StillOfTheNight: I'm over 30, single and never married. I can't see any reason why it would be a bad thing for a woman in that situation.
yea just asked.. cause some people things that.. the ideal ages of women to get married is in 25, at least no more than 28.. so a bit think .. women over 30 will not easy to find partner of life.. than usual.. just thinking..
Darkbrownskins: yea just asked.. cause some people things that.. the ideal ages of women to get married is in 25, at least no more than 28.. so a bit think .. women over 30 will not easy to find partner of life.. than usual.. just thinking..
Don't let that bother you, people say all sorts of things but it dont make it true. Besides, if anyone thinks like that, you know they would not be right for you no matter what age
Darkbrownskins: yea just asked.. cause some people things that.. the ideal ages of women to get married is in 25, at least no more than 28.. so a bit think .. women over 30 will not easy to find partner of life.. than usual.. just thinking..
I think when you're ready for marriage then you will. I just by culture who think that woman over 30 who haven't marriage will not easy find partner. But then you forget you destiny is in own your hands. Nothing wrong by haven't yet marriage over 30 some of finding when they are over 35, just enjoy your life without much thing others say why you haven't marriage yet.
lavina: I think when you're ready for marriage then you will. I just by culture who think that woman over 30 who haven't marriage will not easy find partner. But then you forget you destiny is in own your hands. Nothing wrong by haven't yet marriage over 30 some of finding when they are over 35, just enjoy your life without much thing others say why you haven't marriage yet.
Good answer it's perfectly normal these days to be unmarried into your 30's or even 40's .
darren9030: Good answer it's perfectly normal these days to be unmarried into your 30's or even 40's .
Good afternoon
Morning for you D well will be good woman can get marriage under 35 but then if isn't like your plan mean there is an other plan that you can do, just keep believe your soulmate at there
lavina: Morning for you D well will be good woman can get marriage under 35 but then if isn't like your plan mean there is an other plan that you can do, just keep believe your soulmate at there
ehem okay.. :) anyway what the reason women under 35 will be good woman if she get married?
Darkbrownskins: Guys.. especially men.. what do you thing about Women after 30 still single and never been married? do you think they are bad? or not?
some guys who ever dated, or dating women over 30 now.. can you guys share your experiences with them here?
i'm totally curious about these issues :)
When you meet the right man, he will not be interested in how old you are. He will be interested in you for who you are.
My fiance comes from a culture where 'a great man marries a women younger than himself' - this is what she actually said to me.
This did not put me off (my fiance is actually older than I am) and I explained to her that obviously then, I must be a humble man because I wanted to date her. I also explained how certain perceptions are cultural and do not apply universally for everyone.
I think that this is the case with your cultural perception of the ideal marrying age.
I'm sorry that you live in a place or feel that you are constantly exposed to this myth, or that this cultural perception has such a strong influence upon you dating....
Seriously, I would have dated and loved and married a women who was younger than me, the same age as me, or older than me, because for me it is not about age, but about compatibility, love and relationship....
Halv0: When you meet the right man, he will not be interested in how old you are. He will be interested in you for who you are.
My fiance comes from a culture where 'a great man marries a women younger than himself' - this is what she actually said to me.
This did not put me off (my fiance is actually older than I am) and I explained to her that obviously then, I must be a humble man because I wanted to date her. I also explained how certain perceptions are cultural and do not apply universally for everyone.
I think that this is the case with your cultural perception of the ideal marrying age.
I'm sorry that you live in a place or feel that you are constantly exposed to this myth, or that this cultural perception has such a strong influence upon you dating....
Seriously, I would have dated and loved and married a women who was younger than me, the same age as me, or older than me, because for me it is not about age, but about compatibility, love and relationship....
jmo
Nice perspective HalvO.You're wife is blessed to have you.Wish I could find somebody like you,But it seems that it's so hard to find a "real" person here much more a wonderful husband,hmmm
Darkbrownskins: Guys.. especially men.. what do you thing about Women after 30 still single and never been married? do you think they are bad? or not?
some guys who ever dated, or dating women over 30 now.. can you guys share your experiences with them here?
i'm totally curious about these issues :)
I don't think they're "bad", not at all. I'm not a religious man and "marriage" is a concept formulated by religious entities. Having said that, a woman (and man) is better off to have "paired off" and have kids (if they're going to) well before 30. Nature demands performance at certain times of our lives and contemporary notions or fashions can't ignore that.
Do not despair. I was in my 30s and my wife was a bit older than that when I met her. As they say, if you love them, who cares. I was happily married to her for 18 years when she died. I do not regret a day of the marriage. My problem now is finding another woman as outstanding. There is nothing wrong with being finicky and not choosing the wrong person. When you find the right person what will be important is that it is the right person, not their age.
Darkbrownskins: Guys.. especially men.. what do you thing about Women after 30 still single and never been married? do you think they are bad? or not?
some guys who ever dated, or dating women over 30 now.. can you guys share your experiences with them here?
i'm totally curious about these issues :)
Could you define bad for us? If it is the pejorative, my opinion is that mane or woman waiting till later in life to marry, will probably find some difficulty changing their lifestyle to include others input in decision making and priority setting. But, what do I know.
Nothing wrong with it. I myself married at 19 yo. and it turned out to be a disaster for all. then when I married my last wife, Me 38, her 58, We just clicked, stayed together till she passed away at 73 yo. So on other hand age is just a number..
from my point! all my friends are married or have kids, i chose a different part, i chose to leave my country and travel most of them live their lives precariously through me and often asks about my adventures i think its a bit of envy from both sides, as i do envy what they have otherwise i wouldnt be here
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some guys who ever dated, or dating women over 30 now.. can you guys share your experiences with them here?
i'm totally curious about these issues :)