Is this what Christmas has become? ( Archived) (15)

Nov 21, 2012 10:11 AM CST Is this what Christmas has become?
I'm not a religious person so I don't celibrate Cristmas. That would only make me a hypocrite, but even if I did, I surely wouldn't get involved with all this BS about Black Friday or all this insanity about shopping for presents and going into debt doing it. Just read the following and if it doesn't turn your stomach you just may be one of the nut jobs that will be out chasing your tail like a rabid dog.

"Wal-Mart Stores Inc., is promoting its promise to match other retailers' prices through the holidays. But even bigger news is that for the first time this year, Target and Best Buy will match web retailers. Some experts predict the plans will backfire on retailers as customers go to extreme measures to dig up low prices. Sheri Petras, chief executive of CFI Group, a consulting company that measures customer satisfaction, speculated this week to the Wall Street Journal: "Can you imagine being on the checkout line at Target with 20 items and you're scanning products on your phone to find out the gum is 12 cents less at Amazon? "she said. "Can you imagine standing behind that person in line?" Don't worry about that adding to your Black Friday headache. It doesn't appear that any major retailers will match competitors' Black Friday prices. Still, it's good to keep these policies in mind throughout the season. Wal-mart: Stores honors other prices offered at local stores (not online retailers) on exact items, including buy-one-get-one-free and loyalty card deals. Shoppers do not need to show other stores' ads. Target Corp.: Stores honor listed prices of exact items at other retailers or Target.com through Dec. 24. Shoppers must show Target.com receipts or other stores' current ads or catalogs. Stores also match prices of exact items from Amazon.com, Walmart.com, BestBuy.com, ToysRUs.com or BabiesRUs.com. -- must be those retailers, not third-party sellers -- through Dec. 16. Stores won't match prices from stores or online retailers offered on Nov. 22 through 24, or on out-of-stock items. Best Buy Co. Inc.: Stores honors other prices offered at local stores and BestBuy.com on exact, in-stock items through Jan. 24. For appliances and electronics only, stores will match prices at 20 online competitors, including Target.com, Amazon.com, Walmart.com, HomeDepot.com and Lowes.com on. Best Buy won't match prices offered at any retailer between Nov. 22 and Nov. 26. Sears: Stores honor competitors' store and web prices on exact, in-stock items. Shoppers must show ad within 14 days of their Sears purchase. Online prices include charges for shipping and handling, but not delivery; also, online-only prices don't qualify. Sears doesn't honor others' Black Friday prices. Kmart: Stores honor competitors' store prices on exact, in-stock items, but not online prices."

Make life easy for yourself, give money!gift
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Nov 21, 2012 10:17 AM CST Is this what Christmas has become?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
It's all about profits,power struggles and greed.

Too much commericalization and takes away from the REAL meaning of Christmas.
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Nov 21, 2012 10:23 AM CST Is this what Christmas has become?
gods b-day why not party?
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Nov 25, 2012 9:44 AM CST Is this what Christmas has become?
CHOLENA
CHOLENACHOLENAStrasbourg, Grand Est France6 Threads 242 Posts
I don't get involved with all the shopping bs. There are nice things about Xmas if they aren't carried over the top~~the lights and decorations, the music, food, food feelings and fellowship, beautiful church services, giving to charity, etc. Those people who focus on the shopping aspect, who focus on spending huge amounts of money on gifts, who have to get their kids the most popular toys or designer brands, those people are sad, imo.

I'm going to Paris for Xmas and New Years, not so shop but to enjoy Paris, the festive atmosphere, food, decorations, etc. Not to shop. I am not interested in shopping.
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Nov 25, 2012 9:44 AM CST Is this what Christmas has become?
CHOLENA
CHOLENACHOLENAStrasbourg, Grand Est France6 Threads 242 Posts
I don't get involved with all the shopping bs. There are nice things about Xmas if they aren't carried over the top~~the lights and decorations, the music, food, food feelings and fellowship, beautiful church services, giving to charity, etc. Those people who focus on the shopping aspect, who focus on spending huge amounts of money on gifts, who have to get their kids the most popular toys or designer brands, those people are sad, imo.

I'm going to Paris for Xmas and New Years, not so shop but to enjoy Paris, the festive atmosphere, food, decorations, etc. Not to shop. I am not interested in shopping.
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Nov 25, 2012 9:44 AM CST Is this what Christmas has become?
CHOLENA
CHOLENACHOLENAStrasbourg, Grand Est France6 Threads 242 Posts
I don't get involved with all the shopping bs. There are nice things about Xmas if they aren't carried over the top~~the lights and decorations, the music, food, food feelings and fellowship, beautiful church services, giving to charity, etc. Those people who focus on the shopping aspect, who focus on spending huge amounts of money on gifts, who have to get their kids the most popular toys or designer brands, those people are sad, imo.

I'm going to Paris for Xmas and New Years, not so shop but to enjoy Paris, the festive atmosphere, food, decorations, etc. Not to shop. I am not interested in shopping.
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Nov 25, 2012 9:53 AM CST Is this what Christmas has become?
I had to deliver a load of bamboo fire starter bundles to a guy in Richmond and stopped in Best Buy to get some AAA batteries. I walked all around the store and felt like I was dropped into the 23rd century Nothing in that store had any relevance for me. I finally asked an emp if they sold batteries and he said he thinks there's a display over by the checkout. Yep there was, $8.49 for an 8 pack. I walked out and found a Dollar Tree next door. I got 16 batteries for 3 bucks.
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Nov 25, 2012 10:01 AM CST Is this what Christmas has become?
SnarkyEmpath
SnarkyEmpathSnarkyEmpathPurgatory, New Jersey USA67 Posts
Personally, I get more into trying to figure out the most thoughtful gifts to get my family. I don't believe that the best gifts are the most expensive. I like to actually put thought into things that the people I love will enjoy and benefit from. For example, I am giving my sister in law a beautiful photo album that I got from a friend. I have nowhere to display this particular item, and she is meticulous with decorating, so I feel she will get more use out of it.
As for the children in my life, I have begun a tradition of giving them books they might enjoy. This way, they have fun while expanding their imaginations and reading comprehension. If not that, I would find things for them based on their passions. For instance, one of my nieces wants to be a scientist. Based on that, I might find a children's chemistry set for her.
This is how I think Christmas gifts should be: based on thoughtfulness, not price tags. I feel it is more meaningful to give gifts that have thought put into them than just checking to see what costs the most. I feel that this is more representative of what Christmas is supposed to mean: Celebrating love and togetherness.
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Nov 25, 2012 10:03 AM CST Is this what Christmas has become?
SnarkyEmpath
SnarkyEmpathSnarkyEmpathPurgatory, New Jersey USA67 Posts
ooby_dooby: I had to deliver a load of bamboo fire starter bundles to a guy in Richmond and stopped in Best Buy to get some AAA batteries. I walked all around the store and felt like I was dropped into the 23rd century Nothing in that store had any relevance for me. I finally asked an emp if they sold batteries and he said he thinks there's a display over by the checkout. Yep there was, $8.49 for an 8 pack. I walked out and found a Dollar Tree next door. I got 16 batteries for 3 bucks.

Yea, people are mostly committing highway robbery where batteries are concerned. roll eyes It's kind of disgusting, really. But thank goodness for the Dollar Tree! grin
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Nov 25, 2012 10:08 AM CST Is this what Christmas has become?
candio
candiocandioYoungstown, Ohio USA20 Threads 568 Posts
I personally never get involved in the Black Friday shopping. I will however, do a little Small Business shopping on Saturday should the need be there. I believe in supporting the local small businesses....someone has to.
As for the price matching... I guess things are lax in VA. Here in Ohio... Walmart does the price matching all year long. Only on exact items and here in Ohio... you HAVE to show the competitors ad with the item clearly listed.
I never go into debt for the holidays. If I can't afford a fancy gift then no one gets it. I prefer to make gifts by hand. The only things I will spend money on are toys for the little ones and NEVER have or will purchase video games for them.
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Nov 25, 2012 10:18 AM CST Is this what Christmas has become?
MarieLeveau
MarieLeveauMarieLeveauSt. John's, Newfoundland Canada103 Posts
I'm also not a religious person yet I do celebrate Christmas. The holiday doesn't have to be commerialized if you don't let it. You can celebrate Christmas without going to Black Friday events or spending tons of money. I happen to like shopping for my family but I start doing it early so that I don't leave it all until the holidays. I think it's a great time of year. My favourite things about Christmas is visiting with friends and family, cooking, the tree and Christmas music..so you see..there are a lot of things to enjoy about Christmas. It's not all "spending money" to some people. Christmas comes from the heart..not the pocketbook. If you look at it that way then you too can enjoy the holidays.
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Nov 25, 2012 12:45 PM CST Is this what Christmas has become?
I LOVE Christmas, but I don´t get dragged into the frenzy of buying now. In fact I don´t even send Christmas cards. But when I was younger, I used to wallow in the excitement of shopping at the last minute for pressies. Nowadays, I just give gifts to my direct family.
I still enjoy that happy feeling of preparing Christmas Dinner and laying a "special" table.
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Nov 25, 2012 1:03 PM CST Is this what Christmas has become?
cataluna
catalunacatalunaBruxelles, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium2 Threads 177 Posts
The letter my kid wrote to Santa is too cute. As long as it's possible, I love to see her jumping with joy when she receives what she wanted. Ahh, even if she'll wake me up again at 4 am to see what's under the tree. :)))
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Nov 25, 2012 2:11 PM CST Is this what Christmas has become?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Life is what you make it. Im not religious buuuut I LOVE Christmas!!

Im working retail and even though I get the grunts, I also see the spirit of giving in real life. A big scandal/robbery happened up here with the Salvation Army and this has resulted in a bumper crop of donations and awareness AND the cops recovered the loot along with the criminals. Alls well that ends well, a true 21st century Christmas tale.

Miracle are small things, they happen around us all the time. yay
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Dec 3, 2012 7:52 AM CST Is this what Christmas has become?
Migsy
MigsyMigsycandelaria quezon, Calabarzon Philippines16 Threads 1,632 Posts
X-mas is the saddest holidays for me,i am living alone away from family for 3years now,anyways just love the spirit of yuletile season
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