How to start over? (12)
LadyFarmerWinfield, Alberta Canada20 Threads 2 Polls 60 PostsMarried young at 20 took care of family for 35yrs.They left.I'm alone.Am I to old to start over?Would anybody want me?
I had a customer in the store who was recently married at the age of 78 ... she leaned over the counter to me and patted my hand and said that there was hope for me! lol She was so in love and very happy. Love indeed can find us at any age - just have to be open to the possibilities and the opportunities.
It may not be easy to start over, but sometimes it can be fun trying!!
Every morning when you open your eyes, technically, you are "starting over". But I do not like the phrase "starting over". I prefer, "beginning afresh". Open your heart to the possibilities. It sounds like "freedom" has presented itself to you. Embrace it. Old? The number of calendars a person has seen does not signify age - attitude will define age!!! I, to this very day, do not let what I see in the mirror (a ruggedly handsome man hellbent for passion!
) dictate what I feel in my heart! Remember to wake up and fall in love with YOU everyday, each and every morning,....and once you have learned to fall in love with the remarkable person that you are,...it makes it so, so much more easy for others to do so as well! 
) dictate what I feel in my heart! Remember to wake up and fall in love with YOU everyday, each and every morning,....and once you have learned to fall in love with the remarkable person that you are,...it makes it so, so much more easy for others to do so as well! LadyFarmer: Married young at 20 took care of family for 35yrs.They left.I'm alone.Am I to old to start over?Would anybody want me?
Personally I'm starting over myself after 26 yrs and what find to be the most difficult part about is letting go and it not the cherished memories that make it difficult but the painful ones personally I find best not enter any serious relationship until I let go that pain because I don't want to carry them into a new relationship, now I just to focus on rediscovering myself and if checked my profile I'm just looking for a casual connection right now a cyberfriend, don't worry your beautiful woman you will find happiness again either way 1 step at time nobody1: Personally I'm starting over myself after 26 yrs and what find to be the most difficult part about is letting go and it not the cherished memories that make it difficult but the painful ones personally I find best not enter any serious relationship until I let go that pain because I don't want to carry them into a new relationship, now I just to focus on rediscovering myself and if checked my profile I'm just looking for a casual connection right now a cyberfriend, don't worry your beautiful woman you will find happiness again either way 1 step at time
If you didn't realize it previous, you are wise. One must heal and let go first. I wish you luck nobody and welcome to the Canadian Forums!
Da Moose (aka Marvin)
Ahhh My darlin darlin...Take it from me, I have started over many times now. Its never too late. Remember life is for the brave ...Good luck in your wonderful new life
venusenvy: Ahhh My darlin darlin...Take it from me, I have started over many times now. Its never too late. Remember life is for the brave ...Good luck in your wonderful new life
A_Non_A_Moose: If you didn't realize it previous, you are wise. One must heal and let go first. I wish you luck nobody and welcome to the Canadian Forums!
Da Moose (aka Marvin)
thanks for the complement I do have my momentsDa Moose (aka Marvin)
kennn: It may not be easy to start over, but sometimes it can be fun trying!!
And sometimes you have no choice in the matter. I did not envision me looking for love at my age! But when a spouse dies and leaves you alone that is where you find yourself.
And yes, I think we have to laugh at ourself and our foibles in the process or cry trying!
nobody1: Personally I'm starting over myself after 26 yrs and what find to be the most difficult part about is letting go and it not the cherished memories that make it difficult but the painful ones personally I find best not enter any serious relationship until I let go that pain because I don't want to carry them into a new relationship, now I just to focus on rediscovering myself and if checked my profile I'm just looking for a casual connection right now a cyberfriend, don't worry your beautiful woman you will find happiness again either way 1 step at time
I think that there are few that can say that life has turned out how we thought it would ..... but what I've learned and am still learning is to make the best of what you have and keep moving forward. The pain of loss can cripple us if we allow it to ..... its about what choices we make that make all the difference in how our world turns out.
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