Dear Friends, I am facing a severe dilemma. I want to marry a beautiful girl. I am so much inspired by the female beauty and I have been an admirer of physical beauty of a girl/woman all my life.I simply can not ignore it in any way. There are some good proposals for me of girls who are intelligent and career oriented but they are not beautiful where as I want to live my remaining life with a beautiful girl.I simply can not expel it out of my system.One more fact please: I have been married to woman who is not beautiful and all those previous years since marriage I have been cursing myself that why I married her? since our faith/religion allows us to marry and keep two women at a time w/o divorcing the earlier woman therefore what path should I adopt? Any help for a bruised soul. Definitely, waiting for some profound advice so that I may come out of this hell in which I am burning day and night. A very lonely heart from Pakistan.
netizen7491: Dear Friends, I am facing a severe dilemma. I want to marry a beautiful girl. I am so much inspired by the female beauty and I have been an admirer of physical beauty of a girl/woman all my life.I simply can not ignore it in any way. There are some good proposals for me of girls who are intelligent and career oriented but they are not beautiful where as I want to live my remaining life with a beautiful girl.I simply can not expel it out of my system.One more fact please: I have been married to woman who is not beautiful and all those previous years since marriage I have been cursing myself that why I married her? since our faith/religion allows us to marry and keep two women at a time w/o divorcing the earlier woman therefore what path should I adopt? Any help for a bruised soul. Definitely, waiting for some profound advice so that I may come out of this hell in which I am burning day and night. A very lonely heart from Pakistan.
What are your chances of attracting a "beautiful" woman to become your 2nd wife? Why did you not marry one instead of this one? Would not all the beautiful women be only interested in being a 1st wife?
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netizen7491: Dear Friends, I am facing a severe dilemma. I want to marry a beautiful girl. I am so much inspired by the female beauty and I have been an admirer of physical beauty of a girl/woman all my life.I simply can not ignore it in any way. There are some good proposals for me of girls who are intelligent and career oriented but they are not beautiful where as I want to live my remaining life with a beautiful girl.I simply can not expel it out of my system.One more fact please: I have been married to woman who is not beautiful and all those previous years since marriage I have been cursing myself that why I married her? since our faith/religion allows us to marry and keep two women at a time w/o divorcing the earlier woman therefore what path should I adopt? Any help for a bruised soul. Definitely, waiting for some profound advice so that I may come out of this hell in which I am burning day and night. A very lonely heart from Pakistan.
buy the mirror before you capture your dream...beauty girls will not settle to the lesser or the wrinkler... they will settle to at least a single great guy if they can not find the same face quality unless they have been fooled...LOL...
MADDOG69: What are your chances of attracting a "beautiful" woman to become your 2nd wife? Why did you not marry one instead of this one? Would not all the beautiful women be only interested in being a 1st wife?
to err is to human + my mistake and family pressure.
its not what she looks like ..its what in her heart and how well you get along with..the other person.a female can be beautiful on the out side but not on the in side..well that how i see it
netizen7491: Dear Friends, I am facing a severe dilemma. I want to marry a beautiful girl. I am so much inspired by the female beauty and I have been an admirer of physical beauty of a girl/woman all my life.I simply can not ignore it in any way. There are some good proposals for me of girls who are intelligent and career oriented but they are not beautiful where as I want to live my remaining life with a beautiful girl.I simply can not expel it out of my system.One more fact please: I have been married to woman who is not beautiful and all those previous years since marriage I have been cursing myself that why I married her? since our faith/religion allows us to marry and keep two women at a time w/o divorcing the earlier woman therefore what path should I adopt? Any help for a bruised soul. Definitely, waiting for some profound advice so that I may come out of this hell in which I am burning day and night. A very lonely heart from Pakistan.
netizen7491: Dear Friends, ... I want to live my remaining life with a beautiful girl.I simply can not expel it out of my system. One more fact please: I have been married to woman who is not beautiful and all those previous years since marriage I have been cursing myself that why I married her? since our faith/religion allows us to marry and keep two women at a time w/o divorcing the earlier woman therefore what path should I adopt? Definitely, waiting for some profound advice so that I may come out of this hell in which I am burning day and night. ....
And I dont know why you still keep your "not beautiful" wife? I think divorcing your "not beautiful" wife will give her good chances to find a better husband who will really love her. If you dont want to divorce her for whatever reasons.. then you can keep cursing yourself and living in hell for the rest of your life, which I think you deserve it..!!
renanthera: And I dont know why you still keep your "not beautiful" wife? I think divorcing your "not beautiful" wife will give her good chances to find a better husband who will really love her. If you dont want to divorce her for whatever reasons.. then you can keep cursing yourself and living in hell for the rest of your life, which I think you deserve it..!!
Every one makes mistakes in life maam, I have made mine and I am facing its effects.Divorcing a girl here is a social taboo here for both sides/members (for man and woman).Being another wife is a social protection for a lady rather than divorce option for her.and for men it is considered bad.
renanthera: And I dont know why you still keep your "not beautiful" wife? I think divorcing your "not beautiful" wife will give her good chances to find a better husband who will really love her. If you dont want to divorce her for whatever reasons.. then you can keep cursing yourself and living in hell for the rest of your life, which I think you deserve it..!!
Dear,due to a cute little sweet daughter I dont want to divorce her.
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I am facing a severe dilemma. I want to marry a beautiful girl. I am so much inspired by the female beauty and I have been an admirer of physical beauty of a girl/woman all my life.I simply can not ignore it in any way. There are some good proposals for me of girls who are intelligent and career oriented but they are not beautiful where as I want to live my remaining life with a beautiful girl.I simply can not expel it out of my system.One more fact please: I have been married to woman who is not beautiful and all those previous years since marriage I have been cursing myself that why I married her? since our faith/religion allows us to marry and keep two women at a time w/o divorcing the earlier woman therefore what path should I adopt? Any help for a bruised soul. Definitely, waiting for some profound advice so that I may come out of this hell in which I am burning day and night.
A very lonely heart from Pakistan.