Hi everyone. We're all here for an emotional purpose. PLease, please do not block someone when they email you, without at least replying first to say, "Thank you for your message, but I am looking for someone else in here" or something like that. We're all emotional people, and here willing to show our feelings and plucking up some courage to contact another. Remember we are all vulnerable, and sometimes a person can be driven more into themselves and perhaps become more miserable because they are lonely maybe and want to meet someone. Once you send the reply, and they message you again, then by all means go ahead and block them. But first, please at least be nice and then the person wont feel so bad....agreed everyone...its nice to be nice with other peoples feelings......Thank you for reading
facetowardsfront: Have you been getting blocked much?
Only twice so far
But seriously, i'm just asking people to be genuine and its nice to be nice, thats all....these are peoples feelings, and some people might be more vulnerable than others....
But seriously, i'm just asking people to be genuine and its nice to be nice, thats all....these are peoples feelings, and some people might be more vulnerable than others....
Apparently being nice is too much of an effort for some people. I guess they feel they have that privilege or perhaps they don't feel at all. Men can often be seen as mere utilities and if you don't qualify, in their mind, you don't deserve common courtesy.
I've noticed how such a man is often dismissed as a 'creep' while a woman who would be so rejected or even let down as gently as possible would claim the privilege to be 'scorned'.
I'd better go and check my 'male privilege'. It must be here someplace because I'm constantly told I have it but I must admit I've never seen it.
MrVirgo: Hi everyone. We're all here for an emotional purpose. PLease, please do not block someone when they email you, without at least replying first to say, "Thank you for your message, but I am looking for someone else in here" or something like that. We're all emotional people, and here willing to show our feelings and plucking up some courage to contact another. Remember we are all vulnerable, and sometimes a person can be driven more into themselves and perhaps become more miserable because they are lonely maybe and want to meet someone. Once you send the reply, and they message you again, then by all means go ahead and block them. But first, please at least be nice and then the person wont feel so bad....agreed everyone...its nice to be nice with other peoples feelings......Thank you for reading
Dont get emotional to much your gonna get blocked anyways like it or lump it, word of advice when they block you its usually a sign that theirs a hormonal imbalance or their mentally unstable ,dont worry about it m8
facetowardsfront: Apparently being nice is too much of an effort for some people. I guess they feel they have that privilege or perhaps they don't feel at all. Men can often be seen as mere utilities and if you don't qualify, in their mind, you don't deserve common courtesy.
I've noticed how such a man is often dismissed as a 'creep' while a woman who would be so rejected or even let down as gently as possible would claim the privilege to be 'scorned'.
I'd better go and check my 'male privilege'. It must be here someplace because I'm constantly told I have it but I must admit I've never seen it.
Thanks for the message man! yeah your right. It does annoy me, but i wont let it bother me now....just thought I'd speak out and say that its not cool....
mjpd67: Dont get emotional to much your gonna get blocked anyways like it or lump it, word of advice when they block you its usually a sign that theirs a hormonal imbalance or their mentally unstable ,dont worry about it m8
Thank you for your advice as well
it just annoyed me...I'm over it now and have grown another layer of skin
MrVirgo: Hi everyone. We're all here for an emotional purpose. PLease, please do not block someone when they email you, without at least replying first to say, "Thank you for your message, but I am looking for someone else in here" or something like that. We're all emotional people, and here willing to show our feelings and plucking up some courage to contact another. Remember we are all vulnerable, and sometimes a person can be driven more into themselves and perhaps become more miserable because they are lonely maybe and want to meet someone. Once you send the reply, and they message you again, then by all means go ahead and block them. But first, please at least be nice and then the person wont feel so bad....agreed everyone...its nice to be nice with other peoples feelings......Thank you for reading
I'm inclined to agree with you there mate (and welcome to the forums) but to be fair some people think it's ok to not reply to a first message and know that the non reply means 'thanks but I'm not interested'....I can see their point and I don't think it means they're rude. But all in all yes, it's nice to get some reply, even if it's 'thanks but no thanks'......
snowlynx: I'm inclined to agree with you there mate (and welcome to the forums) but to be fair some people think it's ok to not reply to a first message and know that the non reply means 'thanks but I'm not interested'....I can see their point and I don't think it means they're rude. But all in all yes, it's nice to get some reply, even if it's 'thanks but no thanks'......
I made a mistake, and meant to say ignore, or reply. Blocking for no reason isn't cool. I'm over it now, and just thought I'd speak out, but sure it will be forgotten tomorrow and the world will keep spinning
MrVirgo: My god, some people should come with a warning....Pity there's no reviews on the site to warn others about people like that....how did it get to that stage where he knew you had kids....your profile perhaps....is he irish?
Of course ..............my profile I am not going to hide the fact I have two children....my greatest achievement.
No he is from Indiana, USA. He is a practising Lawler in Plainfield, His father a banker, mother a school teacher, sister a dentist, dog named Billy karma
emerald888: Of course ..............my profile I am not going to hide the fact I have two children....my greatest achievement.
No he is from Indiana, USA. He is a practising Lawler in Plainfield, His father a banker, mother a school teacher, sister a dentist, dog named Billy karma
'Me and you and a dog named Boo...travellin' and a livin' off the land.....'
In response to: Hi everyone. We're all here for an emotional purpose. PLease, please do not block someone when they email you, without at least replying first to say, "Thank you for your message, but I am looking for someone else in here" or something like that. We're all emotional people, and here willing to show our feelings and plucking up some courage to contact another. Remember we are all vulnerable, and sometimes a person can be driven more into themselves and perhaps become more miserable because they are lonely maybe and want to meet someone. Once you send the reply, and they message you again, then by all means go ahead and block them. But first, please at least be nice and then the person wont feel so bad....agreed everyone...its nice to be nice with other peoples feelings......Thank you for reading
So you were chatting a bit with him. Yeah, thats a good enough reason to block...Have you seen the blog about the girl who's husband is having an affair, its on the homepage, some great replies there to cheer you up
emerald888: Of course ..............my profile I am not going to hide the fact I have two children....my greatest achievement.
No he is from Indiana, USA. He is a practising Lawler in Plainfield, His father a banker, mother a school teacher, sister a dentist, dog named Billy karma
MrVirgo: So you were chatting a bit with him. Yeah, thats a good enough reason to block...Have you seen the blog about the girl who's husband is having an affair, its on the homepage, some great replies there to cheer you up
no we shared three mails, info I found on him myself
He blocked me before I could reply to his nasty mail
emerald888: no we shared three mails, info I found on him myself
He blocked me before I could reply to his nasty mail
Let me do it...I'll pretend I'm gay and I love his eyes....and tell him that he looks like he could be gay too, because he has really nice features...come on, just for the craic!!!!!
MrVirgo: Let me do it...I'll pretend I'm gay and I love his eyes....and tell him that he looks like he could be gay too, because he has really nice features...come on, just for the craic!!!!!
Well I personally think its worse when someone looks for a picture from you after a while you send one..then they stop mailing you because they dont like what they see!!!
I know everyone has different taste in men/women fair enough if you dont like them just be honest and tell them ok your not what im looking for!!
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