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Well, at least you're getting comments, which means that you're doing something right to attract people to look at your profile.


My thoughts:

What's with the cropping on the photos?

Don't they have charity shops in Cyprus where you could buy lots of clothes that will fit you properly for almost no money? Would you like me, or someone else to post some clothes to you?

Some of your self description comes over as negative. Are you a glass half empty or half full kind of person? Coming over as negative is fine, as long as that's a true representation of who you really are.


Also, there's no such thing as a perfect profile. We could take the Cecil Northcote Parkinson approach to profile ads where you list every negative aspect about you, with the idea being that exactly one person will contact you with a view to getting to know you better. That one person would be exactly the right person for you, as if they're happy to put up with all your negatives then they positives will be enough to make them love you.

Or you could take the traditional CV approach to your profile, where it's basically an advertisement for you, designed to get as many positive responses as possible, from which a process of natural selection then takes place.


And above all, this is only a free international dating site. Don't expect miracles. Maybe you'll meet someone here. Maybe you won't. Life goes on.


Thinking about the clothes thing, I'd be thinking "If he can't organise his clothes, that means that he's hopeless at organising anything. If he's making some sort of joke about this, why doesn't he take photos of himself in properly fitting clothes? Maybe because he can't organise some proper photos?..."


I think there are some great positives about your profile, You are tall, dark and handsome. You just need to find someone who's been to have their fortune read...