galrads: YES! YES! YES! My puppy fell in love with me when we first met!
that is so very true ! they chose us not the reverse don't they ? hehe good one ! someone wants to give me a new puppie (an abandoned lovely young jack-russel and i am very excited with that first meeting ! ) will he love me or not ? omg ? my hearts beating faster since i saw his pictures !
'Through projection one can create a series of imaginary relationships that often have little or nothing to do with the outside world.'-jung-
at first glance, i think one can choose to open a doorway, walk in, and have a look, decide whether they want to develop a relationship or not. and they can close that door whenever they choose as well. more and more i think it's about 'being love' rather than 'being in love'.
so do i believe in love at first sight? no, but i do believe one can be emotionally hijacked.., which can feel pretty good depending on your projections...
No, you might like the person but it takes getting to know them to be love. You might not be liking someones looks but once you get to know them by talking you see them in a different light and end up loving them.
I did once fell hopelesley n love with a work colleage she was beautiful intelligent funny and an amazing cook i married her years went by and she told me she had met someone at work and fell in love with him at first sight
dont know if i would fall in love again let alone at first sight not cause im bitter but because i think im happy now on my own after 3 years i have got use to being alone and pleasing myself
Yes, it can and does happen... when we see something that goes well beyond our eyes vision... and in those instances, the knowing is just that, a knowing
After that, we do well to let time pass, getting to know the depth of another... if that's what we say we want.
lust .. yes love is only gained through a connection, and knowing the person you are attracted to. falling in love can happen slowly or sometimes a simple gesture from that person can impress you enough to trigger your feelings. either way. love is always worth trying for... even if it leads to pain.
Cyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong515 posts
beautifulyou: Yes, it can and does happen... when we see something that goes well beyond our eyes vision... and in those instances, the knowing is just that, a knowing
After that, we do well to let time pass, getting to know the depth of another... if that's what we say we want.
No, I don't... I can not easily fall in love at the first glance... I've met French guy long time ago... he is gorgeous, but sorry I can not fall in his "flamboyant personality"... just friend is enough...!!!
No, I don't... I can not easily fall in love at the first glance... I've met French guy long time ago... he is gorgeous, but sorry I can not fall in his "flamboyant personality"... just friend is enough...!!!
yes, he said he fall in love with me after 30 minutes conversation...but, I can easily spot his "further purpose"... so, I ended up our conversation politely and then I went to another better guy... I told him, if you want "fast food", then you have met wrong woman... I can give you his phone number if you are curious...
beautifulyou: Yes, it can and does happen... when we see something that goes well beyond our eyes vision... and in those instances, the knowing is just that, a knowing
After that, we do well to let time pass, getting to know the depth of another... if that's what we say we want.
Cyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong515 posts
Alireza711: If so, what your reasons are
Never...!!!
Lust will make you bored easier and earlier...because there is no strong foundation in your relationship... once you notice his/her "imperfection", you will find an exit door sooner or later...
No, I don't... I can not easily fall in love at the first glance... I've met French guy long time ago... he is gorgeous, but sorry I can not fall in his "flamboyant personality"... just friend is enough...!!!
A personal need for posting a link concerning a photo that has clearly been given an 'avatar disclaimer' to it?
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attraction, i often think that is love, but for me that is often not how the story goes