curly28OPPerth, Western Australia Australia5,450 posts
I guess someone has to get this thread moving.
For me I'm a bit old school I still like the man to make the the first move ask me out. I'd like to think he'd shout me on the first date to me that is the way I see a man romancing me.
I like a man that isn't afraid to cry whether it be over something sad or he laughs so much at something funny he cries , to me it shows he has his feelings & lets it all out
I love and I do miss the strength men have that we don't as in fixing the mower or car or handling heavy gear that us women can't
I love to be hugged & kissed and I miss that from a man
I just adore a man that gives me flowers Makes me feel very special.
To me the most important thing about a man is communication priceless
Blizzard14uGosnells, Western Australia Australia1,430 posts
Yep that’s why you are still waiting! All the guys on here have had there harts ripped out already! You are talking to mostly divorced men? We don’t play games! And we now use the other head for our decisions? Not the one that got us in this way?
asha69perth, Western Australia Australia1,799 posts
Blizzard14u: Yep that’s why you are still waiting! All the guys on here have had there harts ripped out already! You are talking to mostly divorced men? We don’t play games! And we now use the other head for our decisions? Not the one that got us in this way?
dont know if this was intended for my reply but is it too much to ask just for a genuine nice guy? lots of women on here have had their hearts torn too. and most of us women dont play games either. wouldnt you also think that if we made mistakes, we would be more sensible next time around, and work harder on our next relationship? then maybe we wouldnt be on here in the first place. also i dont know about you blizzard, but i joined this site to find my special someone, not just for friends. im here for the right reasons. but dont know if it will happen here, but its worth a chance i suppose
curly28: One for the ladies after all we can't have the men stealing all the limelight can we.
Feedback ladies
Need be straight laced.....(not h.....) Honest and open Intelligent possibly tallish fun to be with....can laugh & forgive mistakes...even mighty big ones reliability helpful These are only some id.......of mine
jem1964Foothills of Dandenongs, Victoria Australia2,441 posts
curly28: One for the ladies after all we can't have the men stealing all the limelight can we.
Feedback ladies
for me looks arent essential (if you saw my ex you would know that to be the truth ) but mutual respect is a must someone who can be honest with himself first as then I know he can be honest with me Physically I do like taller men as I grew up in a house of 6ft men so that is the norm for me for a man to open his arms and make me feel safe, and cared for mostly, a man who is not just out to use as there has been way too much of that in my past and I dont want the same for the future.
And I only ask of a man what I expect of myself, so they could expect the same in return from me.
I thought seeing I started the other similar thread, I should comment on this one as well. I had thought my wants are simple but still haven't found him yet. I used to fall for the tough guy in my youth. You know the type, dark, silent, preferably with tatts, slightly chauvinistic, a little bit dangerous. Then I realized my choices were for a good time, not a long time. Now I think a honest, hardworking guy who is relaxed and optimistic, a bit of an adventurer, kind eyes and capable strong type of bloke would catch my eye. I would be his best friend and he would be mine. I haven't given up YET anyway.
MerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia11,403 posts
LiLee: I thought seeing I started the other similar thread, I should comment on this one as well. I had thought my wants are simple but still haven't found him yet. I used to fall for the tough guy in my youth. You know the type, dark, silent, preferably with tatts, slightly chauvinistic, a little bit dangerous. Then I realized my choices were for a good time, not a long time. Now I think a honest, hardworking guy who is relaxed and optimistic, a bit of an adventurer, kind eyes and capable strong type of bloke would catch my eye. I would be his best friend and he would be mine. I haven't given up YET anyway.
Hi Lillee, that is great that you know what you want... and I hope you find him,
MerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia11,403 posts
I dont want a man to beautiful.... that to me sounds prissy...
I do want a man I can rely on though,
someone who will leave me space, someone who knows where the kitchen is located when he is hungry, someone who can find and use the iron for his stuff.... ( leave mine alone tho)
someone who knows what personal space is... and can do his own thing without me...
and it would be awfully nice if he was strong, not frightened of a bit of work, and forward thinking...intelligent... a good mix of fun and seriousness... ...
and if we shared some common interests, that would be good too.
But at this time of my life... I am not expecting too much...
I do like strength , mental strength.... more than physical... and must have his own set of teeth, preferably in his mouth, and not in the jar by the bed... some hair...on his head, not on his face..
mickyj63adelaide, South Australia Australia2,362 posts
Firstly if I lived in Victoria I don't think I'd be single for long reading what you ladies like . Secondly its great to read what all you girls want or like. Theres a song there somewhere "I know what girls want "
Its nice to see that looks aren't that important I find so many ladies here in Adelaide want the tough guy or manly man .The type with tats and a job and money
mickyj63adelaide, South Australia Australia2,362 posts
conduit: Need be straight laced.....(not h.....) Honest and open Intelligent possibly tallish fun to be with....can laugh & forgive mistakes...even mighty big ones reliability helpful These are only some id.......of mine
curly28OPPerth, Western Australia Australia5,450 posts
Blizzard14u: Yep that’s why you are still waiting! All the guys on here have had there harts ripped out already! You are talking to mostly divorced men? We don’t play games! And we now use the other head for our decisions? Not the one that got us in this way?
Actually I wasn't refering to divorced broken hearted men on here! I was refering to what makes a man beautiful to me , men in general and no not every man on CS or in the real world is divorced.
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