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Kristia49: Yeah, if you have a big soft heart, and trust everyone, thats when i usually get done, but why the hell should i change, well sometimes i think i should, All i think happens with me you become a little more aware, of peoples actions.
My case I try and be friendly and nice with everyone .I've learnt people don't always like me and have turned the way I am against me .
BUT I am not letting people get me down
Even if it means being selfish or being alone I think my happiness means more than being friends with everyone !! If that makes sense .
Or I try and get along with people and they make fun of you over and over its not worth the effort !!
asha69: ok, does anyone think i might be too much for a guy please be honest... i said honest not nasty
i always feel like i am too much of a handful for them,, too much energy and too funny
do i come across too easy? and guys dont like that? its just my nature to be open, but not sure, maybe its the things i write sometimes?
need advice,,, thank you kind peoples
i always feel like i am too much of a handful for them,, too much energy and too funny
do i come across too easy? and guys dont like that? its just my nature to be open, but not sure, maybe its the things i write sometimes?
need advice,,, thank you kind peoples
Change nothing our wild colonial girl , to late any way .
Kristia49: Yeah, if you have a big soft heart, and trust everyone, thats when i usually get done, but why the hell should i change, well sometimes i think i should, All i think happens with me you become a little more aware, of peoples actions.
just as we shouldnt need to change someone we want to be involved with, neither should people want to change us.
I will admit that I have become very careful as to who I allow into my life as I am a giver and seem to attract takers and I am over it.
I love to give of myself, and share with others but there seems to be a lot out there who think they can take and not return anything.
Asha, there will be someone out there who wants your special heart and abilities in their life. They are just going to have to have the stamina to keep up with you!
jem1964: just as we shouldnt need to change someone we want to be involved with, neither should people want to change us.
I will admit that I have become very careful as to who I allow into my life as I am a giver and seem to attract takers and I am over it.
I love to give of myself, and share with others but there seems to be a lot out there who think they can take and not return anything.
Asha, there will be someone out there who wants your special heart and abilities in their life. They are just going to have to have the stamina to keep up with you!
I will admit that I have become very careful as to who I allow into my life as I am a giver and seem to attract takers and I am over it.
I love to give of myself, and share with others but there seems to be a lot out there who think they can take and not return anything.
Asha, there will be someone out there who wants your special heart and abilities in their life. They are just going to have to have the stamina to keep up with you!
I believe that I have not done things in that past that I have wanted to do because my partner would not approve. And Ihave often thought that maybe I should have done the things that I really want to do even though my partner wants to do things I don't really want to do.
And I have gone to many garage sales "looking for a great bargain" after the dealers got there 3 hours before me. "Oh, I couldn't just go and in look, I really had to buy that useless item without walking out not buying anything and will give it to the local Op Shop on Monday."
Asha, enjoy what you enjoy. Don't worry about trying to find someone "because they will do." You will find someone who is wiling to share a lot of the things you both enjoy.
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It was considered "very dark" by her counsellor (must have more sessions)but it was her way of expressing how she felt over the messy divorce. She is the youngest of 3 girls, and she is the one who has managed to have a family. She did manage to find an outlet for her rage.
I keep a diary, another way to release any anger, but in privacy where you can't be judged.