yesterday was a strange day (8)

Jun 14, 2013 6:19 PM CST yesterday was a strange day
mickyj63
mickyj63mickyj63adelaide, South Australia Australia101 Threads 2,362 Posts
What can I say I was running around a fair bit . The tests the specialist wants me to do aren't straight forward with a few problems. All sorted now and I have the $$$ to pay for an MRI and another CT scan .
Eldest asked me to drive him to Port Adelaide . Which I did told him straight I couldn't hang around long as I was doing the 24hr test and needed to be close to home in case I needed to well you know go rolling on the floor laughing .
Now I haven't been back to that area since we finally moved . Honestly I hate detest the place best thing was my marriage ending and me moving !!
Anyway I was walking through the shopping area which they have upgraded greatly. Thinking don't see anyone you know and yes I did .
I couldn't talk to them the emotions welled and I made like I didn't see them . Best for me as I said they were "her friends" and you know all I wanted to do was run like hell back to my "area"!

But I survived to live another day rolling on the floor laughing
So strange feelings didn't help my eldest saying dad you should pop in here after work !!! Lucky for me so much road works made escaping ooops going home to hard to bother going back!!!
Jun 14, 2013 6:52 PM CST yesterday was a strange day
curly28
curly28curly28Perth, Western Australia Australia53 Threads 5,450 Posts
mickyj63: What can I say I was running around a fair bit . The tests the specialist wants me to do aren't straight forward with a few problems. All sorted now and I have the $$$ to pay for an MRI and another CT scan .
Eldest asked me to drive him to Port Adelaide . Which I did told him straight I couldn't hang around long as I was doing the 24hr test and needed to be close to home in case I needed to well you know go .
Now I haven't been back to that area since we finally moved . Honestly I hate detest the place best thing was my marriage ending and me moving !!
Anyway I was walking through the shopping area which they have upgraded greatly. Thinking don't see anyone you know and yes I did .
I couldn't talk to them the emotions welled and I made like I didn't see them . Best for me as I said they were "her friends" and you know all I wanted to do was run like hell back to my "area"!

But I survived to live another day
So strange feelings didn't help my eldest saying dad you should pop in here after work !!! Lucky for me so much road works made escaping ooops going home to hard to bother going back!!!



I can relate to that Micky and I am sure heaps of peeps can too it's called moving on and that is just what you're doing joy cartwheel daisy Look at what you have done since. I mean just going to the Melbourne meet and meeting famous people like me rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing blues well wish I was sigh You sure did meet some great peeps at the meet me too priceless and now you have new friends in your new life But! wait there's more professor to be continued .......hug cheers To hell with the past moving on whooohoo! dance reunion group hug
Jun 15, 2013 12:48 AM CST yesterday was a strange day
Newlife08
Newlife08Newlife08On the coast, Queensland Australia165 Threads 2,715 Posts
curly28: I can relate to that Micky and I am sure heaps of peeps can too it's called moving on and that is just what you're doing Look at what you have done since. I mean just going to the Melbourne meet and meeting famous people like me well wish I was You sure did meet some great peeps at the meet me too priceless and now you have new friends in your new life But! wait there's more to be continued ....... To hell with the past moving on whooohoo!


Couldn't have put it better myself Curly. thumbs up

And just by the fact that you couldn't get out of there fast enough means you have moved on and are not dragging around any dead cats. Let it go baby!!! heart wings teddybear peace
Jun 15, 2013 3:31 AM CST yesterday was a strange day
jem1964
jem1964jem1964Foothills of Dandenongs, Victoria Australia30 Threads 1 Polls 2,441 Posts
it is strange going back.

I get asked to go visit the old next door neighbour, and I do keep in contact on facebook with them, but dont go visit as I dont want anyone to have to take sides as the ex still lives next door.

I sometimes go past and look at the house I built with the ex, but the only tug I feel is for the garden that I created and left behind, not for the inhabitant.

Good for you Mickey, you have moved on and onward and upwards for you.

Go enjoy lifegrin thumbs up
Jun 15, 2013 3:36 AM CST yesterday was a strange day
NotABlonde
NotABlondeNotABlondeSpringwood, New South Wales Australia8 Threads 1,210 Posts
I actually had my ex husband stay here for a few days when I moved in last month. He was in my son's room and helped build wardrobes, fetch and carry stuff etc.

Just having him here made me realise how much he irritated the hell out of me!
It's good that we're still friends though.
Jun 15, 2013 4:21 AM CST yesterday was a strange day
Newlife08
Newlife08Newlife08On the coast, Queensland Australia165 Threads 2,715 Posts
NotABlonde: I actually had my ex husband stay here for a few days when I moved in last month. He was in my son's room and helped build wardrobes, fetch and carry stuff etc.

Just having him here made me realise how much he irritated the hell out of me!
It's good that we're still friends though.


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Jun 15, 2013 4:31 AM CST yesterday was a strange day
wash2u
wash2uwash2uMelbourne, Victoria Australia79 Threads 1 Polls 3,768 Posts
Newlife08: Couldn't have put it better myself Curly.

And just by the fact that you couldn't get out of there fast enough means you have moved on and are not dragging around any dead cats. Let it go baby!!!


It can be hard. I was at a local supermarket with my daughter 12/14 years ago when a ex-neighbour (and supposedly a good friend who had gone through a messy divorce previously) had the only comment "You have lost weight." I had lost 30+kgs since he last saw me.

I said, "Yeah, I have been ill."

All he could say was "Good to see you."

There are times when you have to realise that you do have to move on.
Jun 15, 2013 5:03 AM CST yesterday was a strange day
mickyj63
mickyj63mickyj63adelaide, South Australia Australia101 Threads 2,362 Posts
Thanks guys love the input thank goodness I met so many great peeps in Melbourne thumbs up
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