Men, I need your advice (111)

May 10, 2014 10:40 AM CST Men, I need your advice
I a not a guy. I would like to hear the answers you receive. I believe, as I have had many life experiences. It was way easier in my twenties. I am now in my fifties. Now I am more nervous then when I was younger. I think I would have to say. Sincerely, I feel we are not a match. Any way, I am not a guy. I have two sons 23, 19. So I have raised four kids all by myself. In a way I am a Dad too. I guess... Peace HH Excellent question. HH
May 10, 2014 10:41 AM CST Men, I need your advice
I THINK IT IS TRUE. I BELIEVE IT IS ME. I AM NOT A REACTION TO ANOTHER. I AM MYSELF. HH
Jul 6, 2014 4:02 AM CST Men, I need your advice
truknman
truknmantruknmanwhere I park the truk, Washington USA1 Posts
Tell him u want more money
Sep 1, 2014 9:25 AM CST Men, I need your advice
boyinabox
boyinaboxboyinaboxred bluff, Alabama USA1 Posts
Jillll: What is the kindest but most effective way to tell a guy that you're not interested?
look the best way to do that is the truth don't be directed just say I feel that we are not a good match and good luck in finding that one that way you are not lying and you can feel good inside
Nov 9, 2014 4:24 PM CST Men, I need your advice
LoveAnew2
LoveAnew2LoveAnew2Berkeley, California USA5 Posts
Jillll: What is the kindest but most effective way to tell a guy that you're not interested?

"I'm sorry, but I've found someone else I'm more interested in. Good luck and I wish you well."
Dec 15, 2014 2:06 AM CST Men, I need your advice
Jaybri4u
Jaybri4uJaybri4uCerritos, California USA1 Threads 1 Polls 12 Posts
use the "BLOCK" on him. ;0)
Dec 28, 2014 5:13 PM CST Men, I need your advice
davidnpb1
davidnpb1davidnpb1Newport Beach, California USA3 Posts
Just tell him you have made a commitment and are no longer available.
Jan 25, 2016 2:23 PM CST Men, I need your advice
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
truknman: Tell him u want more money
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Great idea! I think this would be a good one for scammers too!
Jan 25, 2016 2:25 PM CST Men, I need your advice
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
Lots of great answers guys!
Sorry I was gone for so long and didn't reply.
Feb 19, 2016 8:12 PM CST Men, I need your advice
Hi_hotnsexy
Hi_hotnsexyHi_hotnsexyLake Elsinore, California USA2 Posts
Who cares about being kind, I got "I don't love you anymore" and "I don't love you anymore" you kneed to find someone who will love you" I never got our easy so why should anybody else. If I tell a girl I don't like long distance relationships she's done with me. I don't think there's a kind way to reject someone, I think you have to be bold and stubborn and tell them straight up and then be bold and tell them no more almost to where you sound idiotic because no matter what way you do it there gonna keep thinking its a possiblity for them even if done nicely and they will hate you but if your a lunitic at least they will be thinking, thank god I got rid of that lunitic...I hope this helps but it probably wont cause you wont understand it until you have had a long talk with someone who had their heart smashed then ran over a few times then smashed again and beaten and grinded up in the grinder and smashed again n chewed up and spit out and ran over again and chewed up and smashed..ok
Feb 19, 2016 11:35 PM CST Men, I need your advice
Hi_hotnsexy
Hi_hotnsexyHi_hotnsexyLake Elsinore, California USA2 Posts
In response to: What is the kindest but most effective way to tell a guy that you're not interested?
May 4, 2016 1:50 PM CST Men, I need your advice
bjake123
bjake123bjake123Murrieta, California USA1 Posts
I do think know I'd there is especially if you been dating him for awhile .Just tell him straight up ,If you don't have the balls to do it thendont.Be straight up.Dont be a game player.
Jillll: What is the kindest but most effective way to tell a guy that you're not interested?
Jun 12, 2016 6:28 PM CST Men, I need your advice
italianmoment
italianmomentitalianmomentSanta Rosa ca, California USA1 Threads 20 Posts
Jillll: What is the kindest but most effective way to tell a guy that you're not interested?


ask him for advice because you think of him as a brother protector of sister kind of man and you respect his opinion
Oct 26, 2016 9:10 PM CST Men, I need your advice
tugboat4
tugboat4tugboat4Apple Valley, California USA1 Posts
The best way is tell him the truth. He should not take it as a rejection, but a fact the if there is no connection why waste his time. Ralph
Oct 31, 2016 12:03 AM CST Men, I need your advice
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Jillll: What is the kindest but most effective way to tell a guy that you're not interested?


Try the time-tested Canuck way....... head banger wave

Nov 10, 2016 7:14 PM CST Men, I need your advice
crusty0529
crusty0529crusty0529keansburg, New Jersey USA1 Posts
Just tell him your not interested
Nov 12, 2016 6:10 AM CST Men, I need your advice
Axelteradactyl
AxelteradactylAxelteradactylMálaga, Andalusia Spain2 Threads 58 Posts
crusty0529: Just tell him your not interested

*You´redoh
Jan 26, 2017 1:36 PM CST Men, I need your advice
lovely4u7da
lovely4u7dalovely4u7dachicago, Illinois USA32 Threads 1,337 Posts
NakitaNemo: Unfortunately, there's none.... just be honest and tack and say....I'm not feeling it.


I am sorry to revise such a old post but it is right where I am and it is helping me try to let a really nice guy down because .....I am not feeling him feel me. The interest is not there. a girl can tell if someone is into her.
Jan 26, 2017 1:46 PM CST Men, I need your advice
lovely4u7da
lovely4u7dalovely4u7dachicago, Illinois USA32 Threads 1,337 Posts
bazzer22: Hi Jill,
Just remember that whatever you say make sure its in a public place for your own protection. If the guy wishes to have a fit, it will normally be less of one with people around.
Regards, Baz
really? she should make a plan to meet up with him in a public place just to break up with him? If he does`t accept it over the phone than planning a date to do it is just mean.
I am sure it depends on what and how long you have been together in how this should be done.
Jan 26, 2017 1:54 PM CST Men, I need your advice
lovely4u7da
lovely4u7dalovely4u7dachicago, Illinois USA32 Threads 1,337 Posts
420andolder: The truth without being to detailed and if he can't handle that then you should not be around him anywhy remember he is a Man


yes! because if he can`t handle this without cussing and screaming and calling you names than you know you did the right thing, and if he does and understands and handles this with some respect to your wishes and hope for your search in finding someone else, maybe you should reconsidered...... no really, that would be great.
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