Is marriage at risk? ( Archived) (75)

Jul 6, 2013 12:21 AM CST Is marriage at risk?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
Who will model loving, committed relationships in a world of single adults?
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Jul 6, 2013 12:45 AM CST Is marriage at risk?
rjd09
rjd09rjd09Bangalore, Karnataka India3 Posts
NO ITS GIFTED
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Jul 6, 2013 1:16 AM CST Is marriage at risk?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
lalasierra: Who will model loving, committed relationships in a world of single adults?


WTF has marriage got to do with adults being in loving and committed relationships?

FFS, get with the relevant age, religious and governmental control are outmoded, and people have clued in to the reality of it all. The only people getting married are those that feel the need for it from external pressure, like religious fanatics, or to fit in with their ancestors, other religious fanatics. laugh
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Jul 6, 2013 1:20 AM CST Is marriage at risk?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
kidatheart: WTF has marriage got to do with adults being in loving and committed relationships?

FFS, get with the relevant age, religious and governmental control are outmoded, and people have clued in to the reality of it all. The only people getting married are those that feel the need for it from external pressure, like religious fanatics, or to fit in with their ancestors, other religious fanatics.


Touchy subject?

Damn!
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Jul 6, 2013 1:32 AM CST Is marriage at risk?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
lalasierra: Touchy subject?

Damn!


That's a cop out, please try again.

If you're too spineless to actually tackle a subject, don't bother posting it, as a poll, or otherwise.

I've noticed that you tend to shy away from other polls you've put up, or just ignore them. Either way, if you can't tend to them, refrain from doing them in the first place.
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Jul 6, 2013 1:37 AM CST Is marriage at risk?
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
lalasierra: Who will model loving, committed relationships in a world of single adults?


I don't understand how marriage came to be at risk from your statement.
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Jul 6, 2013 1:43 AM CST Is marriage at risk?
kariena
karienakarienaAlberton, Gauteng South Africa1 Threads 112 Posts
Uhm........

wtf????confused
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Jul 6, 2013 1:46 AM CST Is marriage at risk?
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
lalasierra: Who will model loving, committed relationships in a world of single adults?

Im missing the point here, maybe I need another cup of coffee
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Jul 6, 2013 1:51 AM CST Is marriage at risk?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
plainlyjune: I don't understand how marriage came to be at risk from your statement.


You mean from my QUESTION?
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Jul 6, 2013 1:56 AM CST Is marriage at risk?
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
lalasierra: You mean from my QUESTION?


yes.
"Who will model loving, committed relationships in a world of single adults?"
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Jul 6, 2013 2:03 AM CST Is marriage at risk?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
plainlyjune: yes.
"Who will model loving, committed relationships in a world of single adults?"


Right. It's a question, not a statement.

Just for the record, just because I post a topic it doesn't mean that I'm for or against it. It's simply a question.
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Jul 6, 2013 2:04 AM CST Is marriage at risk?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
lalasierra: Right. It's a question, not a statement.

Just for the record, just because I post a topic it doesn't mean that I'm for or against it. It's simply a question.



Simply spineless. laugh
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Jul 6, 2013 2:29 AM CST Is marriage at risk?
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
lalasierra: Right. It's a question, not a statement.

Just for the record, just because I post a topic it doesn't mean that I'm for or against it. It's simply a question.

i agreed it is a question. My bad. Anyway, what's the connection with marriage being at risk?
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Jul 6, 2013 2:33 AM CST Is marriage at risk?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
lalasierra: Right. It's a question, not a statement.

Just for the record, just because I post a topic it doesn't mean that I'm for or against it. It's simply a question.

Your questions aren't simply questions, as they're not neutral in the way you present them.

"Is marriage at risk?" coupled with "Who will model loving, committed relationships in a world of single adults?" implies there are only two states - a relationship within marriage and no relationship (being single).

This would imply you don't believe a committed relationship outside of marriage could be a healthy role model (or that they don't exist) and so your questions appear to be loaded from a particular perspective.

As its you who asks the loaded questions, or makes the loaded statements, the reader will assume that perspective is yours, unless you're playing devil's advocate.

If you're simply playing devil's advocate, but then sitting back and watching the turmoil you've created, then it will be assumed you're trolling.

Personally, I don't think you are a troll. I think you have prejudiced viewpoints which you can't back up with reasoned debate.

And yes, you do provide entertainment with your threads, but that doesn't mean you can't improve so you don't create volatile situations.
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Jul 6, 2013 2:33 AM CST Is marriage at risk?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
plainlyjune: i agreed it is a question. My bad. Anyway, what's the connection with marriage being at risk?


Let me re-word this for you.

Do you think marriage is at risk with a world full of single adults?

Simple question, should be a simple answer.

Yes or no.
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Jul 6, 2013 2:38 AM CST Is marriage at risk?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
lalasierra: Let me re-word this for you.

Do you think marriage is at risk with a world full of single adults?

Simple question, should be a simple answer.

Yes or no.

Patronising people who are asking reasonable questions doesn't help your case.
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Jul 6, 2013 2:40 AM CST Is marriage at risk?
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
jac379: Your questions aren't simply questions, as they're not neutral in the way you present them.

"Is marriage at risk?" coupled with "Who will model loving, committed relationships in a world of single adults?" implies there are only two states - a relationship within marriage and no relationship (being single).

This would imply you don't believe a committed relationship outside of marriage could be a healthy role model (or that they don't exist) and so your questions appear to be loaded from a particular perspective.

As its you who asks the loaded questions, or makes the loaded statements, the reader will assume that perspective is yours, unless you're playing devil's advocate.

If you're simply playing devil's advocate, but then sitting back and watching the turmoil you've created, then it will be assumed you're trolling.

Personally, I don't think you are a troll. I think you have prejudiced viewpoints which you can't back up with reasoned debate.

And yes, you do provide entertainment with your threads, but that doesn't mean you can't improve so you don't create volatile situations.

Okay, I did understand that part ,what was confusing me was the term "Marriage" as in the religious doctrines or Marriage as a legal contract
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Jul 6, 2013 2:40 AM CST Is marriage at risk?
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
haha, and now you drop "who will model loving, committed relationships" and that wasn't answerable by yes or no. just trying to get some focus here dunno
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Jul 6, 2013 2:42 AM CST Is marriage at risk?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
jac379: Your questions aren't simply questions, as they're not neutral in the way you present them.

"Is marriage at risk?" coupled with "Who will model loving, committed relationships in a world of single adults?" implies there are only two states - a relationship within marriage and no relationship (being single).

This would imply you don't believe a committed relationship outside of marriage could be a healthy role model (or that they don't exist) and so your questions appear to be loaded from a particular perspective.

As its you who asks the loaded questions, or makes the loaded statements, the reader will assume that perspective is yours, unless you're playing devil's advocate.

If you're simply playing devil's advocate, but then sitting back and watching the turmoil you've created, then it will be assumed you're trolling.

Personally, I don't think you are a troll. I think you have prejudiced viewpoints which you can't back up with reasoned debate.

And yes, you do provide entertainment with your threads, but that doesn't mean you can't improve so you don't create volatile situations.


Okay, so my threads are not perfect. I am not perfect, but I will not take responsibility for creating volatile situations. Thats absurd. Everyone is responsible for their own comments and again, if someone doesn't like the topic, or myself, HOW HARD IS IT TO SKIP TO THE NEXT MORE INVITING THREAD AND LEAVE MINE ALONE?
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Jul 6, 2013 2:44 AM CST Is marriage at risk?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Dedovix: Okay, I did understand that part ,what was confusing me was the term "Marriage" as in the religious doctrines or Marriage as a legal contract

I'm sorry Boban, but I don't understand what you're saying here.

Which part did you understand?
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