step-children (8)

do u love ur step children as much as ur blood children?

i dont think i could love another other person as much as i love my kids.


but think i would try my darnest if i every hooked up with someone who had a child at least be friends

I reckon it'd be easy... if you dont want your daughter, send her here, I'll have her... she looks so cute in your piccie..

lol... no, just saying... I know you'd never part with her...

but if you are worried that someone might not love her as much ... dont be worried... you will find that most children can be loved...

got a question???

do you think that anything comes as close to your love for your child?

Your natural children are part of you and of course they will be your top priority. And it is so easy to love your step-children as well. They are part of the package when you remarry.

But like anything, you may not like what your children or step-children are doing, does not mean that you have to love them any less.

well seeing as she was in the hospital for the first six months of her life i feel that i have an even deeper appreciation of the fact that she is here in this world and that she is my blood..........when i see ppl with their children that never went thru so much trauma as happened when my girl was born sometimes i think that those ppl dont know how lucky they are.........but looking back on my life there is nothing that has happened that i would change because then i would not be the person that i am/know the things that i know.........but they reason that i asked that question is because i do have step-children.......3 of them.........and their mum has moved them away to a different town and i miss them badly........but as the relationship with their mum had turned so abusive i felt that i had to change my number so that she couldnt send me the abusive txts anymore.............the two youngest ones started calling me dad within a week of me hooking up with their mum.....they had never known a dad so i am the only dad they have ever known..............i really miss them like crazy but am not willing to give my number to their mum and have the txts start up again.......i know that they will come back to me but the waiting is so hard.........like part of me is missing............so no there is nothing that compares to the love i have for my daughter but my step-children definately have a big part of my heart as well