Please dont BLOCK ANYONE without at least Replying to their message (83)
MrVirgoDublin, Ireland11 Threads 135 PostsHi everyone. We're all here for an emotional purpose. PLease, please do not block someone when they email you, without at least replying first to say, "Thank you for your message, but I am looking for someone else in here" or something like that. We're all emotional people, and here willing to show our feelings and plucking up some courage to contact another. Remember we are all vulnerable, and sometimes a person can be driven more into themselves and perhaps become more miserable because they are lonely maybe and want to meet someone. Once you send the reply, and they message you again, then by all means go ahead and block them. But first, please at least be nice and then the person wont feel so bad....agreed everyone...its nice to be nice with other peoples feelings......Thank you for reading 
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what happent MrVirgo ?? who upset you ??
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MrVirgo: Hi everyone. We're all here for an emotional purpose. PLease, please do not block someone when they email you, without at least replying first to say, "Thank you for your message, but I am looking for someone else in here" or something like that. We're all emotional people, and here willing to show our feelings and plucking up some courage to contact another. Remember we are all vulnerable, and sometimes a person can be driven more into themselves and perhaps become more miserable because they are lonely maybe and want to meet someone. Once you send the reply, and they message you again, then by all means go ahead and block them. But first, please at least be nice and then the person wont feel so bad....agreed everyone...its nice to be nice with other peoples feelings......Thank you for reading
They say contacting us makes them appear to be desperate, but it's quite alright for us look desperate..It's also quite alright for us to have to deal with the rejection that sometimes follows..Unbelievable what they have become..
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utuber: They say contacting us makes them appear to be desperate, but it's quite alright for us look desperate..It's also quite alright for us to have to deal with the rejection that sometimes follows..Unbelievable what they have become..
oh, come on....not all are same...i am sure are many nice ladys around
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MrVirgo: Hi everyone. We're all here for an emotional purpose. PLease, please do not block someone when they email you, without at least replying first to say, "Thank you for your message, but I am looking for someone else in here" or something like that. We're all emotional people, and here willing to show our feelings and plucking up some courage to contact another. Remember we are all vulnerable, and sometimes a person can be driven more into themselves and perhaps become more miserable because they are lonely maybe and want to meet someone. Once you send the reply, and they message you again, then by all means go ahead and block them. But first, please at least be nice and then the person wont feel so bad....agreed everyone...its nice to be nice with other peoples feelings......Thank you for reading
Might be idea to put this thread up on the Irish threads too, not everyone reads the inters
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Florence13: what happent MrVirgo ?? who upset you ??
Hey Florence, its not an issue about the person that blocked me, its the 2nd time thats happened, i'm starting to get used to it
....Its because I am trying to find the right person (i guess you read my post about true love and astrology)....Obviously they think that I'm mad....I'm just trying to find the right person, thats all....But it prompted me to ask everyone to be genuine and just make a reply to that person. I think at this stage i'm going to not bother trying to find a partner here on this site, if i cant be honest then whats the point...? I love the forums and chatting to everyone, so thats all I'm going to do in future, and I'll let nature and chance take its own course when it comes to finding someone...Thanks for worrying Florance, but I am grand, just wanted to ask people to be careful with other peoples feelings thats all, we're only human after all....------ This thread is Archived ------
emerald888: Might be idea to put this thread up on the Irish threads too, not everyone reads the inters
Thats a good idea emerald, i'll do that...
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:) Sir..I'll tell you what. Just don't give a damn about those people who block you when you e-mail them. You didn't even have to post this topic on here. But anyway. For example I e-mail women member of CS just like most guys do and some of them might have blocked me without any replies also.(Older ones do that to me in general :)) But I don't really give a damn about that.So don't get upset about it. Because you are not the only one that those women block. They don't have to make any excuses by replying your e-mails and saying sorry either. Just ignore their behaviors and try to e-mail someone else instead. That's it..
With love from Turkey :)
Kaan
With love from Turkey :)
Kaan
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I wouldn't take it personally - sometimes it's the settings on email that block automatically, particularly in respect of age and geographic location. I always answer my emails, even when I suspect they are scammers. And there are many other women on CS who do the same.
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kaan_1155: :) Sir..I'll tell you what. Just don't give a damn about those people who block you when you e-mail them. You didn't even have to post this topic on here. But anyway. For example I e-mail women member of CS just like most guys do and some of them might have blocked me without any replies also.(Older ones do that to me in general :)) But I don't really give a damn about that.So don't get upset about it. Because you are not the only one that those women block. They don't have to make any excuses by replying your e-mails and saying sorry either. Just ignore their behaviors and try to e-mail someone else instead. That's it..
With love from Turkey :)
Kaan
With love from Turkey :)
Kaan
Thanks Kaan. Unfortunately I like to speak out though if I think that something is wrong...its nice to be nice, and people should try to be courteous. Thats all. I'm not picking on the people that blocked me, because probably alot of people do, without thinking that there is another human being on the other side of the site that thought that the person was attractive, or thought that they had a nice profile, or if stupid like me and thought/think that astrology signs matter....
I'm beginning think that signs dont matter, and just people are different...Honesty goes a long way...
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MrVirgo i understand your point, but as far as i saw (reading on different threads) very rare is happens that some peoples care about other peoples feelings for example if you put a serious question, you will receive jokes about or funny stuffs most of the time, rare you will get a serious answer about....some people don't make any difference between a serious matter wich can torment you and a joke matter...unfortunatelly people keep continue to hurt eachother just for funn...
i understand your point, but as far as i saw (reading on different threads) very rare is happens that some peoples care about other peoples feelings for example if you put a serious question, you will receive jokes about or funny stuffs most of the time, rare you will get a serious answer about....some people don't make any difference between a serious matter wich can torment you and a joke matter...unfortunatelly people keep continue to hurt eachother just for funn...------ This thread is Archived ------
Yes this has happened to me a few times too. No answer, just get blocked Kind of cold and heartless way of dealing with people. It would be nice to have a thank you but no thank you note of some sort. 
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LadyDiz: I wouldn't take it personally - sometimes it's the settings on email that block automatically, particularly in respect of age and geographic location. I always answer my emails, even when I suspect they are scammers. And there are many other women on CS who do the same.
hi Ladydiz, yes scammers i agree block block block!, but i'm just asking people not to block someone who looks genuine because they said something stupid....what did i do...well i mailed a link to the forum that I started about astrology and love...ok, probably a bit too much information, but still, i was just being honest about my thoughts on finding love....a message to say thanks but no thanks is enough. Obviously i was hurt by it, but it got me thinking that perhaps another person might get even more hurt than me, so I'm just asking people to be careful about other peoples feelings....thats all
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I'm not looking so I rarely if ever reply to mails on the internet cause it's not really safe in today's society.
It's hard to tell sometimes between the scamers and the real people.
I agree people should have manners.
It's hard to tell sometimes between the scamers and the real people.
I agree people should have manners.
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Ccincy: I'm not looking so I rarely if ever reply to mails on the internet cause it's not really safe in today's society.It's hard to tell sometimes between the scamers and the real people.I agree people should have manners.
Hi Ccincy, i got no problem with someone not replying, thats fair enough...but blocking without replying is just rude and possible damaging a person's confidence....we're only human
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MrVirgo: Thats a good idea emerald, i'll do that...
I think a pic of you without glasses might be a good idea too. Might show women here you are who you claim to be
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If your messages or flowers are polite, I fail to understand why you have been blocked. This is a measure taken for weird or crude messages, at least in my case. In fact I've only ever blocked two people who hounded me after one date when I didn't want to make another.
Crude or rude messages I find cease if they are ignored so blocking is not necessary.
I'm only speaking for myself here not other women, but it does seem odd.
Crude or rude messages I find cease if they are ignored so blocking is not necessary.
I'm only speaking for myself here not other women, but it does seem odd.
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MrVirgo if someone don't replay to your honesty in the same way, that someone is the loser, is more safety for you when you don't talk any moore with that person, because is obvious that she can understand you and it can't be than your match....
So be happy that you rid of it now (and not too late), no matter how
So be happy that you rid of it now (and not too late), no matter how
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emerald888: I think a pic of you without glasses might be a good idea too. Might show women here you are who you claim to be
Thanks Emerald, I've done that now, like your new pic too
How was your date????
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MrVirgo: Hi everyone. We're all here for an emotional purpose. PLease, please do not block someone when they email you, without at least replying first to say, "Thank you for your message, but I am looking for someone else in here" or something like that. We're all emotional people, and here willing to show our feelings and plucking up some courage to contact another. Remember we are all vulnerable, and sometimes a person can be driven more into themselves and perhaps become more miserable because they are lonely maybe and want to meet someone. Once you send the reply, and they message you again, then by all means go ahead and block them. But first, please at least be nice and then the person wont feel so bad....agreed everyone...its nice to be nice with other peoples feelings......Thank you for reading
I will block the freaks whenever I please to do so. We are grown-ups here and you really can't go around telling us how to conduct ourselves on here.
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