Some Questions for Men - Unmarried Women Over 30 - ( Archived) (26)

Jun 24, 2013 12:42 AM CST Some Questions for Men - Unmarried Women Over 30 -
Darkbrownskins
DarkbrownskinsDarkbrownskinsJakarta, Indonesia48 Threads 23 Polls 147 Posts
Guys.. especially men.. what do you thing about Women after 30 still single and never been married? do you think they are bad? or not?

some guys who ever dated, or dating women over 30 now.. can you guys share your experiences with them here?

i'm totally curious about these issues :)wow
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Jun 24, 2013 12:47 AM CST Some Questions for Men - Unmarried Women Over 30 -
StillOfTheNight
StillOfTheNightStillOfTheNightClarenville Area, Newfoundland Canada11 Threads 2,832 Posts
I'm over 30, single and never married. I can't see any reason why it would be a bad thing for a woman in that situation.
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Jun 24, 2013 12:52 AM CST Some Questions for Men - Unmarried Women Over 30 -
Darkbrownskins
DarkbrownskinsDarkbrownskinsJakarta, Indonesia48 Threads 23 Polls 147 Posts
StillOfTheNight: I'm over 30, single and never married. I can't see any reason why it would be a bad thing for a woman in that situation.

yea just asked.. cause some people things that.. the ideal ages of women to get married is in 25, at least no more than 28..
so a bit think .. women over 30 will not easy to find partner of life.. than usual.. just thinking.. crying
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Jun 24, 2013 1:02 AM CST Some Questions for Men - Unmarried Women Over 30 -
StillOfTheNight
StillOfTheNightStillOfTheNightClarenville Area, Newfoundland Canada11 Threads 2,832 Posts
Darkbrownskins: yea just asked.. cause some people things that.. the ideal ages of women to get married is in 25, at least no more than 28..
so a bit think .. women over 30 will not easy to find partner of life.. than usual.. just thinking..


Don't let that bother you, people say all sorts of things but it dont make it true. Besides, if anyone thinks like that, you know they would not be right for you no matter what age
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Jun 24, 2013 1:03 AM CST Some Questions for Men - Unmarried Women Over 30 -
lavina
lavinalavinaParadise, Indonesia12 Threads 4,755 Posts
Darkbrownskins: yea just asked.. cause some people things that.. the ideal ages of women to get married is in 25, at least no more than 28..
so a bit think .. women over 30 will not easy to find partner of life.. than usual.. just thinking..


I think when you're ready for marriage then you will. I just by culture who think that woman over 30 who haven't marriage will not easy find partner. But then you forget you destiny is in own your hands. Nothing wrong by haven't yet marriage over 30 some of finding when they are over 35, just enjoy your life without much thing others say why you haven't marriage yet.

wine
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Jun 24, 2013 1:10 AM CST Some Questions for Men - Unmarried Women Over 30 -
darren9030
darren9030darren9030Peterborough, Cambridgeshire, England UK56 Threads 1 Polls 9,665 Posts
lavina: I think when you're ready for marriage then you will. I just by culture who think that woman over 30 who haven't marriage will not easy find partner. But then you forget you destiny is in own your hands. Nothing wrong by haven't yet marriage over 30 some of finding when they are over 35, just enjoy your life without much thing others say why you haven't marriage yet.



Good answer wink it's perfectly normal these days to be unmarried into your 30's or even 40's .

Good afternoon wave
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Jun 24, 2013 1:15 AM CST Some Questions for Men - Unmarried Women Over 30 -
lavina
lavinalavinaParadise, Indonesia12 Threads 4,755 Posts
darren9030: Good answer it's perfectly normal these days to be unmarried into your 30's or even 40's .

Good afternoon


Morning for you D wave
well will be good woman can get marriage under 35 but then if isn't like your plan mean there is an other plan that you can do, just keep believe your soulmate at there
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Jun 24, 2013 1:50 AM CST Some Questions for Men - Unmarried Women Over 30 -
Darkbrownskins
DarkbrownskinsDarkbrownskinsJakarta, Indonesia48 Threads 23 Polls 147 Posts
lavina: Morning for you D
well will be good woman can get marriage under 35 but then if isn't like your plan mean there is an other plan that you can do, just keep believe your soulmate at there


ehem okay.. :)
anyway what the reason women under 35 will be good woman if she get married?
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Jun 24, 2013 4:26 AM CST Some Questions for Men - Unmarried Women Over 30 -
open2it
open2itopen2itknoxville, Tennessee USA41 Posts
Darkbrownskins: ehem okay.. :)
anyway what the reason women under 35 will be good woman if she get married?


I don't think it matters unless you plan to have children, as that becomes more difficult later.
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Jun 24, 2013 4:35 AM CST Some Questions for Men - Unmarried Women Over 30 -
Halv0
Halv0Halv0Marcoola, Queensland Australia19 Threads 766 Posts
Darkbrownskins: Guys.. especially men.. what do you thing about Women after 30 still single and never been married? do you think they are bad? or not?

some guys who ever dated, or dating women over 30 now.. can you guys share your experiences with them here?

i'm totally curious about these issues :)


When you meet the right man, he will not be interested in how old you are. He will be interested in you for who you are.

My fiance comes from a culture where 'a great man marries a women younger than himself' - this is what she actually said to me.

This did not put me off (my fiance is actually older than I am) and I explained to her that obviously then, I must be a humble man because I wanted to date her. I also explained how certain perceptions are cultural and do not apply universally for everyone.

I think that this is the case with your cultural perception of the ideal marrying age.

I'm sorry that you live in a place or feel that you are constantly exposed to this myth, or that this cultural perception has such a strong influence upon you dating....

Seriously, I would have dated and loved and married a women who was younger than me, the same age as me, or older than me, because for me it is not about age, but about compatibility, love and relationship....

jmo
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Jun 24, 2013 5:25 AM CST Some Questions for Men - Unmarried Women Over 30 -
Darkbrownskins
DarkbrownskinsDarkbrownskinsJakarta, Indonesia48 Threads 23 Polls 147 Posts
alright i do agree..that this is the case with the cultural perception of the ideal marrying age.

maybe just like in Japan the number of women not married over 30 is increasing.. :) yea.. again the cultural perception..

any countries still accept the same way thinking please..
i mean.. it still ok for women not married over 30 :)
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Jul 4, 2013 7:13 PM CST Some Questions for Men - Unmarried Women Over 30 -
mepinayko
mepinaykomepinaykoSan Francisco, California USA13 Posts
Halv0: When you meet the right man, he will not be interested in how old you are. He will be interested in you for who you are.

My fiance comes from a culture where 'a great man marries a women younger than himself' - this is what she actually said to me.

This did not put me off (my fiance is actually older than I am) and I explained to her that obviously then, I must be a humble man because I wanted to date her. I also explained how certain perceptions are cultural and do not apply universally for everyone.

I think that this is the case with your cultural perception of the ideal marrying age.

I'm sorry that you live in a place or feel that you are constantly exposed to this myth, or that this cultural perception has such a strong influence upon you dating....

Seriously, I would have dated and loved and married a women who was younger than me, the same age as me, or older than me, because for me it is not about age, but about compatibility, love and relationship....

jmo
Nice perspective HalvO.You're wife is blessed to have you.Wish I could find somebody like you,But it seems that it's so hard to find a "real" person here much more a wonderful husband,hmmm
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Jul 4, 2013 7:21 PM CST Some Questions for Men - Unmarried Women Over 30 -
Forcedhand
ForcedhandForcedhandDublin, Ireland4 Threads 76 Posts
Darkbrownskins: Guys.. especially men.. what do you thing about Women after 30 still single and never been married? do you think they are bad? or not?

some guys who ever dated, or dating women over 30 now.. can you guys share your experiences with them here?

i'm totally curious about these issues :)


I don't think they're "bad", not at all. I'm not a religious man and "marriage" is a concept formulated by religious entities. Having said that, a woman (and man) is better off to have "paired off" and have kids (if they're going to) well before 30. Nature demands performance at certain times of our lives and contemporary notions or fashions can't ignore that.
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Jul 4, 2013 7:45 PM CST Some Questions for Men - Unmarried Women Over 30 -
DaShoeonline now!
DaShoeonline now!DaShoeFairmont, West Virginia USA10 Posts
To me it shows that she's picky or just has not me the right person. I don't think it's bad a all!!
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Jul 4, 2013 7:56 PM CST Some Questions for Men - Unmarried Women Over 30 -
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
Darkbrownskins: Guys.. especially men.. what do you thing about Women after 30 still single and never been married? do you think they are bad? or not?

some guys who ever dated, or dating women over 30 now.. can you guys share your experiences with them here?

i'm totally curious about these issues :)




I could ask the same question. Do you think men almost 50 and 60 years old, never been married are "bad".


What makes a person "bad" just because they never got married

doh
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Jul 4, 2013 8:12 PM CST Some Questions for Men - Unmarried Women Over 30 -
Ken_19
Ken_19Ken_19Winchester, Virginia USA68 Threads 26 Polls 1,055 Posts
Do not despair. I was in my 30s and my wife was a bit older than that when I met her. As they say, if you love them, who cares. I was happily married to her for 18 years when she died. I do not regret a day of the marriage. My problem now is finding another woman as outstanding. There is nothing wrong with being finicky and not choosing the wrong person. When you find the right person what will be important is that it is the right person, not their age.
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Jul 4, 2013 8:19 PM CST Some Questions for Men - Unmarried Women Over 30 -
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Darkbrownskins: Guys.. especially men.. what do you thing about Women after 30 still single and never been married? do you think they are bad? or not?

some guys who ever dated, or dating women over 30 now.. can you guys share your experiences with them here?

i'm totally curious about these issues :)


Could you define bad for us? If it is the pejorative, my opinion is that mane or woman waiting till later in life to marry, will probably find some difficulty changing their lifestyle to include others input in decision making and priority setting. But, what do I know. wave
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Jul 12, 2013 12:14 PM CST Some Questions for Men - Unmarried Women Over 30 -
santi83
santi83santi83Bekasi, West Java Indonesia1 Threads 512 Posts
Iam nearly 30 and i fine with that , lol

just waiting for the right one wine


uh oh
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Jul 12, 2013 12:30 PM CST Some Questions for Men - Unmarried Women Over 30 -
outlawdogX
outlawdogXoutlawdogXkingston, Oklahoma USA2 Posts
Nothing wrong with it. I myself married at 19 yo. and it turned out to be a disaster for all. then when I married my last wife, Me 38, her 58, We just clicked, stayed together till she passed away at 73 yo. So on other hand age is just a number..
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Jul 12, 2013 9:57 PM CST Some Questions for Men - Unmarried Women Over 30 -
happy369
happy369happy369Onehorsetown, Indonesia979 Posts
from my point! all my friends are married or have kids, i chose a different part, i chose to leave my country and travel most of them live their lives precariously through me and often asks about my adventures i think its a bit of envy from both sides, as i do envy what they have otherwise i wouldnt be herebeer
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