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Aug 13, 2013 7:22 AM CST Single or Married
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
Do you think it's a bad idea for married people to go out for nights on the town, night clubbing or to social gatherings with their single friends? Is this a recipe for disaster for the married couple?
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Aug 13, 2013 7:27 AM CST Single or Married
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
lalasierra: Do you think it's a bad idea for married people to go out for nights on the town, night clubbing or to social gatherings with their single friends? Is this a recipe for disaster for the married couple?


Can be... depends on why you are going... if its a night out with the girls very occasionally , then what is the harm, but to constantly do it... I be guessing there is something amiss..??dunno
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Aug 13, 2013 7:28 AM CST Single or Married
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
lalasierra: Do you think it's a bad idea for married people to go out for nights on the town, night clubbing or to social gatherings with their single friends? Is this a recipe for disaster for the married couple?


Yes I do think it`s a terrible idea, and anyone pulling the "if you don`t trust blah blah blah " card ,can kiss my heinie,
I don`t trust , deal with it grin
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Aug 13, 2013 7:32 AM CST Single or Married
NotMissTaken
NotMissTakenNotMissTakenunknown, Ar Riyad Saudi Arabia267 Posts
My married female friends didn't have problems with their husbands, because they're with us. grin
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Aug 13, 2013 7:34 AM CST Single or Married
minnie50
minnie50minnie50puerto plata, Puerto Plata Dominican Republic3 Threads 2 Polls 710 Posts
married people go to fool around together also...then who knows.
people now is happy with set days relationships.
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Aug 13, 2013 7:35 AM CST Single or Married
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
I would agree with previous posters, apart from occasional nights like hen parties, I would suspect that something was amiss in the relationship.
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Aug 13, 2013 7:36 AM CST Single or Married
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
Dedovix: Yes I do think it`s a terrible idea, and anyone pulling the "if you don`t trust blah blah blah " card ,can kiss my heinie,
I don`t trust , deal with it


wave
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Aug 13, 2013 9:14 AM CST Single or Married
KenAdams101
KenAdams101KenAdams101Somewhere in Co, Kilkenny Ireland8 Threads 35 Posts
Merriweather: Can be... depends on why you are going... if its a night out with the girls very occasionally , then what is the harm, but to constantly do it... I be guessing there is something amiss..??


I agree! It`s ok if you do it occasionally, to rarely. But anything more than that. I would see that Idea have alot more tilt to the heading for disaster in time.
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Aug 13, 2013 9:14 AM CST Single or Married
LadyDiz
LadyDizLadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 Posts
Nothing wrong with a bit of independence - actually good for your relationship. However, if you go out with your single pals only because you need to get away from your partner or feel you have much more fun with others than her/him....then there is a problem with your relationship that should be addressed.
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Aug 13, 2013 9:16 AM CST Single or Married
bungallow55
bungallow55bungallow55Lakeland, Florida USA238 Threads 10 Polls 3,837 Posts
lalasierra: Do you think it's a bad idea for married people to go out for nights on the town, night clubbing or to social gatherings with their single friends? Is this a recipe for disaster for the married couple?


Yes, is a recipe for disaster...Agree!
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Aug 13, 2013 9:17 AM CST Single or Married
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
Also, if you see that your single friends are putting you in bad situations, then you should stop joining them.
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Aug 13, 2013 9:19 AM CST Single or Married
bungallow55
bungallow55bungallow55Lakeland, Florida USA238 Threads 10 Polls 3,837 Posts
LadyDiz: Nothing wrong with a bit of independence - actually good for your relationship. However, if you go out with your single pals only because you need to get away from your partner or feel you have much more fun with others than her/him....then there is a problem with your relationship that should be addressed.


If you want to be independent, do not get married.
Look at me, old but happy and single.cheers
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Aug 13, 2013 9:22 AM CST Single or Married
KenAdams101
KenAdams101KenAdams101Somewhere in Co, Kilkenny Ireland8 Threads 35 Posts
Great proper answers here from everyone.
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Aug 13, 2013 9:22 AM CST Single or Married
bungallow55
bungallow55bungallow55Lakeland, Florida USA238 Threads 10 Polls 3,837 Posts
minnie50: married people go to fool around together also...then who knows.
people now is happy with set days relationships.


According to another date site, people over 50 and
single say they are happier now.
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Aug 13, 2013 10:45 AM CST Single or Married
LadyDiz
LadyDizLadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 Posts
bungallow55: If you want to be independent, do not get married.
Look at me, old but happy and single.



Ah! So marriage for you is the subservience of your individuality? If that's your take on it, then yes, single-dom is the right path for you, personally, to follow!
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Aug 13, 2013 10:54 AM CST Single or Married
minnie50
minnie50minnie50puerto plata, Puerto Plata Dominican Republic3 Threads 2 Polls 710 Posts
bungallow55: According to another date site, people over 50 and
single say they are happier now.


every person who lives his experience feel liberated and happy at some stage in his life I think., some are happy singles, I am fine & happy aingle but looking faraway to grow old with company .
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Aug 13, 2013 11:29 AM CST Single or Married
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
I couldnt be trusted grin
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Aug 13, 2013 11:32 AM CST Single or Married
emerald888
emerald888emerald888wicklow, Wicklow Ireland2 Threads 1,054 Posts
bungallow55: According to another date site, people over 50 and
single say they are happier now.


really hope not to be here that long laugh
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Aug 13, 2013 11:40 AM CST Single or Married
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
lalasierra: Do you think it's a bad idea for married people to go out for nights on the town, night clubbing or to social gatherings with their single friends? Is this a recipe for disaster for the married couple?


No, it's not a bad idea. Anybody with someone because they have don't have the opportunity to cheat is kind of missing the point of what fidelity means.

It's a actually a good idea(particularly for the Husband to still go out). Him maintaining his social prowess is the equivalent of her maintaing a slender and supple body. If her indoors turns him into a shut-in then his charisma and personality will lapse and this may very well result in her leaving him. Remember, the greatest liability to any relationship is the woman getting bored.
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Aug 13, 2013 11:41 AM CST Single or Married
emerald888
emerald888emerald888wicklow, Wicklow Ireland2 Threads 1,054 Posts
Dedovix: Yes I do think it`s a terrible idea, and anyone pulling the "if you don`t trust blah blah blah " card ,can kiss my heinie,
I don`t trust , deal with it
thumbs up beer
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