Is too much commitment not good? ( Archived) (2)

Mar 10, 2013 3:54 AM CST Is too much commitment not good?
Nakasaya
NakasayaNakasayaLucknow,Uttarpradesh, India, India12 Threads 2 Polls 13 Posts
Commitment is a prerequisite
for any relationship to
survive, but contrary to
popular belief, a study reveals
that 'don't be too committed
in romantic relationships or it might boomerang, leaving
you depressed, anxious and
fretful.' When either or both
of partners place too much
emotional weightage on their
relationship, they tend to evaluate their self-worth
solely based on the outcome
of their romantic interaction.
Too much of commitment
often triggers depression and
anxiety, leading to miscommunication and
frequent spats over trivial
issuses. While couples in a
relationship naturally expect
commitment to form the base
for their future love affair, it may prove to be counter
productive for them. Is it
good to be completely
committed to your partner?
Can being overtly committed
hit you back at times? Does too much commitment sing
the deathknell for a steady
affair?professor
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Mar 11, 2013 8:05 AM CST Is too much commitment not good?
enchantre
enchantreenchantreDallas, Texas USA1 Posts
Nakasaya: Commitment is a prerequisite
for any relationship to
survive, but contrary to
popular belief, a study reveals
that 'don't be too committed
in romantic relationships or it might boomerang, leaving
you depressed, anxious and
fretful.' When either or both
of partners place too much
emotional weightage on their
relationship, they tend to evaluate their self-worth
solely based on the outcome
of their romantic interaction.
Too much of commitment
often triggers depression and
anxiety, leading to miscommunication and
frequent spats over trivial
issuses. While couples in a
relationship naturally expect
commitment to form the base
for their future love affair, it may prove to be counter
productive for them. Is it
good to be completely
committed to your partner?
Can being overtly committed
hit you back at times? Does too much commitment sing
the deathknell for a steady
affair?



Some studies may say that total or over commitment will come back to bite you. But i say not all people fit into all studies. I for one will give all that i am to the one i seek because that is what i wish in return. I do not want just part of them but all their heart and commitments. That is not to say i wish him to be at my side and at my every call there is the real world to contend with and life in general. Work and outside friends. But i do want a place in which i can escape into and feel as if it is only us for even just a little while. A place that can only be found in this over commitment as you or they call it. A place that only we two share. I crave that closeness i have never been able to find with another. That is why i am still seeking. It is studies like these of which you speak that makes it hard to find what i seek. i know it is a risk but isn't life a risk? Just geting in a car and driving around or crossing a busy street or getting in an airplane and flying somewhere, taking a cruise. we risk our lives everyday to transport ourselves from one place to the other yet we guard our hearts.
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