In a relationship, Not looking..then what are you doing in this site? (20)
bechaymilan, Lombardy Italy2 Threads 10 PostsSomeone sent me a mail and when I checked his profile, it says, "in a relationship" and "not looking". I wonder, what is he doing here in CS?
bechay: Someone sent me a mail and when I checked his profile, it says, "in a relationship" and "not looking". I wonder, what is he doing here in CS?
Hi Bechay,
maybe he is in a relationship which doesn't work well ...
also depends on what is written in his email lol
Fayecat:
also depends on what is written in his email lol
also depends on what is written in his email lol
I asked him the same question..he said he likes flirting
can't be satisfied with one
bechay: Someone sent me a mail and when I checked his profile, it says, "in a relationship" and "not looking". I wonder, what is he doing here in CS?
Nobody dating darling. Almost everybody just trolling. Time waste unfortunately
Girls, simply send him "polite"message
Many women and men just because they are unhappy and lost using these kind of web sites to see may be the fish will come in basket 
Many women and men just because they are unhappy and lost using these kind of web sites to see may be the fish will come in basket bechay: Someone sent me a mail and when I checked his profile, it says, "in a relationship" and "not looking". I wonder, what is he doing here in CS?
Hello there, i just wanted to say that everybodys not looking here, there are people like me that simply enjoy chatting with strangers and exchange different point of views about this world we live in. It is generally clearly written on them profiles. My opinion would be not to response to such stupid emails you have received and just block these morons that bring nothing but time and space wasted. My best wishes for happier moments on CS
I dated a man for many years who would activate a his hidden profiles on a few different sites every time we had a disagreement, minor or otherwise.
It took a toll, even before I found out - which took a while because I was not trolling the sites until the signs were pretty obvious something was going on.
I'm not sure how many women he actually met doing this but I do know there was plenty of corresponding via email, a few actual meets and some phone conversations (including when we were together). I asked him why and he said "because it made him feel better" and proved he was attractive. Sad.
Essentially it removed him emotionally from any relationship we might have been able to have. A good indication of a man who is just after a bit on the side and just wants to be unfaithful to his partner usually has a hidden profile.
Next time a man (or woman) sends you a message, see if he can be found on a normal search, if not I would say that is a HUGE Red Flag, ask him WHY he has hidden his profile!?
It took a toll, even before I found out - which took a while because I was not trolling the sites until the signs were pretty obvious something was going on.
I'm not sure how many women he actually met doing this but I do know there was plenty of corresponding via email, a few actual meets and some phone conversations (including when we were together). I asked him why and he said "because it made him feel better" and proved he was attractive. Sad.
Essentially it removed him emotionally from any relationship we might have been able to have. A good indication of a man who is just after a bit on the side and just wants to be unfaithful to his partner usually has a hidden profile.
Next time a man (or woman) sends you a message, see if he can be found on a normal search, if not I would say that is a HUGE Red Flag, ask him WHY he has hidden his profile!?
bechay: Someone sent me a mail and when I checked his profile, it says, "in a relationship" and "not looking". I wonder, what is he doing here in CS?
bechay: Someone sent me a mail and when I checked his profile, it says, "in a relationship" and "not looking". I wonder, what is he doing here in CS?
You are looking for relationship ?
What are you doing on CS?
Wasting your time.
Better go out and find someone.
bechay: Someone sent me a mail and when I checked his profile, it says, "in a relationship" and "not looking". I wonder, what is he doing here in CS?
Just looking for plan B he is, I guess.
Perhaps.
A lot of people just come here for the forums.
RayfromUSA: A lot of people just come here for the forums.
I ask myself what the rest are doing in this site
GUZMAN1: I ask myself what the rest are doing in this site
Some are teachers ! and the rest are learning lessons
The last time I looked I am not in a relationship and I'm not looking but if a moment serendipity occurs it'll make me take notice
Slumming
I must be very stupid and naive but I AM looking for a relationship.
But indeed this might not be the place to start one.
But living on the French countryside there's not a whole lot of other places to start. Its not exactly Paris here.
But indeed this might not be the place to start one.
But living on the French countryside there's not a whole lot of other places to start. Its not exactly Paris here.
Rogerzoekt: I must be very stupid and naive but I AM looking for a relationship.
But indeed this might not be the place to start one.
But living on the French countryside there's not a whole lot of other places to start. Its not exactly Paris here.
But indeed this might not be the place to start one.
But living on the French countryside there's not a whole lot of other places to start. Its not exactly Paris here.
You´re probably not stupid nor naive, and this is as good a place as any to start a search. I wish you luck...........keep your eyes and mind open.
I met my girlfriend on this site, So don't see why i would need to leave now. Afterall this is the main reason why so many people come here. I still enjoy talking to friends i've met here on blogs and forums and me and my girlfriend mail eachother on a almost daily basis on Cs, next to talking and mailing in numerous other ways.. Cs is just part of our relation.
teddybeerke88: I met my girlfriend on this site, So don't see why i would need to leave now. Afterall this is the main reason why so many people come here. I still enjoy talking to friends i've met here on blogs and forums and me and my girlfriend mail eachother on a almost daily basis on Cs, next to talking and mailing in numerous other ways.. Cs is just part of our relation.
I agree with you and with those who just stay here for the forums. But, if someone writes to you that he's just looking for a flirt, I think it's a different story then.
Or probably, fidelity is on its way to extinction
More Threads
Ladies
who shaped your life?
Kultur-multur
Iran- Israel war
biggest lie
Thoughts on Daylight Savings
If Our Profiles Were Truly Honest
One week of the most outrageous GOP leadership!
Would you hire this guy - for any job?
Trump Elementary
More Threads
Report threads that break rules, are offensive, or contain fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. click to report forum abuse »
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
Stats for this Thread
6,660 Views
19 Comments
in EU Forums
Created: Feb 2013
Last Viewed: Apr 20
Last Commented: Mar 2013
0 Likes