Does an infidel partner deserve a second chance? ( Archived) (38)

Mar 6, 2013 11:22 AM CST Does an infidel partner deserve a second chance?
Nakasaya
NakasayaNakasayaLucknow,Uttarpradesh, India, India12 Threads 2 Polls 13 Posts
He didn't mind cheating on
you, when you were away.
She bed-hopped with another
man despite you being head
over heals in love with her.
What should you do? Put an end to the relationship you've
nurtured with all your
emotions and move ahead or
do you think you can give
your infidel partner another
chance to mend his/her errant way? Do you think they
deserve a second chance? Or
do you feel that a relationship
that both of you cherished at
one point doesn't deserve a
dead-end like this? Do you walk out or talk it out with
your cheating better half?
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Mar 6, 2013 11:26 AM CST Does an infidel partner deserve a second chance?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
Errrr do you mean the religious variety??

Infidel (literally "one without faith") is a term used in certain religions, especially Christianity or Islam, for one who has no religious beliefs, or who doubts or rejects the central tenets of the particular religion.
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Mar 6, 2013 12:03 PM CST Does an infidel partner deserve a second chance?
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
Assuming you mean "Infidelity" which is disloyalty or unfaithfulness, and in that case... NO they don't deserve a second chance!
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Mar 6, 2013 12:31 PM CST Does an infidel partner deserve a second chance?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Nakasaya: He didn't mind cheating on
you, when you were away.
She bed-hopped with another
man despite you being head
over heals in love with her.
What should you do? Put an end to the relationship you've
nurtured with all your
emotions and move ahead or
do you think you can give
your infidel partner another
chance to mend his/her errant way? Do you think they
deserve a second chance? Or
do you feel that a relationship
that both of you cherished at
one point doesn't deserve a
dead-end like this? Do you walk out or talk it out with
your cheating better half?

Okay, what should you do in a situation like this ...

Don`t know as it kinda depends on a few facts
have I caught her In flagrante delicto ,has she admitted it on her own ,have I got suspicious and confronted her ...was it just a one time deal, an affair, love ...
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Mar 6, 2013 12:40 PM CST Does an infidel partner deserve a second chance?
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
"Partners" should be given a second chance, with somebody else. cheers
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Mar 6, 2013 12:40 PM CST Does an infidel partner deserve a second chance?
Nakasaya
NakasayaNakasayaLucknow,Uttarpradesh, India, India12 Threads 2 Polls 13 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing handshake
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Mar 6, 2013 12:42 PM CST Does an infidel partner deserve a second chance?
Nakasaya: He didn't mind cheating on
you, when you were away.
She bed-hopped with another
man despite you being head
over heals in love with her.
What should you do? Put an end to the relationship you've
nurtured with all your
emotions and move ahead or
do you think you can give
your infidel partner another
chance to mend his/her errant way? Do you think they
deserve a second chance? Or
do you feel that a relationship
that both of you cherished at
one point doesn't deserve a
dead-end like this? Do you walk out or talk it out with
your cheating better half?
I always answer this question as such:

Life isn't perfect. Human frailty is a fact that affects every single living person. So, the answer is actually a question:
If you caved in to a temporary need or desire, but didn't want to leave your marriage, and your husband/wife found out or knew, would YOU want THEM to give YOU the second chance? (How you answer that is your answer).
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Mar 6, 2013 1:56 PM CST Does an infidel partner deserve a second chance?
Well...........ya gotta ask yerself why did they cheat in the first place??? Not the first natural reaction I know, but......it does have a bearing. When the first shock of discovery recedes you might begin to understand.
Now......if they are naturally promiscuous, then no amount of sticking plaster will heal the wound.
Take a serious look at your relationship, and a bitta honesty might getya somewhere. But, ifya refuse to see the reasons.......move on!!
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Mar 6, 2013 3:04 PM CST Does an infidel partner deserve a second chance?
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
rohaan: I always answer this question as such:

Life isn't perfect. Human frailty is a fact that affects every single living person. So, the answer is actually a question:
If you caved in to a temporary need or desire, but didn't want to leave your marriage, and your husband/wife found out or knew, would YOU want THEM to give YOU the second chance? (How you answer that is your answer).



Human fraility is one thing; mistaking an apple for an orange is a mistake; but cheating on your partner because you didn't have the willpower to disregard the urge is disrespectful and has no way into my life. One cheat, it's over.

IF I caved in....which would never happen....but for the sake of this thread....I would never have the gall to ask for forgiveness. It would be like stabbing him in the back again.
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Mar 6, 2013 3:13 PM CST Does an infidel partner deserve a second chance?
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
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Mar 6, 2013 6:10 PM CST Does an infidel partner deserve a second chance?
joyaepace
joyaepacejoyaepaceGalway, Ireland11 Threads 2 Polls 958 Posts
Second - yes. Third - no.
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Mar 6, 2013 6:28 PM CST Does an infidel partner deserve a second chance?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
2nd chance no.
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Mar 7, 2013 1:32 PM CST Does an infidel partner deserve a second chance?
joyaepace: Second - yes. Third - no.
You sound very prudent, and nice. JMO
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Mar 7, 2013 1:37 PM CST Does an infidel partner deserve a second chance?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
"Infidel"??? Do you mean religious or unfaithful?? dunno confused
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Mar 18, 2013 10:45 AM CST Does an infidel partner deserve a second chance?
Lana2
Lana2Lana2Tower, Federation of B&H Bosnia and Herzegovina5 Threads 303 Posts
Nakasaya: He didn't mind cheating on
you, when you were away.
She bed-hopped with another
man despite you being head
over heals in love with her.
What should you do? Put an end to the relationship you've
nurtured with all your
emotions and move ahead or
do you think you can give
your infidel partner another
chance to mend his/her errant way? Do you think they
deserve a second chance? Or
do you feel that a relationship
that both of you cherished at
one point doesn't deserve a
dead-end like this? Do you walk out or talk it out with
your cheating better half?



Hi :)

Everybody deserves a second chance.......in everything kiss
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Mar 18, 2013 10:47 AM CST Does an infidel partner deserve a second chance?
LonelyMontse08
LonelyMontse08LonelyMontse08San Pedro Sula, Honduras15 Threads 797 Posts
he sure wont get it from me, I am a true supporter of the saying once a cheater always a cheater wave
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Mar 18, 2013 10:50 AM CST Does an infidel partner deserve a second chance?
michael63ca
michael63camichael63caVancouver, Alberta Canada50 Threads 2 Polls 784 Posts
Nakasaya: He didn't mind cheating on
you, when you were away.
She bed-hopped with another
man despite you being head
over heals in love with her.
What should you do? Put an end to the relationship you've
nurtured with all your
emotions and move ahead or
do you think you can give
your infidel partner another
chance to mend his/her errant way? Do you think they
deserve a second chance? Or
do you feel that a relationship
that both of you cherished at
one point doesn't deserve a
dead-end like this? Do you walk out or talk it out with
your cheating better half?


Unfaithful partner? NO NO NO NEVER! If they truly loved you they would NOT be needing a "second chance!" Only a fool would go back for more Heartache.
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Mar 18, 2013 10:54 AM CST Does an infidel partner deserve a second chance?
Lana2
Lana2Lana2Tower, Federation of B&H Bosnia and Herzegovina5 Threads 303 Posts
rohaan: I always answer this question as such:

Life isn't perfect. Human frailty is a fact that affects every single living person. So, the answer is actually a question:
If you caved in to a temporary need or desire, but didn't want to leave your marriage, and your husband/wife found out or knew, would YOU want THEM to give YOU the second chance? (How you answer that is your answer).


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Mar 18, 2013 10:34 PM CST Does an infidel partner deserve a second chance?
purr4mance
purr4mancepurr4manceCleveland, Ohio USA4,825 Posts
Lana2: Hi :)

Everybody deserves a second chance.......in everything


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Mar 18, 2013 10:56 PM CST Does an infidel partner deserve a second chance?
DoctorWilly
DoctorWillyDoctorWillySingapore, Central Singapore Singapore4 Posts
Straight to the curb, do not pass go and do not collect $200. I will give you $20 for the cab, however.
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