Does Language differences hinder love? (36)
this definitely hinders a language
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Best of luck with you, Halv0. My feeling is, no, it actually helps! It disarms both parties from their usual social defenses, and makes both kinda "reliant" on each other to be understood. As long as you two don't stumble over some major roadblock (like having children), you should be well off. Think how much fun you'll have teaching each other idioms while snuggled in bed!
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Best of luck with you, Halv0. My feeling is, no, it actually helps! It disarms both parties from their usual social defenses, and makes both kinda "reliant" on each other to be understood. As long as you two don't stumble over some major roadblock (like having children), you should be well off. Think how much fun you'll have teaching each other idioms while snuggled in bed!
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sometimes you can't make a good point in an argument without sound language knowledge
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Dagosto: Best of luck with you, Halv0. My feeling is, no, it actually helps! It disarms both parties from their usual social defenses, and makes both kinda "reliant" on each other to be understood. As long as you two don't stumble over some major roadblock (like having children), you should be well off. Think how much fun you'll have teaching each other idioms while snuggled in bed!
Yeah thanks, I've actually found this out myself. I think that it has actually been a help. It certainly has added a lot of fun to our relationship. Sometimes ignorance is bliss. Especially when she says something to me that is best for me not to understand....
Actually, she is amazing. I would never have considered this 10 years ago. Because of this bias that I had, I did myself out of a lot of love and fun.
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In my case sometimes,but speaking english is not the measurement of being intellegent,i dont want to sound proud english is my 4th language,i dont join on thread that i have no idea about the topic it would be hard for me to express my thoughts and point of views becos im grasping for english words,i dont join on thread that are too serious im afraid my english wasnt good and would end up misenterpret but (give me your business financial report,a pen and calculator i'll tell you if your business will be profitable after ten years or u would end up on bankcruptcy)in terms of love,there are filipinas who are married to foreign nationals and they make fun out of language ba rriers,
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Halv0: Yeah thanks, I've actually found this out myself. I think that it has actually been a help. It certainly has added a lot of fun to our relationship. Sometimes ignorance is bliss. Especially when she says something to me that is best for me not to understand....
Actually, she is amazing. I would never have considered this 10 years ago. Because of this bias that I had, I did myself out of a lot of love and fun.
Actually, she is amazing. I would never have considered this 10 years ago. Because of this bias that I had, I did myself out of a lot of love and fun.
Congratulations Halv, all the best for the 2 of you.
I'm not a native English speaker, but it is important for me that I understand a partner / the language fully otherwise I would feel uncomfortable.
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Migsy: In my case sometimes,but speaking english is not the measurement of being intellegent,i dont want to sound proud english is my 4th language,i dont join on thread that i have no idea about the topic it would be hard for me to express my thoughts and point of views becos im grasping for english words,i dont join on thread that are too serious im afraid my english wasnt good and would end up misenterpret but (give me your business financial report,a pen and calculator i'll tell you if your business will be profitable after ten years or u would end up on bankcruptcy)in terms of love,there are filipinas who are married to foreign nationals and they make fun out of language ba rriers,
4 languages! That's amazing! Wow. I'm flat out mastering my own language. Ha ha ha. It is fun learning other languages though. Always sound stupid when I speak them. When a friend was teaching me Vietname, she said that I sounded like a baby learning to talk. Well I thought that was a compliment. At least she didn't call me a "dickhead"....
So attempting to learn yet another language now. So far can say "hello", "thanks" and that's about it. But it is fun.
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Grr,1st one is my mother of tongue and the other 2 left i went schooling to be fluent i must study mandarin cos not all chinese can speak english my other colleagues who are canadian,american etc was force to study mandarin we have no choice ,its a must
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online today!online today!pisceslady7Kincumber nr. Gosford, New South Wales Australia21 Threads 4 Polls 1,910 PostsI am sorry, but for me it would be an issue.
I am very pleased that for you and your lady it is not. If it is not an issue for you...then why question it? The only people in your relationship is the two of you. If it is working...that is fabulous and I wish you all the very best.
I am very pleased that for you and your lady it is not. If it is not an issue for you...then why question it? The only people in your relationship is the two of you. If it is working...that is fabulous and I wish you all the very best.
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Halv0: Hi all,
Well, I've started a lovely relationship with a woman from another country whose native language is not English.
So my question to all is, what do you think about different people speaking different languages, can this hinder true love?
Cheers,
Well, I've started a lovely relationship with a woman from another country whose native language is not English.
So my question to all is, what do you think about different people speaking different languages, can this hinder true love?
Cheers,
if it is serious, you might try to learn her language for better communication
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Mondosmith: if it is serious, you might try to learn her language for better communication
And take it slowly
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Halv0: Hi all,
Well, I've started a lovely relationship with a woman from another country whose native language is not English.
So my question to all is, what do you think about different people speaking different languages, can this hinder true love?
Cheers,
language Doesnt Effect the Love ,Loyal and Honest peoples are every where wth Diffrent Languages ,English is Not my native Language as well but i have see some realy Lovely peoples in Speaking CountriesWell, I've started a lovely relationship with a woman from another country whose native language is not English.
So my question to all is, what do you think about different people speaking different languages, can this hinder true love?
Cheers,
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In response to: Hi all,
Well, I've started a lovely relationship with a woman from another country whose native language is not English.
So my question to all is, what do you think about different people speaking different languages, can this hinder true love?
Cheers,
Well, I've started a lovely relationship with a woman from another country whose native language is not English.
So my question to all is, what do you think about different people speaking different languages, can this hinder true love?
Cheers,
Only if the two people involved in that particular relationship let it.
A solution might be to learn each others language.JAT
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Maybe in the beginning it does, but after awhile, all couples in love communicate in their own private language. 
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Halv0: Hi all,
Well, I've started a lovely relationship with a woman from another country whose native language is not English.
So my question to all is, what do you think about different people speaking different languages, can this hinder true love?
Cheers,
Well, I've started a lovely relationship with a woman from another country whose native language is not English.
So my question to all is, what do you think about different people speaking different languages, can this hinder true love?
Cheers,
Immerse yourself in love and language,....immersion is the most effective way to "learn" IMHO
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as far as u can be able on understand over ur limit different way of speak english its just a matter of slang...
so no wont be a problem for me...
all depends on how much ur willing to open up ur mind...
so no wont be a problem for me...
all depends on how much ur willing to open up ur mind...
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Halv0: Hi all,
Well, I've started a lovely relationship with a woman from another country whose native language is not English.
So my question to all is, what do you think about different people speaking different languages, can this hinder true love?
Cheers,
Well, I've started a lovely relationship with a woman from another country whose native language is not English.
So my question to all is, what do you think about different people speaking different languages, can this hinder true love?
Cheers,
I feel it depends on your intellect and your need for deep, meaningful exchange and discussion of various topics.
I'm not a native english speaker and I often felt frustrated in my love relationships to not being able to express myself fully and not being able to share my interests due a lack of vocabulary.
After 13 years of living abroad this is one of the reasons I'll be relocating back to my own turf and there are no words for my excitement to finally be able to speak again my mother tongue.
Different languages come usually with a different cultural background which can be very intense.
I wish you all the best and just take it slow and give it time before making any serious decisions.
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I use sign language to all languages...what the heck. 
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Well, I've started a lovely relationship with a woman from another country whose native language is not English.
So my question to all is, what do you think about different people speaking different languages, can this hinder true love?
Cheers,