why do women dislike crossdressers...? ( Archived) (84)

Jun 7, 2013 12:12 PM CST why do women dislike crossdressers...?
1Shyboy
1Shyboy1ShyboyGalway, Ireland1 Threads 2 Posts
lots of men love wearing feminine clothes, some of these men are gay, others like myself prefer female company. i find it impossible to find a woman...but at least im honest..xxx
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Jun 7, 2013 12:41 PM CST why do women dislike crossdressers...?
slickmouse69
slickmouse69slickmouse69Edinburgh, Central, Scotland UK59 Posts
Maybe it's because your a big girls blouse
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Jun 7, 2013 12:43 PM CST why do women dislike crossdressers...?
pisceslady7
pisceslady7pisceslady7Gosford, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 6 Polls 2,553 Posts
In response to: lots of men love wearing feminine clothes, some of these men are gay, others like myself prefer female company. i find it impossible to find a woman...but at least im honest..xxx


Congratulations for being honest!
I do have a friend who is a cross-dresser and he is a very special person to me. However, I honestly could not date a man who dressed in women's clothing. I cannot explain why. I definitely do not want to offend you and I am afraid I might when I say it is like a cold shower as far as passion is concerned.
I suppose that me being overweight does the same to some men.
We are just attracted to what we are attracted to.
By the way...my friend knows many women who are married to cross-dressers. May I suggest you look for specific dating sites as I know they DO exist.
I wish you all the very best in your search and I do hope you can find a lady that delights in your differences.
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Jun 7, 2013 12:54 PM CST why do women dislike crossdressers...?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia207 Threads 7 Polls 29,897 Posts
1Shyboy: lots of men love wearing feminine clothes, some of these men are gay, others like myself prefer female company. i find it impossible to find a woman...but at least im honest..xxx

Well you gotta make up your mind ,either you wanna be liked by lots of women ,in which case you you probably have to give up in that Hoity-toity habit or stay as you are and get used to be liked by a few
now run out and treat yourself with a purse grin
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Jun 7, 2013 12:55 PM CST why do women dislike crossdressers...?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK33 Threads 4 Polls 21,245 Posts
1Shyboy: lots of men love wearing feminine clothes, some of these men are gay, others like myself prefer female company. i find it impossible to find a woman...but at least im honest..xxx

You don't have to say, "...but at least I'm honest."

You don't have to justify yourself.

Its just shaped, coloured cloth stuff, ffs.

If you can't wear what feels good, if you can't have fun with clothes, what a sorry state the world is in.

bouquet
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Jun 7, 2013 1:11 PM CST why do women dislike crossdressers...?
Boban1: Well you gotta make up your mind ,either you wanna be liked by lots of women ,in which case you you probably have to give up in that Hoity-toity habit or stay as you are and get used to be liked by a few
now run out and treat yourself with a purse


Oh yeah rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 7, 2013 1:12 PM CST why do women dislike crossdressers...?
pisceslady7
pisceslady7pisceslady7Gosford, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 6 Polls 2,553 Posts
Boban1: Well you gotta make up your mind ,either you wanna be liked by lots of women ,in which case you you probably have to give up in that Hoity-toity habit or stay as you are and get used to be liked by a few
now run out and treat yourself with a purse


Your reply sickens me. It shows a lack of understanding at best and amazing, intentional, belittling rudeness at worst. I think you will see the women's replies on here much more understanding and caring than your own.
No...you don't have to approve of people's lifestyles nor condone them, however, politeness costs nothing. Maybe your parents did not teach you 'if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing' when making personal remarks that may be hurtful?
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Jun 7, 2013 1:15 PM CST why do women dislike crossdressers...?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK33 Threads 4 Polls 21,245 Posts
pisceslady7: Your reply sickens me. It shows a lack of understanding at best and amazing, intentional, belittling rudeness at worst. I think you will see the women's replies on here much more understanding and caring than your own.
No...you don't have to approve of people's lifestyles nor condone them, however, politeness costs nothing. Maybe your parents did not teach you 'if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing' when making personal remarks that may be hurtful?

Perhaps you missed the compassion in Boban's post and the emphasis upon not giving a tuppenny toss about what the majority might think, Pisces?
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Jun 7, 2013 1:17 PM CST why do women dislike crossdressers...?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia207 Threads 7 Polls 29,897 Posts
pisceslady7: Your reply sickens me. It shows a lack of understanding at best and amazing, intentional, belittling rudeness at worst. I think you will see the women's replies on here much more understanding and caring than your own.
No...you don't have to approve of people's lifestyles nor condone them, however, politeness costs nothing. Maybe your parents did not teach you 'if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing' when making personal remarks that may be hurtful?

You know, this can be tricky " If you have nothing nice to say ,say nothing"(re-read your post)
Now if you think about my previous post ,it does make sense
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Jun 7, 2013 1:19 PM CST why do women dislike crossdressers...?
pisceslady7
pisceslady7pisceslady7Gosford, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 6 Polls 2,553 Posts
jac379: Perhaps you missed the compassion in Boban's post and the emphasis upon not giving a tuppenny toss about what the majority might think, Pisces?


I definitely did not read it that way. If the meaning was as you have said, I apologise to him.
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Jun 7, 2013 1:30 PM CST why do women dislike crossdressers...?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK33 Threads 4 Polls 21,245 Posts
pisceslady7: I definitely did not read it that way. If the meaning was as you have said, I apologise to him.

Yeah, I'm pretty sure I'm right. grin
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Jun 7, 2013 1:32 PM CST why do women dislike crossdressers...?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia207 Threads 7 Polls 29,897 Posts
pisceslady
No need for apologies
but what the heck is the point of asking for advice on a public forum by creating a thread ,if people are not ready for a discussion ...Some opinions are gonna be funny, some fuzzy ,some creative and some negative ...
Why do we expect that if we behave unconventionally than the majority that everyone will be trilled and admire us
Oh and Opening Poster, hiding posts is a bad way to communicate with people
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Jun 7, 2013 1:34 PM CST why do women dislike crossdressers...?
pisceslady7: I definitely did not read it that way. If the meaning was as you have said, I apologise to him.


who says anyone has to be sensitive to cross dressers. Evidently, you've never experienced them coming on to you and subsequently had to put them in their place. The cross-dressers who confronted me were sick puppies.
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Jun 7, 2013 1:38 PM CST why do women dislike crossdressers...?
galrads: who says anyone has to be sensitive to cross dressers. Evidently, you've never experienced them coming on to you and subsequently had to put them in their place. The cross-dressers who confronted me were sick puppies.

You must have been giving off some strange signals, then. laugh
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Jun 7, 2013 1:40 PM CST why do women dislike crossdressers...?
CmdrMercutio
CmdrMercutioCmdrMercutioRickmansworth, UK, Hertfordshire, England UK2 Threads 208 Posts
I thinbk its a shame that various creditable laws designed to protect the gay population dont really address the needs of the cross-dressing community. I guess you're not so visible a minority? although i can see how thats an odd phrase to use in the circumstances.....
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Jun 7, 2013 1:42 PM CST why do women dislike crossdressers...?
Tomcats2
Tomcats2Tomcats2Norwich, Norfolk, England UK99 Threads 10 Polls 2,979 Posts
woman have been wearing mens clothes for best part of a century who cares be yourself and feck anybody that tells you differentpeace
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Jun 7, 2013 1:42 PM CST why do women dislike crossdressers...?
Tomcats2
Tomcats2Tomcats2Norwich, Norfolk, England UK99 Threads 10 Polls 2,979 Posts
woman have been wearing mens clothes for best part of a century who cares be yourself and feck anybody that tells you differentpeace
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Jun 7, 2013 1:43 PM CST why do women dislike crossdressers...?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK33 Threads 4 Polls 21,245 Posts
galrads: who says anyone has to be sensitive to cross dressers. Evidently, you've never experienced them coming on to you and subsequently had to put them in their place. The cross-dressers who confronted me were sick puppies.

That's not about cross dressing.

That's about people intruding upon your boundaries.

If I said, "Who says anyone has to be sensitive to men? Obviously, you've never been raped by one..." would you think that was an appropriate way to justify myself after I'd just been really, really mean to a man who had nothing at all to do with raping anyone?
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Jun 7, 2013 1:43 PM CST why do women dislike crossdressers...?
CmdrMercutio
CmdrMercutioCmdrMercutioRickmansworth, UK, Hertfordshire, England UK2 Threads 208 Posts
MADDOG69: You must have been giving off some strange signals, then.


Inclined to agree! I dont personally know any cross-dressers (perhaps because I choose not to live in cities, preferring a slightly more rural environment) although I've met a few - but the gay community at large seems pretty good at knowing who they should and shouldn't approach with pick-up lines.

Although again I dont think being chatted-up by the wrong gender is something to get upset at - if anything its an unwanted compliment surely?
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Jun 7, 2013 2:02 PM CST why do women dislike crossdressers...?
Antoniacv
AntoniacvAntoniacvWien, Vienna Austria12 Threads 1,431 Posts
In response to: lots of men love wearing feminine clothes, some of these men are gay, others like myself prefer female company. i find it impossible to find a woman...but at least im honest..xxx


Yes you're honest and it's a great quality.

Now , personally , I wouldn't feel attracted to a man that wants to get dressed as a woman. Main reason being , I'm not sexually attracted to girls. I would feel like hanging out with a 'friend' and not a 'lover' whom I need to feel sexually attracted to.


Best of luck!
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