Ive come to realize... (19)
Being emmotionally healthy is a deal maker...
kizzy27: That I dont want a live in relationship with anyone.I like my own space ,doing my own thing and being my own me.
Is being emotionally independant a deal breaker?
Is being emotionally independant a deal breaker?
Totally get where you are coming from be nice to have someone who feels the same that would be perfect these days peeps don't have to live together to be happy in each others company
kizzy27: That I dont want a live in relationship with anyone.I like my own space ,doing my own thing and being my own me.
Is being emotionally independant a deal breaker?
watever works kizzy, hope ya find himIs being emotionally independant a deal breaker?
kizzy27: That I dont want a live in relationship with anyone.I like my own space ,doing my own thing and being my own me.
Is being emotionally independant a deal breaker?
Is being emotionally independant a deal breaker?
Works for me
Some can not understand it but I'm happy doing my own thing .Aint saying I'd turn anyone down but Im ok being alone !!
mickyj63: Works for me
Some can not understand it but I'm happy doing my own thing .Aint saying I'd turn anyone down but Im ok being alone !!
Some can not understand it but I'm happy doing my own thing .Aint saying I'd turn anyone down but Im ok being alone !!
ive been alone for 2 years, and starting to miss coming home to someone and them asking hiw ya day went and stuff, and cuddling up at night watching a movie then going to bed and
sorry got lost then
asha69: ive been alone for 2 years, and starting to miss coming home to someone and them asking hiw ya day went and stuff, and cuddling up at night watching a movie then going to bed and sorry got lost then
Well I've had relationships and dates since my ex left 3 years ago.
I tend to find funny ones they have issues with my insomnia and being unable to stay in bed in the mornings
mickyj63: Well I've had relationships and dates since my ex left 3 years ago.
I tend to find funny ones they have issues with my insomnia and being unable to stay in bed in the mornings
I tend to find funny ones they have issues with my insomnia and being unable to stay in bed in the mornings
maybe they never gave you anything to sat in bed for
asha69: maybe they never gave you anything to sat in bed for
stay in bed,,, stay in bed,,, silly stupid pute
kizzy27: That I dont want a live in relationship with anyone.I like my own space ,doing my own thing and being my own me.
Is being emotionally independant a deal breaker?
I think everyone is looking for the same type of relationshipIs being emotionally independant a deal breaker?
I've come to realise I'd rather watch the cricket.
Have a good night, all.
Have a good night, all.
NotABlonde: I've come to realise I'd rather watch the cricket.
Have a good night, all.
Have a good night, all.
kizzy27: That I dont want a live in relationship with anyone.I like my own space ,doing my own thing and being my own me.
Is being emotionally independant a deal breaker?
Is being emotionally independant a deal breaker?
Nothing wrong with liking your own company. It was a huge transition for me from being single to being married. Then when my ex got sick, I cared for her for years, then she turfed me out when she was getting better. So then I had to learn to be alone again.
Each state has its benefits and each state has its downfalls. I personally hate coming home to a cold set of four walls with only a TV for company ( and it is not much company either ).
but each to their own. I like my space, but I like lying next to my fiance even better. I like being able to please myself, but I like pleasing my fiance better.
Good on ya if you like being alone. It really does have its up side. But for me, I like the warmth of a beautiful body in bed on a winter's night. I like the touch of a warm hand when we pass in the hall, I like to kiss and cuddle on the couch when watching a movie.
Those things to me are real riches. So I would rather be with someone.
I cannot understand why a person would sign up to a dating site if they really wanted to be by themselves.
If after being on these for a while, one finds contentment in their own company, then at least these sites have brought some enlightenment into a life that perhaps didn't think they were happy in their own company before.
Emotionally independent doesn't sit well with me, because the whole goal of relationship is to inter-dependent, sharing our feelings, emotions, thoughts, likes, dislikes, and ourselves.
jmo
Halv0: Nothing wrong with liking your own company. It was a huge transition for me from being single to being married. Then when my ex got sick, I cared for her for years, then she turfed me out when she was getting better. So then I had to learn to be alone again.
Each state has its benefits and each state has its downfalls. I personally hate coming home to a cold set of four walls with only a TV for company ( and it is not much company either ).
but each to their own. I like my space, but I like lying next to my fiance even better. I like being able to please myself, but I like pleasing my fiance better.
Good on ya if you like being alone. It really does have its up side. But for me, I like the warmth of a beautiful body in bed on a winter's night. I like the touch of a warm hand when we pass in the hall, I like to kiss and cuddle on the couch when watching a movie.
Those things to me are real riches. So I would rather be with someone.
I cannot understand why a person would sign up to a dating site if they really wanted to be by themselves.
If after being on these for a while, one finds contentment in their own company, then at least these sites have brought some enlightenment into a life that perhaps didn't think they were happy in their own company before.
Emotionally independent doesn't sit well with me, because the whole goal of relationship is to inter-dependent, sharing our feelings, emotions, thoughts, likes, dislikes, and ourselves.
jmo
Each state has its benefits and each state has its downfalls. I personally hate coming home to a cold set of four walls with only a TV for company ( and it is not much company either ).
but each to their own. I like my space, but I like lying next to my fiance even better. I like being able to please myself, but I like pleasing my fiance better.
Good on ya if you like being alone. It really does have its up side. But for me, I like the warmth of a beautiful body in bed on a winter's night. I like the touch of a warm hand when we pass in the hall, I like to kiss and cuddle on the couch when watching a movie.
Those things to me are real riches. So I would rather be with someone.
I cannot understand why a person would sign up to a dating site if they really wanted to be by themselves.
If after being on these for a while, one finds contentment in their own company, then at least these sites have brought some enlightenment into a life that perhaps didn't think they were happy in their own company before.
Emotionally independent doesn't sit well with me, because the whole goal of relationship is to inter-dependent, sharing our feelings, emotions, thoughts, likes, dislikes, and ourselves.
jmo
hey halvo
hear hear totally agree with youNotABlonde: I've come to realise I'd rather watch the cricket.
Have a good night, all.
Have a good night, all.
I'd rather go watch the Footy (aussie not the bum sniffers
) or go fishing when the weathers better !!And I enjoy going out for breaky something I could never have done when married !!
mickyj63: I'd rather go watch the Footy (aussie not the bum sniffers ) or go fishing when the weathers better !!
And I enjoy going out for breaky something I could never have done when married !!
And I enjoy going out for breaky something I could never have done when married !!
if you had have been in the right relationship, you could have done that anyways,,, nobody should stop the other person doing stuff they enjoy,, or do it together
Merriweather: Hi Micky,,, Stranger than strange hey...
Actually it was a test in honesty on my EX. When I found out by accident I opened the letter addressed to me and inside was a cheque for a small amount . Thought when I come home from work the nest day I'd call up the number on the letter.
Returned home couldn't find the mysterious cheque kids said mum took it . When I challenged her and mr innocent said I don't deal with that bank it cant be for me. She got irate and said it has to be for you its in your name and Ive banked it !! And that was what she left in the account when she left !!
So I did a bit of phone work and found out she had been pocketing 2 cheques a year for 8 years . Not huge amounts no idea what she did with the money . She may have used it for bills who knows !
Now here is the kicker if she was upfront and honest . We could have claimed them on my tax for 8 years . As I do now they are unfranked and I haven't told them my tax file number .So we or she missed out on extra money !!
And Legally I couldn't back date them and put them on my tax form .
Oh well what does one expect from whit trash
AgentAjax: I think everyone is looking for the same type of relationship
kizzy27: That I dont want a live in relationship with anyone.I like my own space ,doing my own thing and being my own me.
Is being emotionally independant a deal breaker?
Is being emotionally independant a deal breaker?
I think most of us who are financially independent want to keep our own space and part of our freedom Kizzy, I know I do. But hopefully we can still do that and maintain an emotional connection with someone.
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Is being emotionally independant a deal breaker?