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Apr 23, 2013 8:37 AM CST What is your purpose join here?
menu11
menu11menu11Galveston, Texas USA1,323 Posts
jac379: How to alienate women in one fell swoop.

Is it well mannered, or down to earth to say such things as you have?


The truth hurts huh? rolling on the floor laughing tongue
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Apr 23, 2013 8:38 AM CST What is your purpose join here?
menu11
menu11menu11Galveston, Texas USA1,323 Posts
Migsy: Look whos talking haha


Goes for you 2.tongue
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Apr 23, 2013 8:39 AM CST What is your purpose join here?
single_martha
single_marthasingle_marthaTangerang, Banten Indonesia8 Threads 101 Posts
Migsy: Look whos talking haha

oppsss later on tomcat the stranger on the bike will show upgrin
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Apr 23, 2013 8:47 AM CST What is your purpose join here?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Migsy: Sorry miss jac it wasnt ameant to ur post:-)

No worries, Migsy.

We posted 5 seconds apart, so I realised we'd both thought the same thing. laugh
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Apr 23, 2013 8:47 AM CST What is your purpose join here?
Migsy
MigsyMigsycandelaria quezon, Calabarzon Philippines16 Threads 1,632 Posts
Nah,the vamps is resting atm:-)
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Apr 23, 2013 8:49 AM CST What is your purpose join here?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
menu11: The truth hurts huh?

I don't know, does it?

If I were you, I'd just re-evaluate your attitude and move forward.
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Apr 23, 2013 8:51 AM CST What is your purpose join here?
menu11
menu11menu11Galveston, Texas USA1,323 Posts
jac379: I don't know, does it?

If I were you, I'd just re-evaluate your attitude and move forward.


Try that on yourself. And as I said, this site seems to be a gossip site.blah
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Apr 23, 2013 8:59 AM CST What is your purpose join here?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
menu11: Try that on yourself. And as I said, this site seems to be a gossip site.

Where do you think I have been bad mannered, or stuck up in my interaction with you?

It looks like a very weak argument to try and transpose your own poor behaviour onto others for no apparent reason, as does deflecting from the point by saying this is a gossip site.

A dating site is a tool, and whilst different sites, or different times on sites brings with it different atmospheres, its up to you to use the tool how you wish it to be. If you don't like gossip, don't involve yourself with any.

It strikes me, the people who don't have rigid expectations and have fun on here are the ones most likely to have a positive experience, including meeting someone special.
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Apr 23, 2013 9:07 AM CST What is your purpose join here?
menu11
menu11menu11Galveston, Texas USA1,323 Posts
jac379: Where do you think I have been bad mannered, or stuck up in my interaction with you?

It looks like a very weak argument to try and transpose your own poor behaviour onto others for no apparent reason, as does deflecting from the point by saying this is a gossip site.

A dating site is a tool, and whilst different sites, or different times on sites brings with it different atmospheres, its up to you to use the tool how you wish it to be. If you don't like gossip, don't involve yourself with any.

It strikes me, the people who don't have rigid expectations and have fun on here are the ones most likely to have a positive experience, including meeting someone special.


Your soo true....I don't like gossip.blah and I can do as I please. Also: I didn't say you were unmannerly...you said it.
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Apr 23, 2013 9:11 AM CST What is your purpose join here?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
menu11: Your soo true....I don't like gossip. and I can do as I please. Also: I didn't say you were unmannerly...you said it.

No, my first post was pointing out that you were accusing others of being unmannerly, in a most unmannerly...ummm...manner.

Hostility breeds hostility, negativity attracts negativity, be the change you want to see and all that jazz.
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Apr 23, 2013 9:13 AM CST What is your purpose join here?
menu11
menu11menu11Galveston, Texas USA1,323 Posts
jac379: No, my first post was pointing out that you were accusing others of being unmannerly, in a most unmannerly...ummm...manner.

Hostility breeds hostility, negativity attracts negativity, be the change you want to see and all that jazz.
doh devil
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Apr 23, 2013 9:19 AM CST What is your purpose join here?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Maus19: And would we not all pick one out of the bunch?
I have the impression mrpebbs is looking to ,and having problem with, first finding a bunch of friends.
And that friendship is for him the starting point, the pond to catch his fish from.
But he does not state any interest in fishing, filling the pond yes.
Fair point that once that choice of commitment is made it is time to hand back the menu.
Or betting on more than one horse would be disqualification for sure.
At what point orders and bets would be in is always a guess and gamble.
Only unambiguous communication would solve that.

Like I said, I may have misrepresented his post, but its that ambiguity of communication which might put women off from developing a friendship with him.

The emotional intimacy we develop with friends, is different from the emotional intimacy we develop with a potential lover. I can't imagine doing the latter with more than one person at a time. It seems extraordinarily unfair.
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Apr 23, 2013 9:21 AM CST What is your purpose join here?
single_martha
single_marthasingle_marthaTangerang, Banten Indonesia8 Threads 101 Posts
Migsy: Nah,the vamps is resting atm:-)

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 23, 2013 9:48 AM CST What is your purpose join here?
Maus19
Maus19Maus19Kilkenny, Ireland3 Threads 397 Posts
jac379:
The emotional intimacy we develop with friends, is different from the emotional intimacy we develop with a potential lover. I can't imagine doing the latter with more than one person at a time. It seems extraordinarily unfair.

Unfair, deceptive and self deception. A swampy foundation.
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Apr 23, 2013 10:08 AM CST What is your purpose join here?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Maus19: Unfair, deceptive and self deception. A swampy foundation.

Yes.
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