planing a second date in the middle of the first date (28)
KasihJakarta, Indonesia1 Threads 67 PostsIf a man suggest a second date in the middle of the first date , and talk about the dates and the destination aswell , is this a good sign to view how the man is feeling toward the woman ?
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Kasih: If a man suggest a second date in the middle of the first date , and talk about the dates and the destination aswell , is this a good sign to view how the man is feeling toward the woman ?
Yes, he's obviously enthusiastic, but it could be a little insensitive, or controlling as well.
Talking about a second date in the middle of a first if you haven't previously known each other and built up a good communication rapport, somewhat puts you on the spot. It would be socially awkward to say in the middle of a first date, you don't want a second, neither does it allow the perspective of reviewing how you feel about the date on your own at the end of the evening.
The situation only gives you the option to agree in terms of social niceties, so perhaps an offer the next day would be more appropriate, by phone, or email.
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Kasih: If a man suggest a second date in the middle of the first date , and talk about the dates and the destination aswell , is this a good sign to view how the man is feeling toward the woman ?
If it happens again you should mess with him by asking what is wrong with the one he is on. lol. I mean. if you think he has that sense of humour.
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jac379: Yes, he's obviously enthusiastic, but it could be a little insensitive, or controlling as well.
Talking about a second date in the middle of a first if you haven't previously known each other and built up a good communication rapport, somewhat puts you on the spot. It would be socially awkward to say in the middle of a first date, you don't want a second, neither does it allow the perspective of reviewing how you feel about the date on your own at the end of the evening.
The situation only gives you the option to agree in terms of social niceties, so perhaps an offer the next day would be more appropriate, by phone, or email.
Talking about a second date in the middle of a first if you haven't previously known each other and built up a good communication rapport, somewhat puts you on the spot. It would be socially awkward to say in the middle of a first date, you don't want a second, neither does it allow the perspective of reviewing how you feel about the date on your own at the end of the evening.
The situation only gives you the option to agree in terms of social niceties, so perhaps an offer the next day would be more appropriate, by phone, or email.
yes , too fast can be good or it can lead to others things as well, and yes controlling can be an issue ..
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Kasih: If a man suggest a second date in the middle of the first date , and talk about the dates and the destination aswell , is this a good sign to view how the man is feeling toward the woman ?
Quite often I think we can all learn from rabbits and how they handle second dates. Male thumpers are quite adapt to seeing two and three dates ahead, and usually running concurrent with two maybe three bunnies until he finds the right cottontail.
However, the Alpa-Bunnie, Like the Easter Bunny, can be quite arrogant and controlling, but only when competition from the Hugh Hefner types are around.
Source: galrads c/o CS, 2013 ibid dibid
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galrads: Quite often I think we can all learn from rabbits and how they handle second dates. Male thumpers are quite adapt to seeing two and three dates ahead, and usually running concurrent with two maybe three bunnies until he finds the right cottontail.
However, the Alpa-Bunnie, Like the Easter Bunny, can be quite arrogant and controlling, but only when competition from the Hugh Hefner types are around.
Source: galrads c/o CS, 2013 ibid dibid
However, the Alpa-Bunnie, Like the Easter Bunny, can be quite arrogant and controlling, but only when competition from the Hugh Hefner types are around.
Source: galrads c/o CS, 2013 ibid dibid
Good one, Gal.
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In response to: If a man suggest a second date in the middle of the first date , and talk about the dates and the destination aswell , is this a good sign to view how the man is feeling toward the woman ?
Depends how long you´ve known him, and what you know about him. Gut instinct is the key. However, a second date doesn´t go amiss just to see what your gut instinct is telling you
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Nikogas: If it happens again you should mess with him by asking what is wrong with the one he is on. lol. I mean. if you think he has that sense of humour.
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heheheh when i tried that one, i hope that he have one ...
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galrads: Quite often I think we can all learn from rabbits and how they handle second dates. Male thumpers are quite adapt to seeing two and three dates ahead, and usually running concurrent with two maybe three bunnies until he finds the right cottontail.
However, the Alpa-Bunnie, Like the Easter Bunny, can be quite arrogant and controlling, but only when competition from the Hugh Hefner types are around.
Source: galrads c/o CS, 2013 ibid dibid
However, the Alpa-Bunnie, Like the Easter Bunny, can be quite arrogant and controlling, but only when competition from the Hugh Hefner types are around.
Source: galrads c/o CS, 2013 ibid dibid
hmmm interesting will try to google them for more details. Btw, thts why playboy symbol is a wabbit then ... hmmmm interesting
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hoolet: Depends how long you´ve known him, and what you know about him. Gut instinct is the key. However, a second date doesn´t go amiss just to see what your gut instinct is telling you
its the feeling of butterfly with giant beaks ....
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Kasih: its the feeling of butterfly with giant beaks ....
well ....get on that second date and gobble him up then. (not sure if the word gobble should be used )------ This thread is Archived ------
Thumblelina: Not all women fall for the arseholes as you so eloquently put it Obstinance,I do agree with your premise that men like that are a**hole, I just don't' agree with you positing that women love men like this for that reason. I myself can't stand men like that and i'd rather be dating a guy you may initially be perceived as "needy" when in fact they are just enthusiastic about meeting again and are actually putting in the effort to make something work.
As for the OP's original question, the fact that he's planning a second date half way through the first can be good or bad it depends on the type of person really. You would know him better than any of us so it's ultimately up to you to decide what indications he's giving. Either way just go just with your gut regarding seeing him again and enjoy it if you do.
As for the OP's original question, the fact that he's planning a second date half way through the first can be good or bad it depends on the type of person really. You would know him better than any of us so it's ultimately up to you to decide what indications he's giving. Either way just go just with your gut regarding seeing him again and enjoy it if you do.
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Kasih: If a man suggest a second date in the middle of the first date , and talk about the dates and the destination aswell , is this a good sign to view how the man is feeling toward the woman ?
Hi Kasih, he just likes to see you again.
It is a good sign if it is mutual, it can be arkward to be put on the spot if you don't feel the same.
Hope it works out for you.
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Kasih: If a man suggest a second date in the middle of the first date , and talk about the dates and the destination aswell , is this a good sign to view how the man is feeling toward the woman ?
he is chancing his arm, he thinks if he suggests a second date you will fall for it and jump into bed on the first date.
I know cynical, I cant help it
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At the end of the first date,i would politely ask,""What do you say,shall we have a second one???" Though i might not even ask,if i suspect (depending on the vibes i've got), is futile to have a second one.-
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Yep...Smart guy for closing the deal...
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Thumblelina: Not all women fall for the arseholes as you so eloquently put it Obstinance,I do agree with your premise that men like that are a**hole, I just don't' agree with you positing that women love men like this for that reason. I myself can't stand men like that and i'd rather be dating a guy you may initially be perceived as "needy" when in fact they are just enthusiastic about meeting again and are actually putting in the effort to make something work.
As for the OP's original question, the fact that he's planning a second date half way through the first can be good or bad it depends on the type of person really. You would know him better than any of us so it's ultimately up to you to decide what indications he's giving. Either way just go just with your gut regarding seeing him again and enjoy it if you do.
As for the OP's original question, the fact that he's planning a second date half way through the first can be good or bad it depends on the type of person really. You would know him better than any of us so it's ultimately up to you to decide what indications he's giving. Either way just go just with your gut regarding seeing him again and enjoy it if you do.
yes not all women fall for bad guys , some do but not all ..
and yes gut feelings is a good indicator when all other things are still blur ..
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I'd take this as a good sign that he was interested in getting to know you better. I personally don't see it as controlling or needy as some of the other posters stated, but merely that he likes you.
Hopefully you enjoyed your time with him as well, as it would be awkward to be there and him planning further get-to-gethers and all you want to do is escape!! lol
Hopefully you enjoyed your time with him as well, as it would be awkward to be there and him planning further get-to-gethers and all you want to do is escape!! lol
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KNenagh: Hi Kasih, he just likes to see you again.
It is a good sign if it is mutual, it can be arkward to be put on the spot if you don't feel the same.
Hope it works out for you.
It is a good sign if it is mutual, it can be arkward to be put on the spot if you don't feel the same.
Hope it works out for you.
thanks KNenagh. i have learn that expectation hurts . so just goin with the flow
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