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Oct 6, 2013 6:34 PM CST long distance dating
1969manny
1969manny1969mannymargate, Florida USA11 Threads 17 Posts
Long distance dating can it work ?
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Oct 6, 2013 6:54 PM CST long distance dating
WESTERNSTAR1
WESTERNSTAR1WESTERNSTAR1†_ °_†, Cork Ireland8 Threads 5 Polls 3,490 Posts
1969manny: Long distance dating can it work ?
well I guess how far and for how long.to far to long = no point just get on with life thumbs up interesting thread handshake
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Oct 6, 2013 7:31 PM CST long distance dating
LoriJames20
LoriJames20LoriJames20San Pedro, Corozal Belize1 Threads 1,172 Posts
It can work if the end result is that you will be together.
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Oct 6, 2013 7:43 PM CST long distance dating
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
In response to: Long distance dating can it work ?


Yes, it can work if there's a desire to make it work. wine
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Oct 6, 2013 7:53 PM CST long distance dating
WESTERNSTAR1
WESTERNSTAR1WESTERNSTAR1†_ °_†, Cork Ireland8 Threads 5 Polls 3,490 Posts
2intrigued: Yes, it can work if there's a desire to make it work.
that said.it has to be a shared 'desire' love to make it work handshake
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Oct 6, 2013 7:56 PM CST long distance dating
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
WESTERNSTAR1: that said.it has to be a shared 'desire' love to make it work


Absolutely WS...I don't see it happening any other way. wave
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Oct 6, 2013 8:02 PM CST long distance dating
WESTERNSTAR1
WESTERNSTAR1WESTERNSTAR1†_ °_†, Cork Ireland8 Threads 5 Polls 3,490 Posts
2intrigued: Absolutely WS...I don't see it happening any other way.
sometimes people are just about able reach far enough to be together no matter how far they are away from each other.love is very misunderstood in this world hug
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Oct 6, 2013 8:11 PM CST long distance dating
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
WESTERNSTAR1: sometimes people are just about able reach far enough to be together no matter how far they are away from each other.love is very misunderstood in this world


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Oct 6, 2013 8:13 PM CST long distance dating
Ziusudra
ZiusudraZiusudraHernando, Florida USA4 Threads 162 Posts
2intrigued: Yes, it can work if there's a desire to make it work.


You make a valid point However, I think it takes more than fancy chat and endless email dialogue to warrant a relationship
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Oct 6, 2013 8:14 PM CST long distance dating
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
In response to: Long distance dating can it work ?




I don't see how it can but to each their own.
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Oct 6, 2013 8:23 PM CST long distance dating
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Ziusudra: You make a valid point However, I think it takes more than fancy chat and endless email dialogue to warrant a relationship


Absolutely, a relationship encompasses so much more than shared emails for it to be considered a true relationship. I'm somewhat confused with the OP's topic heading because my idea of dating might be something different from what the OP is implying. wave
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Oct 6, 2013 8:26 PM CST long distance dating
WESTERNSTAR1
WESTERNSTAR1WESTERNSTAR1†_ °_†, Cork Ireland8 Threads 5 Polls 3,490 Posts
Ccincy: I don't see how it can but to each their own.
very delicate situation to be in
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Oct 6, 2013 8:27 PM CST long distance dating
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Ziusudra: You make a valid point However, I think it takes more than fancy chat and endless email dialogue to warrant a relationship

A relationship can be anything two people want it to be.

I'm relating with you now.
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Oct 6, 2013 8:40 PM CST long distance dating
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
jac379: A relationship can be anything two people want it to be.

I'm relating with you now.


Exactly Jac. wave
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Oct 6, 2013 9:46 PM CST long distance dating
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Oct 6, 2013 9:54 PM CST long distance dating
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
@Cuddlingsoul...great video!!thumbs up You know what works for you and that's all that matters. hug
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Oct 6, 2013 10:11 PM CST long distance dating
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
2intrigued: Exactly Jac.

I kinda think if all two people have is emailing and that improves their quality of life and brings them happiness, then who is anyone to say its not a real relationship, or not allowed?

If two people get to meet up at intervals and that improves their quality of life and makes them happy, who is anyone else to say its not a real relationship, or not allowed?

If you're lucky enough to find a spark, I advocate protecting it with both hands and feeding that flickering life, not stamping on it because it doesn't fit in with a conventional model of the way things 'ought' to be.
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Oct 6, 2013 10:15 PM CST long distance dating
Torless
TorlessTorlessChristchurch, Canterbury New Zealand9 Threads 1,499 Posts
jac379: I kinda think if all two people have is emailing and that improves their quality of life and brings them happiness, then who is anyone to say its not a real relationship, or not allowed?

If two people get to meet up at intervals and that improves their quality of life and makes them happy, who is anyone else to say its not a real relationship, or not allowed?

If you're lucky enough to find a spark, I advocate protecting it with both hands and feeding that flickering life, not stamping on it because it doesn't fit in with a conventional model of the way things 'ought' to be.



yes agreed jac
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Oct 6, 2013 10:19 PM CST long distance dating
1969manny: Long distance dating can it work ?

Dating a friend on the internet for several years is better than dating in real life.
Safe, loved, and needing each others words.
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Oct 6, 2013 10:26 PM CST long distance dating
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
jac379: I kinda think if all two people have is emailing and that improves their quality of life and brings them happiness, then who is anyone to say its not a real relationship, or not allowed?

If two people get to meet up at intervals and that improves their quality of life and makes them happy, who is anyone else to say its not a real relationship, or not allowed?

If you're lucky enough to find a spark, I advocate protecting it with both hands and feeding that flickering life, not stamping on it because it doesn't fit in with a conventional model of the way things 'ought' to be.


Of course, each relationship is unique to the two involved in it. Everyone's desires and expectations in a relationship differ greatly so it wouldn't be possible for someone to say what is right or wrong for others. People can only give an opinion on what would work for them. For me personally, if I find a spark, I want to nurture it, feed it, let it grow into something tangible if it's in the interests of both parties. There really is no right or wrong. hug
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