Both of the Chinese girl love me ( Archived) (133)

Sep 6, 2013 1:30 PM CST Both of the Chinese girl love me
Katherine_in_Sg
Katherine_in_SgKatherine_in_SgSingapore, Central Singapore Singapore6 Threads 2 Polls 36 Posts
janie1305: You didn't answer my question really. What is more important, love or money if you were in the situation I suggested in my previous post? I don't mean to be intrusive but I am interested in your point of view.




I dont think i can live with a guy who i dont love eventhough he's rich. I will choose the person i love even if he's poor but hardworking.

How about you?
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Sep 6, 2013 10:38 PM CST Both of the Chinese girl love me
rizlared: Are you sure it's love? More likely they love that you are western, treat them with more respect than their countrymen and have more money than their countrymen, not love and never will be!!


what you are saying may be initially true in some cases - tho I can;t imagine that all chinese men treat women poorly (not safe to paint any group with a broad brush)

I think it;s very possible to fall in love with someone who treats you with more respect, very possible indeed. so if the western men they are meeting are more respectful and more egalitarian (both christian values) I could definitely understand how a woman who is not used to being treated equally & kindly could fall in love with a man who does treat her so.....regardless of his race or ethnicity...

but I do concede a degree of truth in what u say
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Sep 6, 2013 11:10 PM CST Both of the Chinese girl love me
Ken_19
Ken_19Ken_19Winchester, Virginia USA68 Threads 26 Polls 1,055 Posts
NorwayMann: Hi, forum!

Just returned from Beijing, where I had my work the last 2 years. Two nice female girls, who also are close friends, say they are in love with me.

This can seem to be a luxury problem, because I love them back the same way, and how to choose....? I think of this problem day and night.


Norwaymann may have run away. LoL

Still he has not indicated he is in Love with either one, merely they are in Love with him and they are friends. So I am really not understanding the reason for the opposition to a poly arrangement. They will have what they wish, he will have his needs met, so why on earth would anyone external to this feel they have grounds to whine about it or object to it?
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Sep 7, 2013 10:59 AM CST Both of the Chinese girl love me
lovemedofr
lovemedofrlovemedofrbeautiful place, Nouvelle-Aquitaine France2 Threads 1,224 Posts
However, chinese girls are NOTHING in comparaison to MALES !!! How many cases of females and murders of female babies there every year ??? wow , i'm glad i was born French and free !!!!!!!!doh
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Sep 7, 2013 11:10 AM CST Both of the Chinese girl love me
lovemedofr: However, chinese girls are NOTHING in comparaison to MALES !!! How many cases of females and murders of female babies there every year ??? wow , i'm glad i was born French and free !!!!!!!!

How many? Tell us? dunno
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Sep 7, 2013 8:46 PM CST Both of the Chinese girl love me
Ken_19: You have a point. How many of our responses would have been different if OP would have simply written,

Two nice female girls, who also are close friends, say they are in love with me. This can seem to be a luxury problem, because I love them back the same way, and how to choose....? I think of this problem day and night?

I re-read some of the responses here and yes, our perception of the situation was distorted by the mention of Beijing.


yes somehow we got onto chinese men and chinese culture. I also prefer to look at it as an issue involving a man and 2 women he's attracted to ... no mention of race or nationality

in my original response I did paint it that way as I responded originally that he is not in love ... because were he really in love with either of them, he not have eyes for any othersmitten
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Sep 13, 2013 10:06 AM CST Both of the Chinese girl love me
peonyjenny
peonyjennypeonyjennyAbu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates35 Posts
we have a reply, eat with one girl, sleep with the other girl.
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Sep 13, 2013 10:12 AM CST Both of the Chinese girl love me
peonyjenny
peonyjennypeonyjennyAbu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates35 Posts
I do agree Some chinese girls are not rich,or I should say, they are poor,but some are doing pretty ok.. Many girls have fairly good life, especially in big cities, china is not poor at all,Beijing,Shanghai, Shenzhen.

There are some chinese girls looking for foregners not for their money.Most only want to set up a life.Among chinese people,now have 2nd largest number of people with their personal possessions over 1million usd.

Especially among chinese girls, there are well educated chinese girl,from big cities,should have very good choices.
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Sep 13, 2013 10:18 AM CST Both of the Chinese girl love me
peonyjenny
peonyjennypeonyjennyAbu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates35 Posts
Katherine,
Chinese people is the second largest buyers of USA properties in the world. And Chinese people also bought some properties in London. There are poor chinese,but there are middle class chinese, and some rich chinese are very wealthy.
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Jan 19, 2014 8:15 AM CST Both of the Chinese girl love me
NUMBER_ONE
NUMBER_ONENUMBER_ONEBlaine, Minnesota USA1 Threads 136 Posts
flip a coin then laugh
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Jan 19, 2014 8:16 AM CST Both of the Chinese girl love me
NorwayMann
NorwayMannNorwayMannOslo, Norway1 Threads 4 Posts
Maybe you are right, but the other will be hurt, so I better find a solution, because I need my life :)
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Jan 19, 2014 8:24 AM CST Both of the Chinese girl love me
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
NorwayMann: Maybe you are right, but the other will be hurt, so I better find a solution, because I need my life :)


My last g/f but one was Chinese from a village near Bejing. She was absolutely delightful as a woman and made you feel like a man, such humility and presence none of the arrogance and demands of Western women. And she could cook Chinese food, wow I was ready to marry her but before I could ask her, she had to return to China for a family funeral. Strangely, I lost touch with her and have never seen her since.
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Jan 19, 2014 8:30 AM CST Both of the Chinese girl love me
Golfsaboteur
GolfsaboteurGolfsaboteurSomewhere on the Costa del sol, Andalusia Spain35 Posts
tomcatwarne: My last g/f but one was Chinese from a village near Bejing. She was absolutely delightful as a woman and made you feel like a man, such humility and presence none of the arrogance and demands of Western women. And she could cook Chinese food, wow I was ready to marry her but before I could ask her, she had to return to China for a family funeral. Strangely, I lost touch with her and have never seen her since.

Hmmmmmm.....popcorn
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