why do women dislike crossdressers...?

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1Shyboy

Galway, Galway Ireland

why do women dislike crossdressers...?
lots of men love wearing feminine clothes, some of these men are gay, others like myself prefer female company. i find it impossible to find a woman...but at least im honest..xxx
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pisceslady7 pisceslady7

Gosford, New South Wales Australia

Re: why do women dislike crossdressers...?
lots of men love wearing feminine clothes, some of these men are gay, others like myself prefer female company. i find it impossible to find a woman...but at least im honest..xxx

Congratulations for being honest!
I do have a friend who is a cross-dresser and he is a very special person to me. However, I honestly could not date a man who dressed in women's clothing. I cannot explain why. I definitely do not want to offend you and I am afraid I might when I say it is like a cold shower as far as passion is concerned.
I suppose that me being overweight does the same to some men.
We are just attracted to what we are attracted to.
By the way...my friend knows many women who are married to cross-dressers. May I suggest you look for specific dating sites as I know they DO exist.
I wish you all the very best in your search and I do hope you can find a lady that delights in your differences.
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jac379

pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK

Re: why do women dislike crossdressers...?
1Shyboy: lots of men love wearing feminine clothes, some of these men are gay, others like myself prefer female company. i find it impossible to find a woman...but at least im honest..xxx

You don't have to say, "...but at least I'm honest."

You don't have to justify yourself.

Its just shaped, coloured cloth stuff, ffs.

If you can't wear what feels good, if you can't have fun with clothes, what a sorry state the world is in.

bouquet
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pisceslady7 pisceslady7

Gosford, New South Wales Australia

Re: why do women dislike crossdressers...?
Boban1: Well you gotta make up your mind ,either you wanna be liked by lots of women ,in which case you you probably have to give up in that Hoity-toity habit or stay as you are and get used to be liked by a few
now run out and treat yourself with a purse


Your reply sickens me. It shows a lack of understanding at best and amazing, intentional, belittling rudeness at worst. I think you will see the women's replies on here much more understanding and caring than your own.
No...you don't have to approve of people's lifestyles nor condone them, however, politeness costs nothing. Maybe your parents did not teach you 'if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing' when making personal remarks that may be hurtful?
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jac379

pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK

Re: why do women dislike crossdressers...?
pisceslady7: Your reply sickens me. It shows a lack of understanding at best and amazing, intentional, belittling rudeness at worst. I think you will see the women's replies on here much more understanding and caring than your own.
No...you don't have to approve of people's lifestyles nor condone them, however, politeness costs nothing. Maybe your parents did not teach you 'if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing' when making personal remarks that may be hurtful?

Perhaps you missed the compassion in Boban's post and the emphasis upon not giving a tuppenny toss about what the majority might think, Pisces?
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Boban1

bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia

Re: why do women dislike crossdressers...?
pisceslady7: Your reply sickens me. It shows a lack of understanding at best and amazing, intentional, belittling rudeness at worst. I think you will see the women's replies on here much more understanding and caring than your own.
No...you don't have to approve of people's lifestyles nor condone them, however, politeness costs nothing. Maybe your parents did not teach you 'if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing' when making personal remarks that may be hurtful?

You know, this can be tricky " If you have nothing nice to say ,say nothing"(re-read your post)
Now if you think about my previous post ,it does make sense
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pisceslady7 pisceslady7

Gosford, New South Wales Australia

Re: why do women dislike crossdressers...?
jac379: Perhaps you missed the compassion in Boban's post and the emphasis upon not giving a tuppenny toss about what the majority might think, Pisces?


I definitely did not read it that way. If the meaning was as you have said, I apologise to him.
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jac379

pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK

Re: why do women dislike crossdressers...?
pisceslady7: I definitely did not read it that way. If the meaning was as you have said, I apologise to him.

Yeah, I'm pretty sure I'm right. grin
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Boban1

bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia

Re: why do women dislike crossdressers...?
pisceslady
No need for apologies
but what the heck is the point of asking for advice on a public forum by creating a thread ,if people are not ready for a discussion ...Some opinions are gonna be funny, some fuzzy ,some creative and some negative ...
Why do we expect that if we behave unconventionally than the majority that everyone will be trilled and admire us
Oh and Opening Poster, hiding posts is a bad way to communicate with people
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Re: why do women dislike crossdressers...?
pisceslady7: I definitely did not read it that way. If the meaning was as you have said, I apologise to him.


who says anyone has to be sensitive to cross dressers. Evidently, you've never experienced them coming on to you and subsequently had to put them in their place. The cross-dressers who confronted me were sick puppies.
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MADDOG69 MADDOG69

Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Re: why do women dislike crossdressers...?
galrads: who says anyone has to be sensitive to cross dressers. Evidently, you've never experienced them coming on to you and subsequently had to put them in their place. The cross-dressers who confronted me were sick puppies.

You must have been giving off some strange signals, then. laugh
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CmdrMercutio

Rickmansworth, UK, Hertfordshire, England UK

Re: why do women dislike crossdressers...?
I thinbk its a shame that various creditable laws designed to protect the gay population dont really address the needs of the cross-dressing community. I guess you're not so visible a minority? although i can see how thats an odd phrase to use in the circumstances.....
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Tomcats2 Tomcats2

Norwich, Norfolk, England UK

Re: why do women dislike crossdressers...?
woman have been wearing mens clothes for best part of a century who cares be yourself and feck anybody that tells you differentpeace
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Tomcats2 Tomcats2

Norwich, Norfolk, England UK

Re: why do women dislike crossdressers...?
woman have been wearing mens clothes for best part of a century who cares be yourself and feck anybody that tells you differentpeace
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jac379

pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK

Re: why do women dislike crossdressers...?
galrads: who says anyone has to be sensitive to cross dressers. Evidently, you've never experienced them coming on to you and subsequently had to put them in their place. The cross-dressers who confronted me were sick puppies.

That's not about cross dressing.

That's about people intruding upon your boundaries.

If I said, "Who says anyone has to be sensitive to men? Obviously, you've never been raped by one..." would you think that was an appropriate way to justify myself after I'd just been really, really mean to a man who had nothing at all to do with raping anyone?
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CmdrMercutio

Rickmansworth, UK, Hertfordshire, England UK

Re: why do women dislike crossdressers...?
MADDOG69: You must have been giving off some strange signals, then.


Inclined to agree! I dont personally know any cross-dressers (perhaps because I choose not to live in cities, preferring a slightly more rural environment) although I've met a few - but the gay community at large seems pretty good at knowing who they should and shouldn't approach with pick-up lines.

Although again I dont think being chatted-up by the wrong gender is something to get upset at - if anything its an unwanted compliment surely?
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Antoniacv Antoniacv

Wien, Vienna Austria

Re: why do women dislike crossdressers...?
lots of men love wearing feminine clothes, some of these men are gay, others like myself prefer female company. i find it impossible to find a woman...but at least im honest..xxx

Yes you're honest and it's a great quality.

Now , personally , I wouldn't feel attracted to a man that wants to get dressed as a woman. Main reason being , I'm not s*xually attracted to girls. I would feel like hanging out with a 'friend' and not a 'lover' whom I need to feel s*xually attracted to.


Best of luck!
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