Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up ( Archived) (67)

Oct 7, 2013 12:36 AM CST Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up
CynthiaJack8
CynthiaJack8CynthiaJack8New York, USA1 Threads 1 Posts
Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up on men but thanks to my kids, they open my eyes and thought me to never stop loving, i just hope they're right..... Love my babies till my last breath and beyond
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Oct 7, 2013 12:39 AM CST Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up
michael63ca
michael63camichael63caVancouver, Alberta Canada50 Threads 2 Polls 784 Posts
CynthiaJack8: Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up on men but thanks to my kids, they open my eyes and thought me to never stop loving, i just hope they're right..... Love my babies till my last breath and beyond


IT will pass! Went through the same feelings, Your kids are right! just like mine were, I am Happier now then I've ever been!
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Oct 7, 2013 12:40 AM CST Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up
Girljuice
GirljuiceGirljuiceScottsdale, Arizona USA31 Threads 7 Polls 478 Posts
CynthiaJack8: Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up on men but thanks to my kids, they open my eyes and thought me to never stop loving, i just hope they're right..... Love my babies till my last breath and beyond


I'm not sure I understand. Give up on love or life?
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Oct 7, 2013 12:44 AM CST Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up
michael63ca
michael63camichael63caVancouver, Alberta Canada50 Threads 2 Polls 784 Posts
Girljuice: I'm not sure I understand. Give up on love or life?


read the first sentence again! doh
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Oct 7, 2013 1:10 AM CST Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up
edison324
edison324edison324bulgaria, Lancashire, England UK18 Threads 4 Polls 64 Posts
love can give the greatest pleasure yet can also give the greatest hurt.and time will heal both but try not to look backwards as you will find it hard to move forwards in life all the best ..
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Oct 7, 2013 2:12 AM CST Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up
Glitch101
Glitch101Glitch101London, Greater London, England UK21 Threads 1,079 Posts
CynthiaJack8: Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up on men but thanks to my kids, they open my eyes and thought me to never stop loving, i just hope they're right..... Love my babies till my last breath and beyond


If they were a product of your ex then he did something right!

We weren't promised an easy ride through life,so take the rough with the smooth and look to the future.hug
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Oct 7, 2013 2:25 AM CST Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,955 Posts
Glitch101: If they were a product of your ex then he did something right!

We weren't promised an easy ride through life,so take the rough with the smooth and look to the future.


Absolutely! Life is hard dunno

Enjoy all the good stuff it brings and weather the storms - they happen for a reason and they will pass wine
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Oct 7, 2013 2:41 AM CST Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up
Girljuice
GirljuiceGirljuiceScottsdale, Arizona USA31 Threads 7 Polls 478 Posts
michael63ca: read the first sentence again!


thumbs up Thanks.

Don't let one bad apple destroy the bunch.
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Oct 7, 2013 8:26 AM CST Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up
CynthiaJack8: Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up on men but thanks to my kids, they open my eyes and thought me to never stop loving, i just hope they're right..... Love my babies till my last breath and beyond


and of course, learn to love yourself. During a break up we often hear a lot of negative things about ourselves and it can take awhile to get past those messages and build confidence. But if two people are not happy together, they probably will be better off apart.hug
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Oct 7, 2013 8:34 AM CST Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up
Girljuice
GirljuiceGirljuiceScottsdale, Arizona USA31 Threads 7 Polls 478 Posts
felixis99: and of course, learn to love yourself. During a break up we often hear a lot of negative things about ourselves and it can take awhile to get past those messages and build confidence. But if two people are not happy together, they probably will be better off apart.


Good advice. Learn to love oneself again.
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Oct 7, 2013 8:50 AM CST Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
CynthiaJack8: Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up on men but thanks to my kids, they open my eyes and thought me to never stop loving, i just hope they're right..... Love my babies till my last breath and beyond


wave Depends on how long you have been apart. If it has been a short time, you can stay away from Men, there is no rush. We all love our Children( even when they are Adults ). Unless there is
still a lot of baggage to take care of, don't think of your ex.
He get's his visitation etc, and you both carry on.
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Oct 7, 2013 8:56 AM CST Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up
Brannigan70
Brannigan70Brannigan70Yellow Brick Road , Manchester, Mayo Ireland35 Threads 2,339 Posts
CynthiaJack8: Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up on men but thanks to my kids, they open my eyes and thought me to never stop loving, i just hope they're right..... Love my babies till my last breath and beyond
Now don't you go giving up professor handshake

Enjoy and cherish your kids , they are from a happier time you had with the old dog , but your happiness shouldn't end because he's no longer there .

Never run to catch a bus or train cos there's always gonna be another just like there's always gonna be another man who'll treat you better teddybear

Wishing you the very best ......
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Oct 7, 2013 9:02 AM CST Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up
reb56
reb56reb56carthage, Missouri USA55 Polls 8,629 Posts
CynthiaJack8: Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up on men but thanks to my kids, they open my eyes and thought me to never stop loving, i just hope they're right..... Love my babies till my last breath and beyond
fall,just get up n dust urself/wasnt meant,to be.
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Oct 7, 2013 9:03 AM CST Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up
Glitch101
Glitch101Glitch101London, Greater London, England UK21 Threads 1,079 Posts
Brannigan70: Now don't you go giving up

Enjoy and cherish your kids , they are from a happier time you had with the old dog , but your happiness shouldn't end because he's no longer there .

Never run to catch a bus or train cos there's always gonna be another just like there's always gonna be another man who'll treat you better

Wishing you the very best ......


Where were you when I was lookinghug
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Oct 7, 2013 9:10 AM CST Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up
Brannigan70
Brannigan70Brannigan70Yellow Brick Road , Manchester, Mayo Ireland35 Threads 2,339 Posts
Glitch101: Where were you when I was looking
Hmmm , must be elsewhere blushing teddybear
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Oct 7, 2013 10:05 AM CST Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up
WhistlingDixie
WhistlingDixieWhistlingDixieTramping Round, Cumbria, England UK8 Threads 338 Posts
CynthiaJack8: Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up on men but thanks to my kids, they open my eyes and thought me to never stop loving, i just hope they're right..... Love my babies till my last breath and beyond


Its not good putting all men in the same Basket ,just like its not good putting all Women in the same Basket .

Every one is different , move on , No big deal ,
If yea think Negative you end up in a Negative place .
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Oct 27, 2013 5:04 PM CST Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up
2girlsnocup
2girlsnocup2girlsnocupunknown, Greater London, England UK28 Threads 1 Polls 2,621 Posts
CynthiaJack8: Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up on men but thanks to my kids, they open my eyes and thought me to never stop loving, i just hope they're right..... Love my babies till my last breath and beyond


Come to the dark side, we have cookies.
Your kids will always be there and will always love you, as you will always love them. A partner can come and go.
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Oct 27, 2013 5:12 PM CST Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up
Scott1812
Scott1812Scott1812Claresholm, Alberta Canada26 Threads 11 Polls 1,595 Posts
From the mouths of babs.Never give up on love it hasn t give up on you.Your kids sound very wise.teddybear bouquet
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Oct 27, 2013 5:18 PM CST Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
CynthiaJack8: Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up on men but thanks to my kids, they open my eyes and thought me to never stop loving, i just hope they're right..... Love my babies till my last breath and beyond

Maybe giving up on men is about building a wall of self-protection around yourself. It maybe feels safer to make those kind of definitive decisions. dunno

The reality is perhaps more that at any given time you can choose to accept, or not accept some kind of sharing of yourself. You don't necessarily have to decide in advance in order to shield yourself from hurt.
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Oct 27, 2013 8:59 PM CST Thinking About my ex makes me want to give up
DaytonaDude
DaytonaDudeDaytonaDudeSouth Daytona, Florida USA33 Threads 3 Polls 2,403 Posts
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Don't think about your ex professor

That'll be $50 please.
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