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Nov 10, 2012 11:00 PM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
robsantiago15
robsantiago15robsantiago15Lowell, Massachusetts USA13 Threads 1,011 Posts
This is your opportunity to spill your guts out...
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Nov 10, 2012 11:30 PM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada15 Threads 25,285 Posts
robsantiago15: This is your opportunity to spill your guts out...


On this site, distance is a huge obstacle. On local sites, finding someone genuine is a challenge...more of a challenge than I'm willing to put up with. I look at it this way...if it's meant to be, it will be and if not, oh well. dunno sigh
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Nov 10, 2012 11:38 PM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
abcWOMAN
abcWOMANabcWOMANLuleå, Norrbotten Sweden21 Threads 3 Polls 1,919 Posts
2intrigued: On this site, distance is a huge obstacle. On local sites, finding someone genuine is a challenge...more of a challenge than I'm willing to put up with. I look at it this way...if it's meant to be, it will be and if not, oh well.


I agree!
The distance is perhaps the main obstacle. It's difficult to meet halfway, at least on a regularly basis.
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Nov 10, 2012 11:43 PM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico184 Threads 24 Polls 22,381 Posts
robsantiago15: What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?


I am picky.






flirty
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Nov 10, 2012 11:45 PM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
robsantiago15
robsantiago15robsantiago15Lowell, Massachusetts USA13 Threads 1,011 Posts
lifeisadream: I am picky.
Really?
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Nov 10, 2012 11:49 PM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
pretty much what 2intrigued said - factors of distance and the time sorting out who is genuine....I tired of that sorting so I really am mostly here to chat & socialize on the forums. meeting people in real life situations is better because it is easier to get to know someone that way

if I meet someone online, great, but I am not actively searching on here
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Nov 10, 2012 11:51 PM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
A_Non_A_Moose
A_Non_A_MooseA_Non_A_MooseWestlock, Alberta Canada158 Threads 13 Polls 5,277 Posts
The "road" to the establishment of ANY relationship will have its hurdles. I do not seek the reasons why it will NOT work, but moreover, I seek the way to MAKE it work!
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Nov 10, 2012 11:51 PM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
robsantiago15
robsantiago15robsantiago15Lowell, Massachusetts USA13 Threads 1,011 Posts
Distance, social anxiety, lack of energy due to mental fatigue from work... I'm pretty sure that there more obstacle that I have, but those are the main ones.
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Nov 10, 2012 11:54 PM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada15 Threads 25,285 Posts
A_Non_A_Moose: The "road" to the establishment of ANY relationship will have its hurdles. I do not seek the reasons why it will NOT work, but moreover, I seek the way to MAKE it work!


Sounds like you'll be hearing wedding bells soon. laugh grin
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Nov 10, 2012 11:56 PM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
A_Non_A_Moose: The "road" to the establishment of ANY relationship will have its hurdles. I do not seek the reasons why it will NOT work, but moreover, I seek the way to MAKE it work!

love that attitude! good for you!!
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Nov 10, 2012 11:57 PM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
robsantiago15
robsantiago15robsantiago15Lowell, Massachusetts USA13 Threads 1,011 Posts
2intrigued: Sounds like you'll be hearing wedding bells soon.
Common you are going to scare the poor man...laugh
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Nov 10, 2012 11:58 PM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
A_Non_A_Moose
A_Non_A_MooseA_Non_A_MooseWestlock, Alberta Canada158 Threads 13 Polls 5,277 Posts
2intrigued: Sounds like you'll be hearing wedding bells soon.


Who me?: Bells? Yes, Christmas nears! Jingle bells, silver bells,....laugh
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Nov 10, 2012 11:59 PM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada15 Threads 25,285 Posts
robsantiago15: Common you are going to scare the poor man...


He's Canadian...he can handle it. professor rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 11, 2012 12:00 AM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada15 Threads 25,285 Posts
A_Non_A_Moose: Who me?: Bells? Yes, Christmas nears! Jingle bells, silver bells,....


laugh grin
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Nov 11, 2012 12:00 AM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
robsantiago15: Distance, social anxiety, lack of energy due to mental fatigue from work... I'm pretty sure that there more obstacle that I have, but those are the main ones.


I can agree with some of that also - I recently moved here - don't know a soul -work long hours and am a single non custodial mom so I spend a lot of time with my kids and traveling to see them - my oldest did just move here - which is nice

I suppose if I met the right person I would make some adjustments dunno but my life right now isn't conducive to meeting people socially
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Nov 11, 2012 12:01 AM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
A_Non_A_Moose
A_Non_A_MooseA_Non_A_MooseWestlock, Alberta Canada158 Threads 13 Polls 5,277 Posts
2intrigued: He's Canadian...he can handle it.
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Got that right!wink
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Nov 11, 2012 12:02 AM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
Mysst
MysstMysstSpringfield, Missouri USA11 Threads 1 Polls 373 Posts
Quality
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Nov 11, 2012 12:03 AM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
robsantiago15
robsantiago15robsantiago15Lowell, Massachusetts USA13 Threads 1,011 Posts
felixis99: I can agree with some of that also - I recently moved here - don't know a soul -work long hours and am a single non custodial mom so I spend a lot of time with my kids and traveling to see them - my oldest did just move here - which is nice

I suppose if I met the right person I would make some adjustments but my life right now isn't conducive to meeting people socially
Basically life has become a routine and we have become prisoners of our own routine.
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Nov 11, 2012 12:03 AM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
A_Non_A_Moose
A_Non_A_MooseA_Non_A_MooseWestlock, Alberta Canada158 Threads 13 Polls 5,277 Posts
robsantiago15: Common you are going to scare the poor man...


Thanks for the concern,...but yeah,....I'm Canuck and not easily frightened. And to boot,...no hair, no scare!rolling on the floor laughing cheers
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Nov 11, 2012 12:06 AM CST What is your major obstacle when it comes to finding that significant other?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada15 Threads 25,285 Posts
A_Non_A_Moose: Got that right!


You Albertans are tough...snow higher than your roof, bitter cold winters to make any mans goods recede into the innermost regions, and all the while, dodging moose on the roads.laugh hug
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