NakasayaOPLucknow,Uttarpradesh, India, India13 posts
He didn't mind cheating on you, when you were away. She bed-hopped with another man despite you being head over heals in love with her. What should you do? Put an end to the relationship you've nurtured with all your emotions and move ahead or do you think you can give your infidel partner another chance to mend his/her errant way? Do you think they deserve a second chance? Or do you feel that a relationship that both of you cherished at one point doesn't deserve a dead-end like this? Do you walk out or talk it out with your cheating better half?
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
Errrr do you mean the religious variety??
Infidel (literally "one without faith") is a term used in certain religions, especially Christianity or Islam, for one who has no religious beliefs, or who doubts or rejects the central tenets of the particular religion.
Nakasaya: He didn't mind cheating on you, when you were away. She bed-hopped with another man despite you being head over heals in love with her. What should you do? Put an end to the relationship you've nurtured with all your emotions and move ahead or do you think you can give your infidel partner another chance to mend his/her errant way? Do you think they deserve a second chance? Or do you feel that a relationship that both of you cherished at one point doesn't deserve a dead-end like this? Do you walk out or talk it out with your cheating better half?
Okay, what should you do in a situation like this ...
Don`t know as it kinda depends on a few facts have I caught her In flagrante delicto ,has she admitted it on her own ,have I got suspicious and confronted her ...was it just a one time deal, an affair, love ...
Nakasaya: He didn't mind cheating on you, when you were away. She bed-hopped with another man despite you being head over heals in love with her. What should you do? Put an end to the relationship you've nurtured with all your emotions and move ahead or do you think you can give your infidel partner another chance to mend his/her errant way? Do you think they deserve a second chance? Or do you feel that a relationship that both of you cherished at one point doesn't deserve a dead-end like this? Do you walk out or talk it out with your cheating better half?
I always answer this question as such:
Life isn't perfect. Human frailty is a fact that affects every single living person. So, the answer is actually a question: If you caved in to a temporary need or desire, but didn't want to leave your marriage, and your husband/wife found out or knew, would YOU want THEM to give YOU the second chance? (How you answer that is your answer).
Well...........ya gotta ask yerself why did they cheat in the first place??? Not the first natural reaction I know, but......it does have a bearing. When the first shock of discovery recedes you might begin to understand. Now......if they are naturally promiscuous, then no amount of sticking plaster will heal the wound. Take a serious look at your relationship, and a bitta honesty might getya somewhere. But, ifya refuse to see the reasons.......move on!!
Life isn't perfect. Human frailty is a fact that affects every single living person. So, the answer is actually a question: If you caved in to a temporary need or desire, but didn't want to leave your marriage, and your husband/wife found out or knew, would YOU want THEM to give YOU the second chance? (How you answer that is your answer).
Human fraility is one thing; mistaking an apple for an orange is a mistake; but cheating on your partner because you didn't have the willpower to disregard the urge is disrespectful and has no way into my life. One cheat, it's over.
IF I caved in....which would never happen....but for the sake of this thread....I would never have the gall to ask for forgiveness. It would be like stabbing him in the back again.
Lana2Tower, Federation of B&H Bosnia and Herzegovina303 posts
Nakasaya: He didn't mind cheating on you, when you were away. She bed-hopped with another man despite you being head over heals in love with her. What should you do? Put an end to the relationship you've nurtured with all your emotions and move ahead or do you think you can give your infidel partner another chance to mend his/her errant way? Do you think they deserve a second chance? Or do you feel that a relationship that both of you cherished at one point doesn't deserve a dead-end like this? Do you walk out or talk it out with your cheating better half?
Hi :)
Everybody deserves a second chance.......in everything
Nakasaya: He didn't mind cheating on you, when you were away. She bed-hopped with another man despite you being head over heals in love with her. What should you do? Put an end to the relationship you've nurtured with all your emotions and move ahead or do you think you can give your infidel partner another chance to mend his/her errant way? Do you think they deserve a second chance? Or do you feel that a relationship that both of you cherished at one point doesn't deserve a dead-end like this? Do you walk out or talk it out with your cheating better half?
Unfaithful partner? NO NO NO NEVER! If they truly loved you they would NOT be needing a "second chance!" Only a fool would go back for more Heartache.
Lana2Tower, Federation of B&H Bosnia and Herzegovina303 posts
rohaan: I always answer this question as such:
Life isn't perfect. Human frailty is a fact that affects every single living person. So, the answer is actually a question: If you caved in to a temporary need or desire, but didn't want to leave your marriage, and your husband/wife found out or knew, would YOU want THEM to give YOU the second chance? (How you answer that is your answer).
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you, when you were away.
She bed-hopped with another
man despite you being head
over heals in love with her.
What should you do? Put an end to the relationship you've
nurtured with all your
emotions and move ahead or
do you think you can give
your infidel partner another
chance to mend his/her errant way? Do you think they
deserve a second chance? Or
do you feel that a relationship
that both of you cherished at
one point doesn't deserve a
dead-end like this? Do you walk out or talk it out with
your cheating better half?