does anyone think (45)

Jun 12, 2013 5:59 AM CST does anyone think
asha69
asha69asha69perth, Western Australia Australia76 Threads 1 Polls 1,799 Posts
ok, does anyone think i might be too much for a guydunno


please be honest... i said honest not nastylaugh

i always feel like i am too much of a handful for them,, too much energycheering and too funnylaugh

grin



do i come across too easy? and guys dont like that? its just my nature to be open, but not sure, maybe its the things i write sometimes?

need advice,,, thank you kind peoplesgrin
Jun 12, 2013 6:05 AM CST does anyone think
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
asha69: ok, does anyone think i might be too much for a guy please be honest... i said honest not nasty

i always feel like i am too much of a handful for them,, too much energy and too funny

do i come across too easy? and guys dont like that? its just my nature to be open, but not sure, maybe its the things i write sometimes?

need advice,,, thank you kind peoples



Asha loverly, you are just perfect..

you humour is your best writing feature , and I really enjoy reading your posts...and your stories..

You need to find someone who just is man enough ... and that is the hard part...

I so think you are wonderful...teddybear
Jun 12, 2013 6:06 AM CST does anyone think
Halv0
Halv0Halv0Marcoola, Queensland Australia19 Threads 766 Posts
asha69: ok, does anyone think i might be too much for a guy please be honest... i said honest not nasty

i always feel like i am too much of a handful for them,, too much energy and too funny

do i come across too easy? and guys dont like that? its just my nature to be open, but not sure, maybe its the things i write sometimes?

need advice,,, thank you kind peoples


I think that you have a big heart and have a lot to offer. I personally think that your heart speaks aloud and that your actions try to hide your true self at times. But I think that the real you is never hidden by these attempts and that you are beautiful inside and out.

I don't think that you are easy, or too much for guys. It is just that you have not yet met the right guy for you. But I believe that he is out there for you.

You have life, and love in your heart. So be proud of it, and although it can be a lonely walk right now. I believe that it is important to wait for the right guy. He is out there somewhere. Trust yourself and know you are a worthy person and worthy of real and genuine love.

I think you are amazing.

hug
Jun 12, 2013 6:09 AM CST does anyone think
lonelygal122
lonelygal122lonelygal122HallsGap, Victoria Australia8 Threads 4,567 Posts
Halv0: I think that you have a big heart and have a lot to offer. I personally think that your heart speaks aloud and that your actions try to hide your true self at times. But I think that the real you is never hidden by these attempts and that you are beautiful inside and out.

I don't think that you are easy, or too much for guys. It is just that you have not yet met the right guy for you. But I believe that he is out there for you.

You have life, and love in your heart. So be proud of it, and although it can be a lonely walk right now. I believe that it is important to wait for the right guy. He is out there somewhere. Trust yourself and know you are a worthy person and worthy of real and genuine love.

I think you are amazing.
Ditto.thumbs up
Jun 12, 2013 6:10 AM CST does anyone think
asha69
asha69asha69perth, Western Australia Australia76 Threads 1 Polls 1,799 Posts
Merriweather: Asha loverly, you are just perfect..

you humour is your best writing feature , and I really enjoy reading your posts...and your stories..

You need to find someone who just is man enough ... and that is the hard part...

I so think you are wonderful...




thanks merriteddybear im not fishing for compliments, but do appreciate what you said, ive been told before it takes a special kind of guy to put up with me, so i might have to wait foreverlaugh
Jun 12, 2013 6:12 AM CST does anyone think
Obscuritan
ObscuritanObscuritanMelbourne, Victoria Australia37 Threads 3 Polls 1,284 Posts
Asha, I can't speak for all men, but I certainly don't think you're "too easy", too open or too much of a handful. You sound like you'd be lots of fun, especially for someone serious like me.
Don't worry, If I was only younger, I'd have a one-way ticket to Perth by now! kiss
Jun 12, 2013 6:12 AM CST does anyone think
asha69
asha69asha69perth, Western Australia Australia76 Threads 1 Polls 1,799 Posts
Halv0: I think that you have a big heart and have a lot to offer. I personally think that your heart speaks aloud and that your actions try to hide your true self at times. But I think that the real you is never hidden by these attempts and that you are beautiful inside and out.

I don't think that you are easy, or too much for guys. It is just that you have not yet met the right guy for you. But I believe that he is out there for you.

You have life, and love in your heart. So be proud of it, and although it can be a lonely walk right now. I believe that it is important to wait for the right guy. He is out there somewhere. Trust yourself and know you are a worthy person and worthy of real and genuine love.

I think you are amazing.



oh halvo, thank you for the lovely words and yep i think your right with the first sentence, i think aloud,, oops thats what causes me problemsrolling on the floor laughing
Jun 12, 2013 6:16 AM CST does anyone think
asha69
asha69asha69perth, Western Australia Australia76 Threads 1 Polls 1,799 Posts
lonelygal122: Ditto.


hey lonelygalhug thanks huns
Jun 12, 2013 6:18 AM CST does anyone think
asha69
asha69asha69perth, Western Australia Australia76 Threads 1 Polls 1,799 Posts
Obscuritan: Asha, I can't speak for all men, but I certainly don't think you're "too easy", too open or too much of a handful. You sound like you'd be lots of fun, especially for someone serious like me.
Don't worry, If I was only younger, I'd have a one-way ticket to Perth by now!



oh obs, didnt know you felt like thatblushing

thanks for your kind words too, hug
Jun 12, 2013 6:18 AM CST does anyone think
LiLee
LiLeeLiLeeIpswich, Queensland Australia53 Threads 1,760 Posts
Asha don't doubt yourself. You are unique. There will only be one you, outgoing, fun loving and funny. You can only be who you are and everyone that knows you wouldn't want you any other way. teddybear

I'm sure heaps of guys on here would love to take you out. Come on fellas, what are you waiting for?
Jun 12, 2013 6:20 AM CST does anyone think
Halv0
Halv0Halv0Marcoola, Queensland Australia19 Threads 766 Posts
asha69: oh halvo, thank you for the lovely words and yep i think your right with the first sentence, i think aloud,, oops thats what causes me problems


Thinking aloud is a good thing! At least us blokes know where we stand pretty much straight away.

Unfortunately some of us blokes often think with a different head - and that is what gets US into trouble!

So you think you got problems..... spare a thought for us double headed ones who suffer from "foot-in-mouth" from time to time when we in relationships with beautiful women....

I think WE have a bigger challenge that your "thinking aloud"....

wink
Jun 12, 2013 6:24 AM CST does anyone think
asha69
asha69asha69perth, Western Australia Australia76 Threads 1 Polls 1,799 Posts
LiLee: Asha don't doubt yourself. You are unique. There will only be one you, outgoing, fun loving and funny. You can only be who you are and everyone that knows you wouldn't want you any other way.

I'm sure heaps of guys on here would love to take you out. Come on fellas, what are you waiting for?



hey lileehug i think everyone at work is glad theres only one of merolling on the floor laughing
thank you hons, so wheres the fellas?dancing laugh im not the kind of person to tell a guy i like him, believe it or not, i am quite shy, im ok in a crowd but shy when im alone until i know the guy more, ironic eh? i roar loud but im like a little meerkat underneath

confused laugh
Jun 12, 2013 6:28 AM CST does anyone think
asha69
asha69asha69perth, Western Australia Australia76 Threads 1 Polls 1,799 Posts
Halv0: Thinking aloud is a good thing! At least us blokes know where we stand pretty much straight away.

Unfortunately some of us blokes often think with a different head - and that is what gets US into trouble!

So you think you got problems..... spare a thought for us double headed ones who suffer from "foot-in-mouth" from time to time when we in relationships with beautiful women....

I think WE have a bigger challenge that your "thinking aloud"....



rolling on the floor laughing i can imagine what you mean, if i had two heads, i dont think i would be alive todaydoh grin do guys like women to be honest which i am, but not to be nasty, i hate hurting people, i think its confusing for men and women nowadays isnt it?
Jun 12, 2013 6:34 AM CST does anyone think
Halv0
Halv0Halv0Marcoola, Queensland Australia19 Threads 766 Posts
asha69: i can imagine what you mean, if i had two heads, i dont think i would be alive today do guys like women to be honest which i am, but not to be nasty, i hate hurting people, i think its confusing for men and women nowadays isnt it?


You bet ya babe. If only a lot of women were to understand that we men often miss the subtle cues. I would rather have someone be honest without being nasty. It is a relief to know where I stand, instead of obliviously trying for something way out of my league - as I have done in the past.

My fiance is also honest - dead honest with me. It is a relief. It is a real relief to not have to second-guess.....

So keep on being honest with blokes. This is a refreshing thing for us. We are not so good at the subtle signs some women give us.....
Jun 12, 2013 6:36 AM CST does anyone think
cruiser68
cruiser68cruiser68Red Cliffs, Victoria Australia9 Threads 704 Posts
asha69: ok, does anyone think i might be too much for a guy please be honest... i said honest not nasty

i always feel like i am too much of a handful for them,, too much energy and too funny

do i come across too easy? and guys dont like that? its just my nature to be open, but not sure, maybe its the things i write sometimes?

need advice,,, thank you kind peoples

What ever you do kid,,,, DON`T CHANGE Whats there is you,,, anything else will be an act and false..... plus you can`t improve on perfection...
jmo..
Jun 12, 2013 10:30 AM CST does anyone think
snagsmoore
snagsmooresnagsmooremelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 411 Posts
asha69: ok, does anyone think i might be too much for a guy please be honest... i said honest not nasty

i always feel like i am too much of a handful for them,, too much energy and too funny

do i come across too easy? and guys dont like that? its just my nature to be open, but not sure, maybe its the things i write sometimes?

need advice,,, thank you kind peoples


I don't think your problem is any of those things however I do think because you are very attractive and come across as very outgoing and confident, it intimidates men (and women). I have met you and I certainly wouldn't think you were easy. You are a hard person to miss in a crowd because you are so friggin tall, lol, but also as you said... energetic and you have a natural charm. You are warm and easy to talk to. Stress less (says me, haha what a joke) just be yourself coz you are awesome and if some losers don't want to spend the time to find that out, then it is their loss.
Jun 12, 2013 5:18 PM CST does anyone think
PrOwLeR_
PrOwLeR_PrOwLeR_Mermaid BeacH, Queensland Australia98 Threads 1,290 Posts
asha69: hey lilee i think everyone at work is glad theres only one of me
thank you hons, so wheres the fellas? im not the kind of person to tell a guy i like him, believe it or not, i am quite shy, im ok in a crowd but shy when im alone until i know the guy more, ironic eh? i roar loud but im like a little meerkat underneath







When the right fella comes along, he'll see through all your defenses, nerves, doubts, insecuirites, banter right into the heart of who you are ... so till then just keep on doing whatever it is you are doing ..


Like it or not, many of us have day to day persona's that keep us what we deem to be safe out there in the BiG BaD world .. They are our shields, safety nets and perimeters ..

Don't change ... (great song by InXs and also a good philosphy to live by) .. unless you are just changing for you ... I don't call it change I like to think I evolve and eXpand my thinking with my lessons learnt ... Oh F ucK I nearly fell off me soap box .... doh
Jun 12, 2013 7:27 PM CST does anyone think
asha69
asha69asha69perth, Western Australia Australia76 Threads 1 Polls 1,799 Posts
cruiser68: What ever you do kid,,,, DON`T CHANGE Whats there is you,,, anything else will be an act and false..... plus you can`t improve on perfection...
jmo..



thank you cruiserhug ah perfection,,, me likesgrin
Jun 12, 2013 7:33 PM CST does anyone think
asha69
asha69asha69perth, Western Australia Australia76 Threads 1 Polls 1,799 Posts
snagsmoore: I don't think your problem is any of those things however I do think because you are very attractive and come across as very outgoing and confident, it intimidates men (and women). I have met you and I certainly wouldn't think you were easy. You are a hard person to miss in a crowd because you are so friggin tall, lol, but also as you said... energetic and you have a natural charm. You are warm and easy to talk to. Stress less (says me, haha what a joke) just be yourself coz you are awesome and if some losers don't want to spend the time to find that out, then it is their loss.



hi snagshug i dont think im that tall, you make me out to be a giantrolling on the floor laughing im only 5'8, thats not that tall, a few of my friends are the same height as me too,head banger thanks for the nice comments chickbabegrin i think you are right actually about intimidating with my energy, but its just go go gocheering applause my grand-daughter tells me i wear her outdancing poor kidlaugh anyways hope you are feeling better snags, and your days have got easier for youhug
Jun 12, 2013 7:38 PM CST does anyone think
asha69
asha69asha69perth, Western Australia Australia76 Threads 1 Polls 1,799 Posts
PrOwLeR_: When the right fella comes along, he'll see through all your defenses, nerves, doubts, insecuirites, banter right into the heart of who you are ... so till then just keep on doing whatever it is you are doing ..Like it or not, many of us have day to day persona's that keep us what we deem to be safe out there in the BiG BaD world .. They are our shields, safety nets and perimeters ..

Don't change ... (great song by InXs and also a good philosphy to live by) .. unless you are just changing for you ... I don't call it change I like to think I evolve and eXpand my thinking with my lessons learnt ... Oh F ucK I nearly fell off me soap box ....



hey, prowler, he had better come along quick then,or i will be too old, otherwise all he will see through is my hairnet,false teeth and incontinence padsrolling on the floor laughing
stay on your soap box,you give good advicehug
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