So Cynical?? (23)
solsticemoonjavea, Valencia Spain64 Threads 4,504 PostsYup, thats me....all dated out, met every weirdo in the book, fell for them, learnt several hard lessons.....so how do you feel about it all?
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solsticemoon: Yup, thats me....all dated out, met every weirdo in the book, fell for them, learnt several hard lessons.....so how do you feel about it all?
I understand where you're coming from Sol. I learned a very hard lesson with the last relationship and swore never to fall in love again. Sometimes fate says take another chance. I'm working on it but this time without expectations.
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You haven't met all the weirdo's cause you never met me lol
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solsticemoon: Yup, thats me....all dated out, met every weirdo in the book, fell for them, learnt several hard lessons.....so how do you feel about it all?
Hiya Sol...long time no see
It's brutal out there as you know so take a break from it, lick your wounds, dust off and go at it again if you feel inclined. As for me, I've kinda given up on it...too damn complicated. 
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2intrigued: Hiya Sol...long time no see It's brutal out there as you know so take a break from it, lick your wounds, dust off and go at it again if you feel inclined. As for me, I've kinda given up on it...too damn complicated.
It's only as complicated as people make it Trigs. Falling in love should be easy. Divorce is hard.------ This thread is Archived ------
montemonte: I understand where you're coming from Sol. I learned a very hard lesson with the last relationship and swore never to fall in love again. Sometimes fate says take another chance. I'm working on it but this time without expectations.
Hey darlin...hope life's treating you well! xx
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StillOfTheNight: You haven't met all the weirdo's cause you never met me lol
The question is..............
Would I want to?
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solsticemoon: Hey darlin...hope life's treating you well! xx
I'm doing okay.
Thanks for asking
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2intrigued: Hiya Sol...long time no see It's brutal out there as you know so take a break from it, lick your wounds, dust off and go at it again if you feel inclined. As for me, I've kinda given up on it...too damn complicated.
Im still licking me feet debs!
But kinda had enough now..gonna order some crochet hooks n yarn off ebay...
Yaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyy......Ebay, the pc is good for something!
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montemonte: It's only as complicated as people make it Trigs. Falling in love should be easy. Divorce is hard.
The falling in love bit is a piece of cake...finding and keeping it is a challenge especially if the feeling isn't mutual.
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solsticemoon: Im still licking me feet debs!
But kinda had enough now..gonna order some crochet hooks n yarn off ebay...
Yaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyy......Ebay, the pc is good for something!
But kinda had enough now..gonna order some crochet hooks n yarn off ebay...
Yaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyy......Ebay, the pc is good for something!
Wash your feet before licking eh
Oh, and please don't crochet if you're angry. 
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Oh poor you. Met all the bad ones eh? And how many of the good ones did you pass up in the process of meeting all the bad ones?
Maybe you will never know.
It is amazing when we look in the mirror. What do we see? That's right, ourselves looking back at us.
So it often is with our human relationships. We hate in others what we don't like in ourselves.
We want perfection and our fantasy partner, and pass up the perfect person for us in the process of chasing a delusion and dream. We expect perfection from others without consideration that we ourselves are not perfect.
Good luck with the "woe is me" club of followers here.
I'm so happy not being single any more and having to put up with this sort of tripe.
Get out there and find what you are looking for. That's right, put in some effort and change who you think you are attracted to.
You might just find that there are more decent blokes than you every imagined out there.
Maybe you will never know.
It is amazing when we look in the mirror. What do we see? That's right, ourselves looking back at us.
So it often is with our human relationships. We hate in others what we don't like in ourselves.
We want perfection and our fantasy partner, and pass up the perfect person for us in the process of chasing a delusion and dream. We expect perfection from others without consideration that we ourselves are not perfect.
Good luck with the "woe is me" club of followers here.
I'm so happy not being single any more and having to put up with this sort of tripe.
Get out there and find what you are looking for. That's right, put in some effort and change who you think you are attracted to.
You might just find that there are more decent blokes than you every imagined out there.
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No,not cynical. I never expect anything,so never disappointed,but maybe one day it will be a pleasant surprise!
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2intrigued: Oh, and please don't crochet if you're angry.
Line of the day, no contest.
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solsticemoon: Yup, thats me....all dated out, met every weirdo in the book, fell for them, learnt several hard lessons.....so how do you feel about it all?
A bit smug, at the moment, sorry Sol.
That's not to say there aren't difficulties, or mountains to climb, by any stretch of the imagination.
Chill, enjoy, have no expectations and inspiration for a new approach may come to you...for surely some sort of spanner in the works is what you need to create some change, or another. That's all.
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solsticemoon: Yup, thats me....all dated out, met every weirdo in the book, fell for them, learnt several hard lessons.....so how do you feel about it all?
sometimes after I think about "it all" I need a nap.
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I get cynical and depressed over the women that I'm not dating. I think "aww look how pretty she could be if she knew what a bike is" or "she could be so intelligent if only she knew what literature was". My tendency is to generalise all women just because the majority of them are primitive and/or out of shape.
But the women I actually date I hold no grudges against. And I have my male privilege to thank for this. The privilege of not being positively attracted to negative and traumatising personality traits.
But the women I actually date I hold no grudges against. And I have my male privilege to thank for this. The privilege of not being positively attracted to negative and traumatising personality traits.
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CapNemo: Holy crap! Who told you to try them all?
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Obstinance_Works: My tendency is to generalise all women just because the majority of them are primitive and/or out of shape.
Yes, I think I would get depressed about it too if I generalized all men that way.
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