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Oct 11, 2013 6:24 AM CST Is it just me
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
Is finding out your so called girlfriend logged on to another dating site today a bad sign?I want as many opinions as possible.
Thanks.help
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Oct 11, 2013 6:25 AM CST Is it just me
NotABlonde
NotABlondeNotABlondeSpringwood, New South Wales Australia8 Threads 1,210 Posts
chatonlyman2: Is finding out your so called girlfriend logged on to another dating site today a bad sign?I want as many opinions as possible.
Thanks.


Logged on or joined up? Is it a site that has forums like you're on or just a one on one place....and how do you know she went there?
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Oct 11, 2013 6:26 AM CST Is it just me
Leo_7
Leo_7Leo_7Baku, Azerbaijan87 Threads 16 Polls 2,514 Posts
chatonlyman2: Is finding out your so called girlfriend logged on to another dating site today a bad sign?I want as many opinions as possible.
Thanks.
lol.its a disaster,matelaugh cheers
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Oct 11, 2013 6:26 AM CST Is it just me
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
chatonlyman2: Is finding out your so called girlfriend logged on to another dating site today a bad sign?I want as many opinions as possible.
Thanks.

Well ,maybe its the forums and blogs on that site that impresses her uh oh
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Oct 11, 2013 6:27 AM CST Is it just me
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
NotABlonde: Logged on or joined up? Is it a site that has forums like you're on or just a one on one place....and how do you know she went there?


thumbs up
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Oct 11, 2013 6:27 AM CST Is it just me
Leo_7
Leo_7Leo_7Baku, Azerbaijan87 Threads 16 Polls 2,514 Posts
Leo_7: lol.its a disaster,mate
but in other hand,its a good sigh if u wanna get rid of hergrin
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Oct 11, 2013 6:28 AM CST Is it just me
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
Leo_7: lol.its a disaster,mate


is it? he's on a dating site...perhaps she's doing the same thing...there for the forums dunno
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Oct 11, 2013 6:34 AM CST Is it just me
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
She is on this site and in another country. I am not on the other site but can still view who is on. She is and has not logged on to that site in over 30 days.
Im not the most trusting soul and its making me wonder?
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Oct 11, 2013 6:34 AM CST Is it just me
steffffie
steffffiesteffffieChicago, Illinois USA8 Threads 598 Posts
chatonlyman2: Is finding out your so called girlfriend logged on to another dating site today a bad sign?I want as many opinions as possible.
Thanks.

my opinion: so what? You can't play detective forever. Relax, trust her, give her space and if you are not happy with the way she treats you or the time you spend together, then take action.
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Oct 11, 2013 6:34 AM CST Is it just me
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
chatonlyman2: She is on this site and in another country. I am not on the other site but can still view who is on. She is and has not logged on to that site in over 30 days.
Im not the most trusting soul and its making me wonder?
until today
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Oct 11, 2013 6:36 AM CST Is it just me
NotABlonde
NotABlondeNotABlondeSpringwood, New South Wales Australia8 Threads 1,210 Posts
chatonlyman2: until today


If you've been checking every day to see if she's logged in, what does that tell you?

And do you not think she might just read this and solve your problem for you?
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Oct 11, 2013 6:36 AM CST Is it just me
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
chatonlyman2: until today
Alright Im just scared to death lol. I guess I will talk to her later.thanks folks
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Oct 11, 2013 6:36 AM CST Is it just me
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
chatonlyman2: until today


you checked the other site...why?
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Oct 11, 2013 6:39 AM CST Is it just me
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
NotABlonde: If you've been checking every day to see if she's logged in, what does that tell you?

And do you not think she might just read this and solve your problem for you?

It means he doesn`t trust her... and it seems he`s suspicious with a good reason grin
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Oct 11, 2013 6:45 AM CST Is it just me
chatonlyman2: Alright Im just scared to death lol. I guess I will talk to her later.thanks folks
..hi C just talk to her in a nice way and find out why........pete.
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Oct 11, 2013 6:48 AM CST Is it just me
steffffie
steffffiesteffffieChicago, Illinois USA8 Threads 598 Posts
Dedovix: It means he doesn`t trust her... and it seems he`s suspicious with a good reason

Good reason? Because she checked her profile? She may have friends there.

If I was her and I happened to read this, I'd freak out.
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Oct 11, 2013 6:48 AM CST Is it just me
Chocheta
ChochetaChochetaBetween somewhere and nowhere, Gauteng South Africa1,019 Posts
chatonlyman2: Alright Im just scared to death lol. I guess I will talk to her later.thanks folks


aww that sucks hug
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Oct 11, 2013 6:50 AM CST Is it just me
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
chatonlyman2: She is on this site and in another country. I am not on the other site but can still view who is on. She is and has not logged on to that site in over 30 days.
Im not the most trusting soul and its making me wonder?


Watch and wait. She's signed on once in over a month, so I think you might be jumping to conclusions. Whatever you do don't talk to her about it yet, wait and see what she does when she doesn't know that you are watching.
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Oct 11, 2013 6:52 AM CST Is it just me
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
steffffie: Good reason? Because she checked her profile? She may have friends there.

If I was her and I happened to read this, I'd freak out.

Gee, a few good argument can ruin a good debate laugh
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Oct 11, 2013 7:05 AM CST Is it just me
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
truheart1941: ..hi C just talk to her in a nice way and find out why........pete.
thanks I hope I'm not in too much trouble but this is somewhat a debate. I am asking advice and this is the my only resource.
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