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Countryguy89Hopewell, Pennsylvania USA5 Threads 3 Polls 26 PostsMany different times, ive sent out flowers, occasional message, photo rates, profile views, ect, but yet, i dont really seem to be getting barely, to none in return. What exactly am i doing wrong? And how can i get noticed more on this site? 
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Countryguy89: Many different times, ive sent out flowers, occasional message, photo rates, profile views, ect, but yet, i dont really seem to be getting barely, to none in return. What exactly am i doing wrong? And how can i get noticed more on this site?
Don't know, your profile seems alright. May be concentrate on your own area, where you can meet women realistically?
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joyaepace: Don't know, your profile seems alright. May be concentrate on your own area, where you can meet women realistically?
you mean this is not realistic?
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magiclove65: you mean this is not realistic?
May be he e-mails women who live too far away?
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I really don´t know, though I doubt whether photo rates or profile reviews are productive generally.
The forums may be the best place initially to get noticed, but the downside is that many forum posters are only here for the banter, debate, innocent flirting, (or ego stroking perhaps
)and corresponding with virtual friends they have made during their time here.
You should also be aware that many women here receive messages and flowers on a regular basis and it is not always possible or wise (nutcases are everywhere!) to respond, so don´t take it personally.
Good luck.
The forums may be the best place initially to get noticed, but the downside is that many forum posters are only here for the banter, debate, innocent flirting, (or ego stroking perhaps
)and corresponding with virtual friends they have made during their time here.You should also be aware that many women here receive messages and flowers on a regular basis and it is not always possible or wise (nutcases are everywhere!) to respond, so don´t take it personally.
Good luck.
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joyaepace: May be he e-mails women who live too far away?
if i remember, i had only a few brief messages from like, 4 women, that lived outta the states. Altho, i personally prefer foreign ladies myself, But i think yer right tho, about messaging ones closer to my area, maybe ill have better luck.
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Countryguy89: Many different times, ive sent out flowers, occasional message, photo rates, profile views, ect, but yet, i dont really seem to be getting barely, to none in return. What exactly am i doing wrong? And how can i get noticed more on this site?
Depends on a number of factors:
* Who you are contacting
* How wide is your contact circle
* What you say
* If you participate in the forums, Blogs and polls
* What you are looking for (is it realistic?)
These factors play a big role in the success or failure on here and on other dating sites.
I was not getting anywhere either, until I had a good look at these things, then I couldn't stop the contacts.
Not bragging, just saying have a look at the above list and answer these questions honestly for yourself.
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Keep on being pro-active and good luck! 
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After many years here, I've come to realize that scammers do not take time to participate in the forums and goof around with others. They tend to contact women directly and try to get them to chat away from here as soon as possible.
I will recommend that you find some topic of interest in the forums. It is, after all, like meeting in public. If there's a particular lady you like, maybe follow the topics she likes if it's something you two have in common, After a while, she'll notice you and maybe, if you are nice and play right, she'll let you in.
Start with the forums.
I will recommend that you find some topic of interest in the forums. It is, after all, like meeting in public. If there's a particular lady you like, maybe follow the topics she likes if it's something you two have in common, After a while, she'll notice you and maybe, if you are nice and play right, she'll let you in.
Start with the forums.
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Give it up dude. With me on this site you have no chance
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DaytonaDude: Give it up dude. With me on this site you have no chance
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