Discrete or Not Discrete (77)
lookin, well i have liked the lovely asha for quite some time now and when she said she liked me back well that made my year.....cant say i really care either way what anyone else thinks about that....except asha that is.....so other ppls opinions dont really bother me except if they upset asha, and then that would piss me off........asha is just being herself and thats a good thing to me......thats what attracts me to her(durr)so keep on being you ash....ps lookin......if things didnt work out with asha i wouldnt be lookin for anyone else for quite a while anyway, it takes me ages to get over someone
It all depends on your own worth lookin. I personally stay away from easy lays and the ones that revel to much about themselves publicly. I'm not excited about catching the social disease
I understand where you are coming from LooK'N .... I have seen over the years many would be 'couples' go bung up in real life, because they have got caught up in the on line and telephone romance only to find there is not a twitch of spark when they finally meet in real life ....
Not saying its the case here, though I also believe we should not set ourselves up for a fall .... or to look foolish to all others looking on ... Again I have seen many a good person ditch a site because they are so embarrassed to log back in ....
We had an eXpression we would use on findsomeone when it got to much on the forums .... it was politely suggested to the new couple to get a room ...
We always have to remember there are many lonely people out there and to some reading never ending love you threads becomes puke material after a short while ...
I don't mind if I am disliked for saying it like this, though for many this is the truth ... I know myself my fingers have wanted to type this of late ... so instead I just don't log in as much ...
I wish Reo and Asha a world of luck and I hope you make it all the way, I truly do ... just slow it down and see how you both feel after you have met ...
Again like LooK'N J.M.O. so take it or leave it ....
<<<<< at least now LooK'N will have company when he is nailed to his cross ........ 
Not saying its the case here, though I also believe we should not set ourselves up for a fall .... or to look foolish to all others looking on ... Again I have seen many a good person ditch a site because they are so embarrassed to log back in ....
We had an eXpression we would use on findsomeone when it got to much on the forums .... it was politely suggested to the new couple to get a room ...
We always have to remember there are many lonely people out there and to some reading never ending love you threads becomes puke material after a short while ...
I don't mind if I am disliked for saying it like this, though for many this is the truth ... I know myself my fingers have wanted to type this of late ... so instead I just don't log in as much ...
I wish Reo and Asha a world of luck and I hope you make it all the way, I truly do ... just slow it down and see how you both feel after you have met ...
Again like LooK'N J.M.O. so take it or leave it ....
<<<<< at least now LooK'N will have company when he is nailed to his cross ........ 
Lookin4missright: JMO ONLY
Not meant to hurt anyone
Don't know if i'm gonna word this right and very happy that peeps are getting it on and meeting up re; dating site
However
With all the attention/excitment and posting on existing/pre get togethers for everyone to see
Would peeps be embarrassed if things went bung up and come back on CS forum and would it be the same .. eg- would a guy or chick see them as damaged goods sort of thing (when lookin to date again)and think would i go there if he/she has
Would it be a good thing to promote a r/ship before it grows roots and blossoms
I know i'll probably cop it bad for this but seeing that i have NO experience in r/ships i was just wondering if a guy or chick (looking for true love) would steer away and think differently if they thought any of the hookups bonked eachother
Would it be better for both peeps to be discreate <-- spell check and wait to see behind scenes if r/ship gonna work out than promote just incase goes bung up.Like said above i'm happy for everyone if it's love but being i've never been in love would promoting be a good way to go or not?It's cool making friends and bonking but how would you feel if you came back on lookin for love if tried r/ship goes bung up.
Would you go where a person that you have made friends with on here CS knowing that another one of your friends has been there b4 you Discreate ????
or
Not discreate ????
ps, i have dated and bonked several very lovely women off the dating sites over two and a half years, which for myself jmo i think better to keep under wraps to save hurt or embarrassment on both sides.
If i did ever fall in love (yeh right) then would sing from highest mountain ( . )
pss, not trying to bung up any r/ships as we all do things different. Just would like to know what you think just incase i'm doing s/thing wrong Written and spoken by lookintogetablackeye for having a big mouth pss s, boss really gonna be angrypants
ta ta
Not meant to hurt anyone
Don't know if i'm gonna word this right and very happy that peeps are getting it on and meeting up re; dating site
However
With all the attention/excitment and posting on existing/pre get togethers for everyone to see
Would peeps be embarrassed if things went bung up and come back on CS forum and would it be the same .. eg- would a guy or chick see them as damaged goods sort of thing (when lookin to date again)and think would i go there if he/she has
Would it be a good thing to promote a r/ship before it grows roots and blossoms
I know i'll probably cop it bad for this but seeing that i have NO experience in r/ships i was just wondering if a guy or chick (looking for true love) would steer away and think differently if they thought any of the hookups bonked eachother
Would it be better for both peeps to be discreate <-- spell check and wait to see behind scenes if r/ship gonna work out than promote just incase goes bung up.Like said above i'm happy for everyone if it's love but being i've never been in love would promoting be a good way to go or not?It's cool making friends and bonking but how would you feel if you came back on lookin for love if tried r/ship goes bung up.
Would you go where a person that you have made friends with on here CS knowing that another one of your friends has been there b4 you Discreate ????
or
Not discreate ????
ps, i have dated and bonked several very lovely women off the dating sites over two and a half years, which for myself jmo i think better to keep under wraps to save hurt or embarrassment on both sides.
If i did ever fall in love (yeh right) then would sing from highest mountain ( . )
pss, not trying to bung up any r/ships as we all do things different. Just would like to know what you think just incase i'm doing s/thing wrong Written and spoken by lookintogetablackeye for having a big mouth pss s, boss really gonna be angrypants
ta ta
I believe that the peeps who have fessed up on line about how they feel about each other and wish to take it to a new level of friendship hopefully to falling in love are very genuine about it and just want to shout it from the roof tops.
They are on this site looking for that someone special.They are responsible adults and I am sure they are fully aware that if it doesn't work that is OK at least they are giving it their best shot
We will still be here for them either way. We are all different how we want to express ourselves and I for one as a CS member wouldn't think any different towards the couples if it didn't pan out I am sure Ash and Reo are aware when they meet it could go either way. Same with Merri and Prowler I just wish them all the very best of luck
I also wish I had their guts to go after if I met someone special I really liked Or just felt I was ready to meet someone special maybe one day 
And I may want to share with you guys too 
Anyhow Mr L be happy for them and I hope you will find your happiness too your miss right I think if you did you would want to shout it out too
:teddybear:reolvine420: lookin, well i have liked the lovely asha for quite some time now and when she said she liked me back well that made my year.....cant say i really care either way what anyone else thinks about that....except asha that is.....so other ppls opinions dont really bother me except if they upset asha, and then that would piss me off........asha is just being herself and thats a good thing to me......thats what attracts me to her(durr)so keep on being you ash....ps lookin......if things didnt work out with asha i wouldnt be lookin for anyone else for quite a while anyway, it takes me ages to get over someone
I wish you two guys a fantastic fun time in Melbourne and hopefully a new romance will emerge I know you are both genuine about each other we all express how we feel differently go for it
It depends on the people involved. I personally try to keep private stuff off the threads, but a while ago I went for first meets with a few Irish forum users - one meet, nothing happened but some still got nasty on threads.
Getting on grand with someone else though.
I would hate to find out what could go on if an actual relationship goes wrong, I had enough after harmless, first meets.
I do like to read about romances though, best of luck to all the couples on here, hope it works out for you.
Getting on grand with someone else though.
I would hate to find out what could go on if an actual relationship goes wrong, I had enough after harmless, first meets.
I do like to read about romances though, best of luck to all the couples on here, hope it works out for you.
KNenagh: It depends on the people involved. I personally try to keep private stuff off the threads, but a while ago I went for first meets with a few Irish forum users - one meet, nothing happened but some still got nasty on threads.
Getting on grand with someone else though.
I would hate to find out what could go on if an actual relationship goes wrong, I had enough after harmless, first meets.
I do like to read about romances though, best of luck to all the couples on here, hope it works out for you.
Getting on grand with someone else though.
I would hate to find out what could go on if an actual relationship goes wrong, I had enough after harmless, first meets.
I do like to read about romances though, best of luck to all the couples on here, hope it works out for you.
Good morning KNengah just a question do you mean meeting CS peeps as in just friendship or CS peeps for romance in the R/W
I like to hear about romances on here to I believe it gives us all hope
curly28: Good morning KNengah just a question do you mean meeting CS peeps as in just friendship or CS peeps for romance in the R/W
I like to hear about romances on here to I believe it gives us all hope
I like to hear about romances on here to I believe it gives us all hope
This was when I started off here a year ago (stopped dating for a good while completely) for romance. Didn't work, no harm for me but obviously seen differently especially by one person.
Yup, nothing like a good romance.
KNenagh: This was when I started off here a year ago (stopped dating for a good while completely) for romance. Didn't work, no harm for me but obviously seen differently especially by one person.
Yup, nothing like a good romance.
Yup, nothing like a good romance.
This can and does happen but we can't make that person want us or the other way around it's got to be both ways and true love is hard to find but it def is out there. I have experienced love and I believe you can love again and be loved. But! if someone doesn't feel the same as you let it go it just wasn't meant to be. It's a big world out there millions of peeps and somewhere there is someone for all of us I truly believe that. If you want it that bad it will happen
JMO!curly28: This can and does happen but we can't make that person want us or the other way around it's got to be both ways and true love is hard to find but it def is out there. I have experienced love and I believe you can love again and be loved. But! if someone doesn't feel the same as you let it go it just wasn't meant to be. It's a big world out there millions of peeps and somewhere there is someone for all of us I truly believe that. If you want it that bad it will happen JMO!
Yes, had good times with good guys and like to have that again sometime.
It has to be mutual and there are a lot of people out there, but not a many who will fit the bill.
It's nice to meet someone nice, but I would only start something if it makes me happy (and him). I like my life and if it adds to it, I'll go for it, if not it's better left alone.
Lookin4missright: JMO ONLY
Not meant to hurt anyone
Don't know if i'm gonna word this right and very happy that peeps are getting it on and meeting up re; dating site
However
With all the attention/excitment and posting on existing/pre get togethers for everyone to see
Would peeps be embarrassed if things went bung up and come back on CS forum and would it be the same .. eg- would a guy or chick see them as damaged goods sort of thing (when lookin to date again)and think would i go there if he/she has
Would it be a good thing to promote a r/ship before it grows roots and blossoms
I know i'll probably cop it bad for this but seeing that i have NO experience in r/ships i was just wondering if a guy or chick (looking for true love) would steer away and think differently if they thought any of the hookups bonked eachother
Would it be better for both peeps to be discreate <-- spell check and wait to see behind scenes if r/ship gonna work out than promote just incase goes bung up.Like said above i'm happy for everyone if it's love but being i've never been in love would promoting be a good way to go or not?It's cool making friends and bonking but how would you feel if you came back on lookin for love if tried r/ship goes bung up.
Would you go where a person that you have made friends with on here CS knowing that another one of your friends has been there b4 you Discreate ????
or
Not discreate ????
ps, i have dated and bonked several very lovely women off the dating sites over two and a half years, which for myself jmo i think better to keep under wraps to save hurt or embarrassment on both sides.
If i did ever fall in love (yeh right) then would sing from highest mountain ( . )
pss, not trying to bung up any r/ships as we all do things different. Just would like to know what you think just incase i'm doing s/thing wrong Written and spoken by lookintogetablackeye for having a big mouth pss s, boss really gonna be angrypants
ta ta
Not meant to hurt anyone
Don't know if i'm gonna word this right and very happy that peeps are getting it on and meeting up re; dating site
However
With all the attention/excitment and posting on existing/pre get togethers for everyone to see
Would peeps be embarrassed if things went bung up and come back on CS forum and would it be the same .. eg- would a guy or chick see them as damaged goods sort of thing (when lookin to date again)and think would i go there if he/she has
Would it be a good thing to promote a r/ship before it grows roots and blossoms
I know i'll probably cop it bad for this but seeing that i have NO experience in r/ships i was just wondering if a guy or chick (looking for true love) would steer away and think differently if they thought any of the hookups bonked eachother
Would it be better for both peeps to be discreate <-- spell check and wait to see behind scenes if r/ship gonna work out than promote just incase goes bung up.Like said above i'm happy for everyone if it's love but being i've never been in love would promoting be a good way to go or not?It's cool making friends and bonking but how would you feel if you came back on lookin for love if tried r/ship goes bung up.
Would you go where a person that you have made friends with on here CS knowing that another one of your friends has been there b4 you Discreate ????
or
Not discreate ????
ps, i have dated and bonked several very lovely women off the dating sites over two and a half years, which for myself jmo i think better to keep under wraps to save hurt or embarrassment on both sides.
If i did ever fall in love (yeh right) then would sing from highest mountain ( . )
pss, not trying to bung up any r/ships as we all do things different. Just would like to know what you think just incase i'm doing s/thing wrong Written and spoken by lookintogetablackeye for having a big mouth pss s, boss really gonna be angrypants
ta ta
You know my feelings on this already :)
curly28: Your life Ash you do it your way I think some peeps are just plain jealous and need to get a life JMO!
hey curls, im just happy thats it,and i want to share it,,
anyone shouldnt be jealous anyways, theres someone for everyone i believe, unless they are wanting me or reo for themselves
have a great day hons
Well i`m still single as i stopped all communication with LG as i had some serious issues with my boy that needed my complete attention. Probably not the best excuse but sadly it had to be done. I must say even though we didn`t meet LG is a very lovely lady.
It was my first ever sort of relationship from this site.
Have seen many peeps get together on here and have seen many of the same peeps come back cos things didn`t work out.
It was my first ever sort of relationship from this site.
Have seen many peeps get together on here and have seen many of the same peeps come back cos things didn`t work out.
bjsss: Well i`m still single as i stopped all communication with LG as i had some serious issues with my boy that needed my complete attention. Probably not the best excuse but sadly it had to be done. I must say even though we didn`t meet LG is a very lovely lady.
It was my first ever sort of relationship from this site.
Have seen many peeps get together on here and have seen many of the same peeps come back cos things didn`t work out.
It was my first ever sort of relationship from this site.
Have seen many peeps get together on here and have seen many of the same peeps come back cos things didn`t work out.
Sorry you and LG didn't meet up and sorry to hear you have had family issues hope things are better for you & your son BJ You know it's never too late to still catch up with the lovely L/gal
she does sound lovely such a shame to let that chance go by never say never i did actually go on a couple of dates with a guy from this site, nothing came of it as i didnt feel any chemistry, and i didnt sleep with him, so its not a case of dating then bonking for many of us on here,
and been the gentleman he was didnt feel the need to post comments on here and neither did i. it depends on how grown up the people are and can understand it may not work, it is an adult dating site not a school dance.
yes some can be nasty afterwards but for why? whats the point of that anyways whats worse, been excited about hopefully meeting the right one, the reason most of us are on here, or bragging about hot chicks you wanna or have bonked, that would put me off dating that guy anyways,
JMO
and been the gentleman he was didnt feel the need to post comments on here and neither did i. it depends on how grown up the people are and can understand it may not work, it is an adult dating site not a school dance.
yes some can be nasty afterwards but for why? whats the point of that
anyways whats worse, been excited about hopefully meeting the right one, the reason most of us are on here, or bragging about hot chicks you wanna or have bonked, that would put me off dating that guy anyways, JMOHi Asha,
I wish you all the best and hope it all works out how you hope it will.
My day was good, back at work tho
I wish you all the best and hope it all works out how you hope it will.
My day was good, back at work tho
I'm still willing to put my Shiney pelotas on line that its a fantasy or I have wasted all those beers studying psychology late at night and waking up with hangovers
or I have wasted all those beers studying psychology late at night and waking up with hangovers
I just have one thing to say ..
It's spelt DISCREET dammit
It's spelt DISCREET dammit
AgentAjax: I'm still willing to put my Shiney pelotas on line that its a fantasy or I have wasted all those beers studying psychology late at night and waking up with hangovers
Is that......put your Shiney Pelotas on THE line ......or......
Put your Shiney Pelotas ONLINE??????
be right back, just checkin AA's profile pics
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Not meant to hurt anyone
Don't know if i'm gonna word this right
However
With all the attention/excitment and posting on existing/pre get togethers for everyone to see
Would peeps be embarrassed if things went bung up and come back on CS forum and would it be the same
Would it be a good thing to promote a r/ship before it grows roots and blossoms
I know i'll probably cop it bad for this
Would it be better for both peeps to be discreate <-- spell check and wait to see behind scenes if r/ship gonna work out
Like said above
It's cool making friends and bonking
Would you go where a person that you have made friends with on here CS knowing that another one of your friends has been there b4 you
Discreate ????
or
Not discreate ????
ps, i have dated and bonked several very lovely women off the dating sites over two and a half years, which for myself jmo i think better to keep under wraps to save hurt or embarrassment on both sides.
If i did ever fall in love (yeh right)
pss, not trying to bung up any r/ships
Written and spoken by lookintogetablackeye for having a big mouth
pss
ta ta