, this site offers so much more than possible dates.
I definitely do not 'live on here' and have a real life, as do most of us; but as a single person, I find it an interesting place to visit, exchange ideas, read opinions and poetry and play the word games.
I also DO reply to all messages and believe that manners cost nothing...even if it is a "thank you, but I don't feel we are suited. All the best".
We are all here for our own reasons, however, I feel if the only reason is to find a life partner, people may be disappointed. If it was not such a diverse site, I think very few would stay.
Personally I enjoy the forums and some of the games as well. Yes, I have met a few people from here for coffee or a meal and all were pleasant company.
I have not met 'Mr Right for me', and if he turns up it would be amazing. However, this site offers so much more than possible dates.
I definitely do not 'live on here' and have a real life, as do most of us; but as a single person, I find it an interesting place to visit, exchange ideas, read opinions and poetry and play the word games.
I also DO reply to all messages and believe that manners cost nothing...even if it is a "thank you, but I don't feel we are suited. All the best".
We are all here for our own reasons, however, I feel if the only reason is to find a life partner, people may be disappointed. If it was not such a diverse site, I think very few would stay.
CS is totally addicting. So many features to keep us occupied. Puzzles, games, forums, blogs, profiles, emails (for the lucky ones), and so much more. Great interaction with others. And since this is an International site, we get viewpoints from so many other members from other countries. Where else on the Internet can you get so much from a dating site at no cost? As if this were not enough, we have the totally awesome CS women on here that are so beyond amazing! How could anybody NOT be addicted to this site?
HuggerMan4U: CS is totally addicting. So many features to keep us occupied. Puzzles, games, forums, blogs, profiles, emails (for the lucky ones), and so much more. Great interaction with others. And since this is an International site, we get viewpoints from so many other members from other countries. Where else on the Internet can you get so much from a dating site at no cost? As if this were not enough, we have the totally awesome CS women on here that are so beyond amazing! How could anybody NOT be addicted to this site?
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