afraid of getting with anyone because of little confidence...help? (72)
jac379:
Why do you feel maligned that she said she doesn't want fitness advice and she's got that area covered?
Why do you think she's obliged to answer to you and account for her fitness regime to you?
Why do you feel the need to become rude about women's choices because your advice is not what she's looking for?
Why do you feel the need to criticise her choices?
Why do you think she's likely to open up to you, so you may criticise her choices further?
Why do you assume she doesn't know what she's doing in terms of her fitness, or hasn't made the choices she wants to make with regards to her fitness regime?
What needs of yours do you expect to be met on this thread created she to meet her needs? Why do you feel your needs should be met by the OP?
What part of 'no thank you' do you not understand?
Why do you feel maligned that she said she doesn't want fitness advice and she's got that area covered?
Why do you think she's obliged to answer to you and account for her fitness regime to you?
Why do you feel the need to become rude about women's choices because your advice is not what she's looking for?
Why do you feel the need to criticise her choices?
Why do you think she's likely to open up to you, so you may criticise her choices further?
Why do you assume she doesn't know what she's doing in terms of her fitness, or hasn't made the choices she wants to make with regards to her fitness regime?
What needs of yours do you expect to be met on this thread created she to meet her needs? Why do you feel your needs should be met by the OP?
What part of 'no thank you' do you not understand?
Oh, please STFU. There you go again. Past traumatic experiences hindering your empathy and misreading my motivations entirely. Get help. 
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MADDOG69: Oh, please STFU. There you go again. Past traumatic experiences hindering your empathy and misreading my motivations entirely. Get help.
The pattern of when you dismiss me, derogate me, become abusive and make aspersions about my psychological health is interesting.
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jac379: The pattern of when you dismiss me, derogate me, become abusive and make aspersions about my psychological health is interesting.
Oh yeah, and its interesting the way you try to minimise my skills in an area you think you might be able to shatter my confidence in.
Why do you do this so regularly? What need does it fulfil in you?
It's remarkably like insulting a beautiful woman's appearance, isn't it?
Like telling me I need to paint my orange orange orange.
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janie1305: Well then I misunderstood our previous post I referred to entirely, apologies. So what exactly did you mean about the women responding here not understanding young men in the op's peer group? More pertinent perhaps is your reference now to the men who have responded here. Aren't most if not all of them also outside the op's peer group?
And why do so many threads end up with you two having a go at each other? It really does spoil it for everyone else.
Just something I've noticed since I came back to CS recently after a very long break.
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jac379: Oh yeah, and its interesting the way you try to minimise my skills in an area you think you might be able to shatter my confidence in.
Why do you do this so regularly? What need does it fulfil in you?
It's remarkably like insulting a beautiful woman's appearance, isn't it?
Like telling me I need to paint my orange orange orange.
Why do you do this so regularly? What need does it fulfil in you?
It's remarkably like insulting a beautiful woman's appearance, isn't it?
Like telling me I need to paint my orange orange orange.
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janie1305: And why do so many threads end up with you two having a go at each other? It really does spoil it for everyone else.
Just something I've noticed since I came back to CS recently after a very long break.
Just something I've noticed since I came back to CS recently after a very long break.
Because MD can only debate for so long before he resorts to insults.
I take on board what you're saying though and I'll leave it at that.
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jac379: Again another aspersion about my psychological health. Is that the third, or fourth time in about half an hour?
Why do you feel the need to derogate me, rather than put forward your perspective if you think I've got something wrong?
Why do you feel the need to introduce others into the equation? Can you not stand alone and argue your case against someone so psychologically disorder and inadequate as you've been saying I am on this thread and others?
If I'm that crap, surely I'm no threat to you? Surely you don't need back up?
Why do you feel the need to derogate me, rather than put forward your perspective if you think I've got something wrong?
Why do you feel the need to introduce others into the equation? Can you not stand alone and argue your case against someone so psychologically disorder and inadequate as you've been saying I am on this thread and others?
If I'm that crap, surely I'm no threat to you? Surely you don't need back up?
But there you go yet again.... lack of empathy borne out by a prior traumatic event: Thinking I mentioned the other name because I NEED backup.
I don't NEED any backup. I'm simple demonstrating a pattern. A pattern of trolling and intentional misrepresenting. You're broken. Loco.------ This thread is Archived ------
Maus19: And there you go again. Avoidance of any awkward questions. Well, awkward, just questions. Answers that could debunk and avoid misinterpretations, and every time the option is there you run.
And here enters the other side of the same coin. 
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janie1305: And why do so many threads end up with you two having a go at each other? It really does spoil it for everyone else.
Just something I've noticed since I came back to CS recently after a very long break.
Because many others are cleverer and don't indulge it. I do... 'cos I'm stupid. Just something I've noticed since I came back to CS recently after a very long break.
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jac379: Because MD can only debate for so long before he resorts to insults.
Eh you insulted me by misrepresenting my motives. 'Cos you're a bit mad. Still counting?
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Hi Stacers!
U're very pretty! Don't think over ur weight. Don't compare urself to others. Be Always have positive outlook in life. Stay happy as u are. We have different uniqueness of our personality. Be with a positive people and attract to them. Not all people we can please them.
Cheers!
U're very pretty! Don't think over ur weight. Don't compare urself to others. Be Always have positive outlook in life. Stay happy as u are. We have different uniqueness of our personality. Be with a positive people and attract to them. Not all people we can please them.
Cheers!
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