LOVE OR TO BE LOVED? ( Archived) (35)

May 24, 2013 3:18 PM CST LOVE OR TO BE LOVED?
windofpeace
windofpeacewindofpeacepadua, Veneto Italy1 Threads 10 Posts
jac379: To love.

You can do that from a distance in your own way.

To accept love from another requires a greater vulnerability and less control over the situation.


You are right. This can mean we don't grow up. Let others enter our lives and watch deep inside us. Only free and pure people can do so.
Free of fears and conditioning troubles, and with no thing to be hidden.
Babies can let their mums take care for them, adults cold choose int and trust who love them. Sometimes we don't trust ourselves
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May 24, 2013 3:22 PM CST LOVE OR TO BE LOVED?
windofpeace
windofpeacewindofpeacepadua, Veneto Italy1 Threads 10 Posts
serena123: Very simply, you have to Give love to receive it


Do you think it really happen sometimes?
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May 24, 2013 3:29 PM CST LOVE OR TO BE LOVED?
windofpeace
windofpeacewindofpeacepadua, Veneto Italy1 Threads 10 Posts
RomanticHumble: Sorry, but I have to answer with a question: What do you think love is?


I can't give a definition. I do believe we need to live love at our best, in a full freedom, responsability, consciousness, daily choice ...
Thanks
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May 24, 2013 3:47 PM CST LOVE OR TO BE LOVED?
tomboygirl2
tomboygirl2tomboygirl2Larnaca, Cyprus39 Posts
I can not deeply love someone unless they love me.So to be loved.love
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May 24, 2013 3:47 PM CST LOVE OR TO BE LOVED?
tomboygirl2
tomboygirl2tomboygirl2Larnaca, Cyprus39 Posts
I can not deeply love someone unless they love me.So to be loved.love
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May 24, 2013 3:52 PM CST LOVE OR TO BE LOVED?
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
tomboygirl2: I can not deeply love someone unless they love me.So to be loved.


I think I can see a slight flaw in that reasoning.

laugh
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May 25, 2013 5:36 PM CST LOVE OR TO BE LOVED?
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
bodleing: I think I can see a slight flaw in that reasoning.
To Love is to reason to reason is to be reasonable to be reasonable is up for debate. I dont go out much.beer
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May 25, 2013 8:17 PM CST LOVE OR TO BE LOVED?
Cyn_Real
Cyn_RealCyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong3 Threads 515 Posts
windofpeace: LOVE OR TO BE LOVED?
Thanks to any helper. I can't find alone a satisfying reply.
What is easier: to love or to let others love you?


TO BE LOVED...
why should I give 100 if he can not give me the same 100 ???
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May 25, 2013 9:41 PM CST LOVE OR TO BE LOVED?
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
In response to: LOVE OR TO BE LOVED?
Thanks to any helper. I can't find alone a satisfying reply.
What is easier: to love or to let others love you?


Next case, and bring in the lobster with you!!!
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May 25, 2013 9:57 PM CST LOVE OR TO BE LOVED?
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
To be loved
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May 25, 2013 10:00 PM CST LOVE OR TO BE LOVED?
purr4mance
purr4mancepurr4manceCleveland, Ohio USA4,825 Posts
LOVE OR TO BE LOVED?


love
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May 25, 2013 10:05 PM CST LOVE OR TO BE LOVED?
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
tomboygirl2: I can not deeply love someone unless they love me.So to be loved.



Something about that doesn't ring right with me.

If you fall in love with someone wouldn't you tell them? Would you wait until you knew that they loved you? Isn't that playing the game that we all don't want anyone to play on us?
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May 28, 2013 6:23 AM CST LOVE OR TO BE LOVED?
windofpeace
windofpeacewindofpeacepadua, Veneto Italy1 Threads 10 Posts
Cyn_Real: TO BE LOVED...
why should I give 100 if he can not give me the same 100 ???


i fear this is one of the reasons why of many relations failure. When one can give 10 and the other90 the sum is still 100.
I think every situation is unique.
Giving 100 and expecting 100, isn't the basic for business?
I won't believe love is only a business
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May 28, 2013 7:12 PM CST LOVE OR TO BE LOVED?
Cyn_Real
Cyn_RealCyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong3 Threads 515 Posts
windofpeace: i fear this is one of the reasons why of many relations failure. When one can give 10 and the other90 the sum is still 100.
I think every situation is unique.
Giving 100 and expecting 100, isn't the basic for business?
I won't believe love is only a business


I didn't talk about business things... I talk about relationship values of both parties... It is very stupid if somebody gives 90 to his/her partner that only gives 10 in return... For me, 10 means playing game... If your partner doesn't really like you while you are ready to die for her, just be ready to play cat & mouse game with her... It is understandable why some people easily jump into a relationship without knowing each other better and then end up in miserable situation...
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May 30, 2013 1:00 PM CST LOVE OR TO BE LOVED?
windofpeace
windofpeacewindofpeacepadua, Veneto Italy1 Threads 10 Posts
Cyn_Real: I didn't talk about business things... I talk about relationship values of both parties... It is very stupid if somebody gives 90 to his/her partner that only gives 10 in return... For me, 10 means playing game... If your partner doesn't really like you while you are ready to die for her, just be ready to play cat & mouse game with her... It is understandable why some people easily jump into a relationship without knowing each other better and then end up in miserable situation...


i agree on the fact everyone should bring their maximum, i consider that we are so different from each other.
I believe that never exist 0 and 100 and 50 and 50 as well.
It happens that each one brings in a relation what one is, their culture, their personal history, their experiences, their pains and successes, day by day, sometimes moment by moment.
A solid relationship starts from respect, knowledge, acceptance, giving worth, and a lot of personal features.
One can like rough approach, another like gentle, ... .
For me, of course.
Wish you find the top of your dreamed love
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