Loss my Youngest daughter (8)

Mar 24, 2013 2:22 PM CST Loss my Youngest daughter
Kiddy01
Kiddy01Kiddy01Edmonton, Alberta Canada1 Threads 129 Posts
I lost my youngest daughter this week and I have no friends that even come over to support me. My other daughter has had phone calls, even her neighbour has been driving her around to make the arrangements as she is the next of kin. No one even bothers to even ask me out for a coffee to talk.

Just venting.
Mar 24, 2013 5:16 PM CST Loss my Youngest daughter
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Kiddy01: I lost my youngest daughter this week and I have no friends that even come over to support me. My other daughter has had phone calls, even her neighbour has been driving her around to make the arrangements as she is the next of kin. No one even bothers to even ask me out for a coffee to talk.

Just venting.


My sympathies Kiddy, I'm so sorry to hear that. Is there a friend you can ring and talk to? Some people just don't know what to say and stay away. sad flower

I wish you strenght for the times to come. hug
Mar 24, 2013 10:28 PM CST Loss my Youngest daughter
KHD100
KHD100KHD100Edmonton, Alberta Canada129 Threads 3 Polls 2,495 Posts
Kiddy Check your email.

I know how you feel. Cancer means no phone calls from Family.

Very sorry about your daughter xo
Mar 24, 2013 10:41 PM CST Loss my Youngest daughter
KHD100
KHD100KHD100Edmonton, Alberta Canada129 Threads 3 Polls 2,495 Posts
Kiddy01: I lost my youngest daughter this week and I have no friends that even come over to support me. My other daughter has had phone calls, even her neighbour has been driving her around to make the arrangements as she is the next of kin. No one even bothers to even ask me out for a coffee to talk.

Just venting.


You are allowed to vent Kiddy. Please contact Healthlink and they can give you some information for Grief support. It really helps to have that support.

I wish you did not have to suffer the loss of your daughter. No parent should have to suffer a loss such at that. People shy away when a tragedy happens. There are many who understand how you feel. This is why a support group would help a lot. It's never easy to grieve, but it's how we cope and find some healing.

teddybear
Mar 26, 2013 8:53 PM CST Loss my Youngest daughter
SoBlue
SoBlueSoBlueDartmouth, Nova Scotia Canada3 Threads 61 Posts
Kiddy01: I lost my youngest daughter this week and I have no friends that even come over to support me. My other daughter has had phone calls, even her neighbour has been driving her around to make the arrangements as she is the next of kin. No one even bothers to even ask me out for a coffee to talk.

Just venting.


Kiddy, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss!!!
I can relate to no one taking the time for you in your time of need & sorrow. Last year my Dad passed, not one person, not one (and I even asked and was declined) would check on me, it was a dark experience knowing I couldn't depend on one person to be with me (they didn't have to say anything, it was only to know I didn't have to go thru this alone) but I did...still am really cuz I was never heard in the first place..
Mar 29, 2013 1:26 AM CST Loss my Youngest daughter
laffingone
laffingonelaffingoneWilliams Lake, British Columbia Canada79 Threads 2 Polls 2,405 Posts
I am sorry for your loss Kiddy. I hope that you have been able to talk to someone now
Mar 31, 2013 6:29 PM CST Loss my Youngest daughter
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
Kiddy I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter. My heart goes out to you and hopefully you have managed to find some support system to help you get through this time of loss. If you feel that you aren't getting the support you need - ASK for sometimes people don't realize or understand. comfort comfort
Apr 1, 2013 11:37 AM CST Loss my Youngest daughter
A_Non_A_Moose
A_Non_A_MooseA_Non_A_MooseWestlock, Alberta Canada116 Threads 8 Polls 4,340 Posts
My deepest sympathies.
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