Connecting Singles.........REALLY ??? (51)

Dec 17, 2012 3:31 AM CST Connecting Singles.........REALLY ???
iamamm
iamammiamammBaza, 18800, Granada Province, Andalusia Spain16 Threads 2 Polls 417 Posts
I was on this site for about 3 years, I just gave up frankly
and left the site for about a year, hoping some new faces might be different ?....Sadly , they aren't ..

You can leave the insults , pleeaaase !!
though many ladies who chose to look at my profile
and not the other way around, have been amazingly rude
or just plain bad mannered .

I have my own thoughts about me, them, this site ( and we can discuss if you want ) but let me tell you this......

I JOINED ANOTHER SITE....PLANNING TO DROP CS TOTALLY
and what happened ?
more than 150..maybe 200 messages in about a week ,sent to me !

So , is there something wrong with CS or its ' members ' ?

Be interested to hear from males and females
what they think ?
or is everyone just here for the chats only ?
Dec 17, 2012 3:48 AM CST Connecting Singles.........REALLY ???
Rogerzoekt
RogerzoektRogerzoektBrivezac, Nouvelle-Aquitaine France33 Threads 26 Polls 191 Posts
There's a lot of dating sites so people have so many choices these days.
To be honest I've been on a dating site in Françe that claimed to be free, but after revieving dozens of emails from beautiful women i found out i could not reply unless i payed. Which stupidly enough i did, after which miraculously all the mailing stopped and there was no more interest from any women. Talking about scams.scold

I did not write to anyone either, so can hardly blame the women, but a waste of 90€.

Which brings me to CS. I think it does what it says and i feel its the best site around. There's no hidden policy to make you pay for normal services like responding, or seeing who's visited your profile or that sort of things.
I found that i got more contacts out of this free site in 2 weeks than in 6 months on the most popular paying french site.
And i m not talking about russian scammers or other golddiggers.
Real serious and nice women.

I feel the women on a site like this are more open minded and have a wordly view than on local sites.

I plan to stay for as long as it takes.

However i do not like the people that stay on this site just for the forums. Dont know why but i find those peeping Toms kinda people.
But then again, I'm dutch.
angel
Dec 17, 2012 10:12 AM CST Connecting Singles.........REALLY ???
iamamm
iamammiamammBaza, 18800, Granada Province, Andalusia Spain16 Threads 2 Polls 417 Posts
Rogerzoekt:
....Which brings me to CS. I think it does what it says and i feel its the best site around. There's no hidden policy to make you pay for normal services like responding, or seeing who's visited your profile or that sort of things.
I found that i got more contacts out of this free site in 2 weeks than in 6 months on the most popular paying french site.
And i m not talking about russian scammers or other golddiggers.
Real serious and nice women.

I feel the women on a site like this are more open minded and have a wordly view than on local sites.

However i do not like the people that stay on this site just for the forums. Dont know why but i find those peeping Toms kinda people.
But then again, I'm dutch.


Hi Rogerzoekt
Slightly shortened your reply..
Agree totally with no fees and nothing hidden, and I have no complaints on those issues.
I have never paid for a site , so couldnt comment fully
but have had lots of invites to all sorts of sites
and have to say the photo and profile of the person ( gorgeous female ) was far too good to be true !
But I have had so many scammers in the last 3 months on CS
some are so obvious and even have ' scammer ' comments posted
by other members under their photos
( assume they have chatted ? ) I really don't
understand why the Moderators don't delete them from the site ?
I would guess 50% of my ' viewers or messagers ' are scammers
and others so rude as to be insulting .
I really don't see the need ; it's not my style
but maybe a lot of the problems I have ' endured ' relate to Europeans who live in Spain.
( I could explain in detail, but won't on here ! )
So my experience is the opposite to you...close minded and not at all worldly.
I wonder whether its because you are a younger guy and living NOT in Spain ?
But put it like this ....I know dozens of people in Spain who are still on this site 5 years later, so I am guessing they are either looking for ' their idea of perfection ' or not genuine about dating , and are here just to chat or become ' Forum Friends ' .
Understand some will want that, but surely this is a dating site..
and you would hope to be able to chat politely to genuine people who actually do want to date ?

Cheers and Good Luck to you, Andy :)
Dec 17, 2012 11:05 AM CST Connecting Singles.........REALLY ???
Rogerzoekt
RogerzoektRogerzoektBrivezac, Nouvelle-Aquitaine France33 Threads 26 Polls 191 Posts
Like i said i agree on you there.
I also only want to chat with people that r actually single and looking for a partner.

But i have had no rude mails at all.

I did have scammers however, but they r easy to spot.

Good luck anyway.

Roger
Dec 17, 2012 11:13 AM CST Connecting Singles.........REALLY ???
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
iamamm: I was on this site for about 3 years, I just gave up frankly
and left the site for about a year, hoping some new faces might be different ?....Sadly , they aren't ..

You can leave the insults , pleeaaase !!
though many ladies who chose to look at my profile
and not the other way around, have been amazingly rude
or just plain bad mannered .

I have my own thoughts about me, them, this site ( and we can discuss if you want ) but let me tell you this......

I JOINED ANOTHER SITE....PLANNING TO DROP CS TOTALLY
and what happened ?
more than 150..maybe 200 messages in about a week ,sent to me !

So , is there something wrong with CS or its ' members ' ?

Be interested to hear from males and females
what they think ?
or is everyone just here for the chats only ?


So why are you back here? confused
Dec 17, 2012 1:28 PM CST Connecting Singles.........REALLY ???
iamamm
iamammiamammBaza, 18800, Granada Province, Andalusia Spain16 Threads 2 Polls 417 Posts
Rogerzoekt: Like i said i agree on you there.
I also only want to chat with people that r actually single and looking for a partner.

But i have had no rude mails at all.

I did have scammers however, but they r easy to spot.

Good luck anyway.

Roger


Well....I sure wouldn't be looking for someone already married !grin Cheers Roger !
Dec 17, 2012 1:37 PM CST Connecting Singles.........REALLY ???
iamamm
iamammiamammBaza, 18800, Granada Province, Andalusia Spain16 Threads 2 Polls 417 Posts
So why are you back here? confused

Thanks !
Godsgift......hmmmm , yet another no-photo commenter
Jeez, I love you anonymous persons doh

Do you want to try and read ( completely ) my posting again ????
and might I be right guessing you are a regular to the Threads and Forums ? roll eyes
Dec 17, 2012 2:11 PM CST Connecting Singles.........REALLY ???
iamamm
iamammiamammBaza, 18800, Granada Province, Andalusia Spain16 Threads 2 Polls 417 Posts
Godsgift: So why are you back here?


Hey, I just realised / found out that you can click under your
( non ) profile photo, and find out if you are a regular ????

WOW.....185 pages of Threads
767 pages of Postings

OMG....So that was a good instinctive guess of mine, then ? rolling on the floor laughing
Dec 17, 2012 3:52 PM CST Connecting Singles.........REALLY ???
Rogerzoekt
RogerzoektRogerzoektBrivezac, Nouvelle-Aquitaine France33 Threads 26 Polls 191 Posts
Cant say it enough, i have had not even one rude or impolite posting or mail.

Maybe you've had a bit of bad luck stumbling on someone in a bad mood.

Dont be discouraged.

Forget it and continue.

I feel its a great site and i am thankfull for the fact its free and you have every option you need to mail and view people you want.

Good luck.

Roger
Dec 18, 2012 3:28 AM CST Connecting Singles.........REALLY ???
iamamm
iamammiamammBaza, 18800, Granada Province, Andalusia Spain16 Threads 2 Polls 417 Posts
Rogerzoekt: Cant say it enough, i have had not even one rude or impolite posting or mail.

Maybe you've had a bit of bad luck stumbling on someone in a bad mood.

Dont be discouraged.

Forget it and continue.

I feel its a great site and i am thankfull for the fact its free and you have every option you need to mail and view people you want.

Good luck.

Roger


I never get discouraged and am always optimistic....tomorrow's another day , hey ?
and it's my Birthday, so off out dancing tonight ...dancing yay
Dec 20, 2012 7:19 AM CST Connecting Singles.........REALLY ???
smoky
smokysmokyUnterland, Zurich Switzerland266 Threads 6 Polls 9,412 Posts
iamamm:

Agree totally with no fees and nothing hidden, and I have no complaints on those issues.

I really don't
understand why the Moderators don't delete them from the site ?
I would guess 50% of my ' viewers or messagers ' are scammers
and others so rude as to be insulting .

But put it like this ....I know dozens of people in Spain who are still on this site 5 years later, so I am guessing they are either looking for ' their idea of perfection ' or not genuine about dating , and are here just to chat or become ' Forum Friends ' .
Understand some will want that, but surely this is a dating site..
and you would hope to be able to chat politely to genuine people who actually do want to date



Hello Andy, and welcome to CS.

I`m one of the unavailable members who stays here just for the Forums and the friends I`ve made here. Also I like the games section to amuse myself sometimes, and because it`s all free.

Being an "international" site, it`s not like one can make a date and meet for coffee easily. So, like Maisie said, the Forums are where you "get to know" the others, and how they think and respond to different situations and ideas. THAT is where you find the genuine members! Think of the Forums as the "Cyber Coffee Shop" ?

Before I met my man (here in my village!) I got to know a lot of very nice people, especially those in Malta, and once attended a "CS Get-together" there, where I met them all in person, including some very nice and eligible men (if I was inclined, which I was not, as I had no intention of relocating).

So, stick around, start some interesting threads, and who knows ...... some interesting visitors may prove to be of interest to you?

Good luck.
Dec 20, 2012 8:20 AM CST Connecting Singles.........REALLY ???
iamamm
iamammiamammBaza, 18800, Granada Province, Andalusia Spain16 Threads 2 Polls 417 Posts
smoky: Agree totally with no fees and nothing hidden, and I have no complaints on those issues.

I really don't
understand why the Moderators don't delete them from the site ?
I would guess 50% of my ' viewers or messagers ' are scammers
and others so rude as to be insulting .

But put it like this ....I know dozens of people in Spain who are still on this site 5 years later, so I am guessing they are either looking for ' their idea of perfection ' or not genuine about dating , and are here just to chat or become ' Forum Friends ' .
Understand some will want that, but surely this is a dating site..
and you would hope to be able to chat politely to genuine people who actually do want to date ?quote]Hello Andy, and welcome to CS.

I`m one of the unavailable members who stays here just for the Forums and the friends I`ve made here. Also I like the games section to amuse myself sometimes, and because it`s all free.

Being an "international" site, it`s not like one can make a date and meet for coffee easily. So, like Maisie said, the Forums are where you "get to know" the others, and how they think and respond to different situations and ideas. THAT is where you find the genuine members! Think of the Forums as the "Cyber Coffee Shop" ?

Before I met my man (here in my village!) I got to know a lot of very nice people, especially those in Malta, and once attended a "CS Get-together" there, where I met them all in person, including some very nice and eligible men (if I was inclined, which I was not, as I had no intention of relocating).

So, stick around, start some interesting threads, and who knows ...... some interesting visitors may prove to be of interest to you?

Good luck.


Hi Smokey
didn't you used to live in Switzerland ?
OKay.....yes, I can uderstand the point you make about chatting on the forums.....
cyber coffee shop..is a good way of explaining, so thanks.
But honestly, I think the problem is either me, them or Spain or where i live on the Costa del Sol.
Curiously since posting this...i have had about 10 chats, but no-one lives in Spain.
mostly USA / Baltic / Asian / Ireland
...and thats a long way for a coffee ?
But might take your advice..if i stay here
but things are looking ( hopefully ) like i might not need to !
and Forums , per se, are not for me.
too busy living my life !
but thanks, good posting , helpful ..so appreciated !
Happy Christmas etc...Andy wine dancing grin
Dec 20, 2012 10:15 AM CST Connecting Singles.........REALLY ???
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
smoky:

Before I met my man (here in my village!) I got to know a lot of very nice people, especially those in Malta, and once attended a "CS Get-together" there, where I met them all in person, including some very nice and eligible men (if I was inclined, which I was not, as I had no intention of relocating).




Hello stranger, good to know that you and your man thingy and still together. I wish you both a merry xmas and all the trimmings..dancingsanta
Dec 22, 2012 10:50 AM CST Connecting Singles.........REALLY ???
smoky
smokysmokyUnterland, Zurich Switzerland266 Threads 6 Polls 9,412 Posts
iamamm: Hi Smokey
didn't you used to live in Switzerland ?
OKay.....yes, I can uderstand the point you make about chatting on the forums.....
cyber coffee shop..is a good way of explaining, so thanks.
But honestly, I think the problem is either me, them or Spain or where i live on the Costa del Sol.
Curiously since posting this...i have had about 10 chats, but no-one lives in Spain.
mostly USA / Baltic / Asian / Ireland
...and thats a long way for a coffee ?
But might take your advice..if i stay here
but things are looking ( hopefully ) like i might not need to !
and Forums , per se, are not for me.
too busy living my life !
but thanks, good posting , helpful ..so appreciated !
Happy Christmas etc...Andy


I still live in this happy land of sunshine!

Good, your life is taking a turn now, that the world did NOT end on Friday ....... Ja, I agree, that is the trouble with an "international" site - everyone is too far away to actually meet in person.

But ... you know the old saying? "You are where you are, because that is where you`re meant to be"? Well, you are where you are meant to be. So keep your eyes open, and keep chatting up the dolls!

Happy Christms to you. And an even happier and prosperous New Year for 2013.drink pouring buddies party balloons
Dec 22, 2012 10:52 AM CST Connecting Singles.........REALLY ???
smoky
smokysmokyUnterland, Zurich Switzerland266 Threads 6 Polls 9,412 Posts
Phoenix: Hello stranger, good to know that you and your man thingy and still together. I wish you both a merry xmas and all the trimmings..
Hello Handsome! I see you are also here now and again ..... like me.

Ja, still happy with my man-thingy, thanks for your wishes. I wish you the same, and even better - because you are younger than me, so you have LOTS to still party about, and even more energy!smoking drink pouring dance party
Dec 24, 2012 7:04 AM CST Connecting Singles.........REALLY ???
iamamm
iamammiamammBaza, 18800, Granada Province, Andalusia Spain16 Threads 2 Polls 417 Posts
smoky: I still live in this happy land of sunshine!

Good, your life is taking a turn now, that the world did NOT end on Friday ....... Ja, I agree, that is the trouble with an "international" site - everyone is too far away to actually meet in person.

But ... you know the old saying? "You are where you are, because that is where you`re meant to be"? Well, you are where you are meant to be. So keep your eyes open, and keep chatting up the dolls!

Happy Christms to you. And an even happier and prosperous New Year for 2013.


Cheers Smokey

confused when you posted before I could have sworn you had Malta under your photo.....yes / no ? ( on hols maybe ? )
Dunno about chatting up the ' dolls '
you been looking in my cupboards ? rolling on the floor laughing ( joke, honest ! )
Nice and normal will suit me fine
not too much to ask, is it ?
and same to you...!cheers peace
I have a good feeling about 2013, so just maybe
fingers crossed !!thumbs up
Dec 26, 2012 2:49 PM CST Connecting Singles.........REALLY ???
Freddon
FreddonFreddonÅlesund, More og Romsdal Norway1 Threads 5 Posts
Cheer up man, manny bad mannered people out there.

But there is realy manny nice ones too.

Hope you will find the right one.
Dec 28, 2012 6:53 AM CST Connecting Singles.........REALLY ???
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
smoky: Hello Handsome! I see you are also here now and again ..... like me.

Ja, still happy with my man-thingy, thanks for your wishes. I wish you the same, and even better - because you are younger than me, so you have LOTS to still party about, and even more energy!


You left out DEVILSHLY (I'm not just just plain handsome)..That aside, it's good to know that you and your man thingy are still going strong..

bouquet
Dec 28, 2012 3:35 PM CST Connecting Singles.........REALLY ???
latin_guy37
latin_guy37latin_guy37MADRID, Madrid Spain1 Posts
This site is full of fake people, I don't understand people here just to chat, come on get to the chat sites. I am sure this is not connecting singles.
Dec 28, 2012 3:59 PM CST Connecting Singles.........REALLY ???
iamamm
iamammiamammBaza, 18800, Granada Province, Andalusia Spain16 Threads 2 Polls 417 Posts
latin_guy37: This site is full of fake people, I don't understand people here just to chat, come on get to the chat sites. I am sure this is not connecting singles.


Hola
Fake = scammers ? or not into dating ?
It does seem ( which I now understand more ) that some people are not just here to ' date onsite ' like you might expect is normal ?
But prefer to be in the Forums...so they can learn more about some people they might like !...then chat....then who knows ??
Seems forums might have their uses ?
But I think I know what you mean...it would be easier if everyone was on here to message / chat / maybe meet and possibly date ...
which is kind of what you might expect ...on a dating site ?
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