How do you react? (33)
lalasierra: How do you react when you've realise you've been lied to?
Whether it's a white lie or not. Do you confront them? Do you forgive them, knowing we are only human and we all make mistakes? Do you discontinue the relationship?
...that all depends...on how serious it was...the lie.......Whether it's a white lie or not. Do you confront them? Do you forgive them, knowing we are only human and we all make mistakes? Do you discontinue the relationship?
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Hopefully they are out of reach when I discover it. I have been known to get in trouble if they ain't. Mayhem and all that. If a tongue tells lies, cut it out. Use whatever broken bottle or steak knife is handy. If they are too far away for that, hopefully I will have calmed down a little before I see them again. Even then, they no longer considered a part of my world and I discontinue as much as possible with them. Forgiving things is the job of the Gods, not me.
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I can tolerate most things but not when someone lies to me.
I had someone one time excuse me of lying about my hair color.Yes I dye it so what.When I was a baby I had blonde hair.
I had someone one time excuse me of lying about my hair color.Yes I dye it so what.When I was a baby I had blonde hair.
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Ccincy: I can tolerate most things but not when someone lies to me.
I had someone one time excuse me of lying about my hair color.Yes I dye it so what.When I was a baby I had blonde hair.
....I can remember that......I had someone one time excuse me of lying about my hair color.Yes I dye it so what.When I was a baby I had blonde hair.
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Confront and forgive mostly. Depends on what the lie is.
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hoolet: Confront and forgive mostly. Depends on what the lie is.
...I,m only 27 yrs old.....
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truheart1941: ...I,m only 27 yrs old.....
I forgive you my son
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lalasierra: How do you react when you've realise you've been lied to?
Whether it's a white lie or not. Do you confront them? Do you forgive them, knowing we are only human and we all make mistakes? Do you discontinue the relationship?
play them at there own gameWhether it's a white lie or not. Do you confront them? Do you forgive them, knowing we are only human and we all make mistakes? Do you discontinue the relationship?
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hoolet: I forgive you my son
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mjpd67: play them at there own game
Do you mean lie them in return?
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lalasierra: Do you mean lie them in return?
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mjpd67: fight fire with fire they reckon
But two wrongs dont make a right.
Besides, why waste your energy and time when you could just end the relationship if you don't want to forgive? No offense, but that seems a bit immature.
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mjpd67: play them at there own game
I was under the impression that two wrongs don't make a right.It appears I'm wrong.
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lalasierra: But two wrongs dont make a right.
Besides, why waste your energy and time when you could just end the relationship if you don't want to forgive? No offense, but that seems a bit immature.
oh excuse me was only a suggestion didnt stipulate to you personally sorry for being immature ,if you were lied to or hurt just hire a hitman Besides, why waste your energy and time when you could just end the relationship if you don't want to forgive? No offense, but that seems a bit immature.
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minnie50: I can forgive a circumstantial lie,but not a compulsive liar.
you can watch a thief but never a liar
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mjpd67: oh excuse me was only a suggestion didnt stipulate to you personally sorry for being immature ,if you were lied to or hurt just hire a hitman
Touchy, touchy! I can forgive someone's lie, if they aren't a compulsive liar and there is no need for a hitman, I can do my own dirty work, lol, if needed.
Of course I, like anyone else, has been lied to.
Just a tip: Just because I post a particular thread does not mean it pertains to me personally. I get my ideas for threads in various ways.
Some people don't seem to understand this and often get the idea these threads are about myself and 9 times out of 10, they have nothing to do with me personally.
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if i discover someone has lied to me...i confront them.
if it's a casual acquaintance, i don't bother and walk away. but if it's a relationship i want to keep...i do try to talk to the person about it to try to understand why they have lied.
i find it hard though to let go...i remember it...and it undermines my ability to trust them. takes me a long time. i don't think lieing to me is ever for my own best interests, no matter how it's dressed up.
i think most lieing is fear based. fear of losing something or someone, fear of not having or getting 'enough'...whatever the enough is...whatever the fear is.
and i wonder...if they lied once, will they lie again? or have they lied before and i just didn't know it...
but...
it's those times i've lied to myself that cut the deepest.
jmho
if it's a casual acquaintance, i don't bother and walk away. but if it's a relationship i want to keep...i do try to talk to the person about it to try to understand why they have lied.
i find it hard though to let go...i remember it...and it undermines my ability to trust them. takes me a long time. i don't think lieing to me is ever for my own best interests, no matter how it's dressed up.
i think most lieing is fear based. fear of losing something or someone, fear of not having or getting 'enough'...whatever the enough is...whatever the fear is.
and i wonder...if they lied once, will they lie again? or have they lied before and i just didn't know it...
but...
it's those times i've lied to myself that cut the deepest.
jmho
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lalasierra: Touchy, touchy! I can forgive someone's lie, if they aren't a compulsive liar and there is no need for a hitman, I can do my own dirty work, lol, if needed.
Of course I, like anyone else, has been lied to.
Just a tip: Just because I post a particular thread does not mean it pertains to me personally. I get my ideas for threads in various ways.
Some people don't seem to understand this and often get the idea these threads are about myself and 9 times out of 10, they have nothing to do with me personally. Just sayin.
And its a public thread and if i write something dont take it to heart ,its a big bad world out there now dry your tears and have a happy life Of course I, like anyone else, has been lied to.
Just a tip: Just because I post a particular thread does not mean it pertains to me personally. I get my ideas for threads in various ways.
Some people don't seem to understand this and often get the idea these threads are about myself and 9 times out of 10, they have nothing to do with me personally. Just sayin.
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Whether it's a white lie or not. Do you confront them? Do you forgive them, knowing we are only human and we all make mistakes? Do you discontinue the relationship?