Love at matured age (54)
Well, i still wonder what matured age is ??? live your life at the full and enjoy before it's too late !!! 
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Tiger1974: To be very precise it is two souls who are in love with each other for decades over but are committed towards their families as well and their no letup in their relation in spite of that. They do meet occasionally without hurting sentiments or ego of their respective families.
That is purely deceipt.
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I think you should go to counciling and try to discover why you have been together all these years, buried is the love you once had for each other, theres nothing wrong about trying to rediscover what you once had after all theres alot of history there and being single isn't all its cracked up to be, I would rather be married, find the happiness you once had its there....
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If I understand, you love one another and are able to be with one another in near every sense of the word... My suggestion would be to consider forsaking "social sanction" as, it is just that...
Instead, consider flowing with what the Spirit of Love tells you... IT will guide you as to how to "BE" with the Love that has been given you, that has been given her (well outside of social convention).
I have no sense this is a "social/cultural decision" as much as it may be a Spiritual Invitation to know The Depths Of Love... Given that sense, 'it' is just that... an invitation!
Many blessings to you Sir.
Instead, consider flowing with what the Spirit of Love tells you... IT will guide you as to how to "BE" with the Love that has been given you, that has been given her (well outside of social convention).
I have no sense this is a "social/cultural decision" as much as it may be a Spiritual Invitation to know The Depths Of Love... Given that sense, 'it' is just that... an invitation!
Many blessings to you Sir.
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Tiger1974: If a couple in late fifties is attached to each other for long time having their individual domestic life, grown up children and still feel uneasiness for each other. Should they continue with this state of affair or they should abstain now?
if it is love.go for it
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Tiger1974: If a couple in late fifties is attached to each other for long time having their individual domestic life, grown up children and still feel uneasiness for each other. Should they continue with this state of affair or they should abstain now?
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beautifulyou: If I understand, you love one another and are able to be with one another in near every sense of the word... My suggestion would be to consider forsaking "social sanction" as, it is just that...
Instead, consider flowing with what the Spirit of Love tells you... IT will guide you as to how to "BE" with the Love that has been given you, that has been given her (well outside of social convention).
I have no sense this is a "social/cultural decision" as much as it may be a Spiritual Invitation to know The Depths Of Love... Given that sense, 'it' is just that... an invitation!
Many blessings to you Sir.
Some Blessing here plzInstead, consider flowing with what the Spirit of Love tells you... IT will guide you as to how to "BE" with the Love that has been given you, that has been given her (well outside of social convention).
I have no sense this is a "social/cultural decision" as much as it may be a Spiritual Invitation to know The Depths Of Love... Given that sense, 'it' is just that... an invitation!
Many blessings to you Sir.
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************ali110: Some Blessing here plz
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beautifulyou: If I understand, you love one another and are able to be with one another in near every sense of the word... My suggestion would be to consider forsaking "social sanction" as, it is just that...
Instead, consider flowing with what the Spirit of Love tells you... IT will guide you as to how to "BE" with the Love that has been given you, that has been given her (well outside of social convention).
I have no sense this is a "social/cultural decision" as much as it may be a Spiritual Invitation to know The Depths Of Love... Given that sense, 'it' is just that... an invitation!
Many blessings to you Sir.
Thanks BeautifulInstead, consider flowing with what the Spirit of Love tells you... IT will guide you as to how to "BE" with the Love that has been given you, that has been given her (well outside of social convention).
I have no sense this is a "social/cultural decision" as much as it may be a Spiritual Invitation to know The Depths Of Love... Given that sense, 'it' is just that... an invitation!
Many blessings to you Sir.
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A_Non_A_Moose: Whatever happened to the time when people tried to "fix" things instead of discarding them? We live in a disposable society. Marriages are thrown away in the same fashion one would toss an old pair of shoes. We are looking for a quick fix, something that can satisfy our needs and if those needs aren’t satisfied some feel it is easier to toss the spouse and move on to the next relationship. If the marriage becomes hard and requires a little attention and work it is easier for some to discard the marriage than to hunker down, roll their sleeves up and go to work. Then again, each and every relationship is unique, and generalizations should not be assigned....
Thank you for the trailer it has lifted my sprit
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In my opinion the approach you suggest works if siblings are of a mature age. When couples have young children (5 perhaps to 17) they a badly affected by a break up but also they are adversely affected by the behaviour of their parents. I did what you suggested but ended up in hurting myself much more as I was the tactile repository of my sons who then became savagely injured by their mother's, rightful I add, anger.
But there's another issue worth considering. In situations where a woman has young girls who lose their biological father and eventually have thrust on them a male whom their mother believes she needs. I ask you how safe are they from male predatory behaviour, potentially, how traumatic is a new male to them and while you may think its all okay each situation must have the male thoroughly checked out. If you believe I'm exaggerating the risks and potential issues do a statistical check, you'll be horrified.
Get counselling on how to protect your children and bring them up in a safe, loved and emotionally stable home environment.
But there's another issue worth considering. In situations where a woman has young girls who lose their biological father and eventually have thrust on them a male whom their mother believes she needs. I ask you how safe are they from male predatory behaviour, potentially, how traumatic is a new male to them and while you may think its all okay each situation must have the male thoroughly checked out. If you believe I'm exaggerating the risks and potential issues do a statistical check, you'll be horrified.
Get counselling on how to protect your children and bring them up in a safe, loved and emotionally stable home environment.
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What if they both dislike each other but one dies? That's a very permanent separation. If , as the question is posed, mature aged people have the capacity to love then the answers in the affirmative.
If for any reason you cannot love then at least learn to love yourself and forget the past because you can.
If for any reason you cannot love then at least learn to love yourself and forget the past because you can.
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abstain from what? sorry I just would like to know.