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Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 PostsIf you had to choose between a wonderful romantic relationship that would end after only a year, or a so-so relationship that would last your entire life, which one would you choose? And Why?
Bogart_1960: If you had to choose between a wonderful romantic relationship that would end after only a year, or a so-so relationship that would last your entire life, which one would you choose? And Why?
I would choose "so-so" cause the entire life gives possibility to make it "wow-wow"
Bogart_1960: If you had to choose between a wonderful romantic relationship that would end after only a year, or a so-so relationship that would last your entire life, which one would you choose? And Why?
I chose a sacred meantime relationship over a profane life long one.
I would most certainly take the wonderful romantic relationship for 1yr.
I would always have the nice memories.
Who in their right mind would settle for a so-so relationship for life??
Have a good safe day friends :)
I would always have the nice memories.
Who in their right mind would settle for a so-so relationship for life??
Have a good safe day friends :)
Bogart_1960: If you had to choose between a wonderful romantic relationship that would end after only a year, or a so-so relationship that would last your entire life, which one would you choose? And Why?
I would choose none of them-both options are equal unsatisfying,any choice would be wrong.So I am open about different options to consider
The first of course, the experience and memories last a lifetime.
And how can you be happy in a soso relation? Just for safety and securety, we only live once!!
And how can you be happy in a soso relation? Just for safety and securety, we only live once!!
I would rather have one great year, than a lifetime without greatness in my relationship. I can say this for sure, because I have been in that position. I still have good memories of it.
First one!!!!!!!!!!
What would you choose youself, Bogart?
I would choose the wonderful relationship to last a year.
Why? If I was in a long term so so relationship I'd be asking myself why is this relationship not so wonderful? How much good is this relationship doing to myself and my and my partner? Would we both be better off with someone else, or better off single?
With the wonderful relationship that lasted a year, that would leave both of us free to then find a wonderful relationship that would last the rest of our lifetimes from then on. The question did not specifically say that a condition of the wonderful relationship was that there would be no more relationships after that. If that were to be a condition then I'd have to think about my answer again...
Why? If I was in a long term so so relationship I'd be asking myself why is this relationship not so wonderful? How much good is this relationship doing to myself and my and my partner? Would we both be better off with someone else, or better off single?
With the wonderful relationship that lasted a year, that would leave both of us free to then find a wonderful relationship that would last the rest of our lifetimes from then on. The question did not specifically say that a condition of the wonderful relationship was that there would be no more relationships after that. If that were to be a condition then I'd have to think about my answer again...
Wonderful relationships became finally so-so relationships, or worse.
It's better the so-so durable standard.
It's better the so-so durable standard.
Better to live one day as a lion than a hundred as mouse ......Mussolini
I would rather have a few days of wonderful than a lifetime of monotonous .....Steel Magnolias
I would rather have a few days of wonderful than a lifetime of monotonous .....Steel Magnolias
Bogart_1960: If you had to choose between a wonderful romantic relationship that would end after only a year, or a so-so relationship that would last your entire life, which one would you choose? And Why?
One can not say unless it is a real big deal. As for myself, i have always lived my love stories entirely,sincerely and honestly, so have i no regrets about the choices i have made, although a few ones have surely been not so good. Short or lifetime relationships do not only depend on our will, there are so many exteriors parameters that influence our love stories, and we can not maitrise all those..
"And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make" ..
ghost007: Better to live one day as a lion than a hundred as mouse sheep......Mussolini
I would rather have a few days of wonderful than a lifetime of monotonous .....Steel Magnolias
I would rather have a few days of wonderful than a lifetime of monotonous .....Steel Magnolias
The day as a lion of Mussolini did not end well, in one day he has experienced the woes of a lifetime, infact at the sunset ppl did hung he upside down, he also made die a lot of people during his lion's day , anyway the thread push ppl to say that.. better good but short, it seems the winning theory, no I do not agree, life is made of sad compromises and hard choices.
MeantimeinBali: I chose a sacred meantime relationship over a profane life long one.
If I were a billionaire in dollars ..but..pain in the axx.. and I offered you a life as a queen, would u say no???????
Jokerman73: The day as a lion of Mussolini did not end well, in one day he has experienced the woes of a lifetime, infact at the sunset ppl did hung he upside down, he also made die a lot of people during his lion's day , anyway the thread push ppl to say that.. better good but short, it seems the winning theory, no I do not agree, life is made of sad compromises and hard choices.
Good morning Jokerman yes i know that Mussolini did not end up very well and i am no supporter of his political philosophy but i can still understand his desire to seize the day and live the moment....of course life is hard and one lives these sad compromises and hard choices every day however that does not mean that the eternal child inside of us still cannot dream of something wonderful.....and as long as we keep that starry eyed child alive inside of us it makes those sad compromises and hard choices a little easier to live with.....have a nice day.......
ghost007: Good morning Jokerman yes i know that Mussolini did not end up very well and i am no supporter of his political philosophy but i can still understand his desire to seize the day and live the moment....of course life is hard and one lives these sad compromises and hard choices every day however that does not mean that the eternal child inside of us still cannot dream of something wonderful.....and as long as we keep that starry eyed child alive inside of us it makes those sad compromises and hard choices a little easier to live with.....have a nice day.......
Ummm....well....in this case ..carpe diem... is more suitable
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