no women ever found me attractive. ( Archived) (22)

Dear Guys,

I have an embarrassing question to ask. I am touching 30 and I am yet to date in my life. I am not good-looking (I am only 5’7” tall) but I am certainly not the ugliest man on this earth. I university grad and earn enough to afford a middle class life ($190-220K) per year.

Perhaps, I have missed few steps involved in human evolution. As no women (Fat, Ugly or even weirdo) would never care for me. While I was young I was carrier oriented and having a partner never bothered me much. However, now I was started to feel emptiness in my life and need to get this solved.

Pathetic as it may sound I am sure I am not the only man on this earth suffering with this issue. I would like to know how can I become more desirable. Is there any course to help guys like me preferable in Sydney.

I have no issues with confidence and have approached many girls many times but to no avail.

Regards,

There's a CS forum course which might help you.

What you do is become a regular reader and poster and then decide for yourself who, or what you can learn from.

Usually, we can learn from most people even if its rejecting claims that you need to club women over the head and drag them back to your cave by force.

I've found it a most productive experience on many, many levels.

i dont know whats happening with u,but most women dont care about men's look.its important that u got a well paid job and can support ur family.
If ur unlucky with aussie girls,then look for girls in asian countries such as Phillipines,Indonesia ,Thai ets.they can be hot and not very demanding.

Well I don't know what's wrong with the women in your area or the ones you've met but I think you're a handsome young man. Don't give up..the one you seek will come your way. As for those who wouldn't date you well there's no accounting for taste. It's their loss

what does this mean? and where did you get it from? what is supplication? what do you mean by male 8's and female 6's

Ok checked you out Physically you appear attractive. Nothing wrong there. So have you thought about asking a close friend if they see something that might be stopping the dating process for you? Are you looking to hard? Do you appear over confident or not confident enough. All these things can play a big part into getting close to a women. I myself would most likely check into a communications course of some kind, not the radio broadcasting course but one that teaches the basics of communication. Usually I find communication or lack of a problem. May I suggest you don't broadcast your income. Sadly to some this will either seem like boasting or unrealistic. Most do not make that kind of income. At least not where I am at after reading your post I googled how to get a date. Plenty of reading material out there. I still trust the old fashioned way. I have a grand daughter who is almost twenty smart pretty intelligent goal oriented. By the time she graduated high school she already had thirty six colledge credits. To be honest she is drop dead gorgeous. I think because of all the time her nose has been in her books and achieving her goals she has lost her confidence in her beauty. So she wants and admires but does not really pursue. Maybe that is what is happening to you. There is a difference between asking someone out and pursuing them. Wish you the best of luck

Hi Vinny, there is nothing wrong with your looks. Confidence and how comfortable you are with yourself is a big factor in how you come across in RL (Can't say anything to that obviously). I think it's best to meet people through common interests, join a club (let it be sports, debating, creative pottery, whatever floats your boat ) and try to increase your social circle.

Best of luck.