We are in the dark as to what is told to us here. Instinct is difficult without seeing any body language. I am just wondering if lots of "use instincts".advice here is true. what does that mean? The sky is purple, my instincts tell me no..But if they say the sky is blue and its actually cloudy instinct does not come into play...I believe in probable possibilities... Guess we have to be somewhat risk takers and see what happens? Going by looks alone, oh no..Is it a real pic? I shy away from the good looking pics lol Maybe I should just pen pal....... Only been here for 3 weeks......confused lots and lots of responses but really unsure of this...like walking into a singles event with a blindfold! (Actually did that on a dare lol)The imagined person from voice to reality was a shock.. Help
canadajewel: We are in the dark as to what is told to us here. Instinct is difficult without seeing any body language. I am just wondering if lots of "use instincts".advice here is true. what does that mean? The sky is purple, my instincts tell me no..But if they say the sky is blue and its actually cloudy instinct does not come into play...I believe in probable possibilities... Guess we have to be somewhat risk takers and see what happens? Going by looks alone, oh no..Is it a real pic? I shy away from the good looking pics lol Maybe I should just pen pal....... Only been here for 3 weeks......confused lots and lots of responses but really unsure of this...like walking into a singles event with a blindfold! (Actually did that on a dare lol)The imagined person from voice to reality was a shock.. Help
I think you have had a lot of communication in a short space of time I'm guessing. That can be overwhelming, especially if you have run into bad eggs, like I think you have. You should know who the real ones are by now. Here you are, a Canadian jewel, 3000 miles away, go figure.
Yes this online dating thing is a minefield for sure and I really don't think anyone has the answers, regardless of how long they have been doing it.
My advice is simply to keep your head and keep your wits about you always.
You simply do not know who you are talking to until you at least see them on webcam and, if things progress and you want to, meet them in person .. always in a public place!!!
Just be super careful and super safe, don't hand over ANY personal details online and read the scammer warnings on here.
Hey Miss jewel I'm sure you know there's a lot of creepy things in you area without even being online... Just take your time. It does seem over whelming. In the past, I've chatted with ladies on different sites that have said, they have to delete two of three pages of messages everyday without looking at them, just to help clear the mind, before beginning to open the mail messages.
pedalguy59: I think you have had a lot of communication in a short space of time I'm guessing. That can be overwhelming, especially if you have run into bad eggs, like I think you have. You should know who the real ones are by now. Here you are, a Canadian jewel, 3000 miles away, go figure.
Lol...without body language? And yes u r correct..bad eggs based on my instinct and was I right ? Who knows? 3,000 miles done 3 times a year Ha ha
canadajewel: Lol...without body language? And yes u r correct..bad eggs based on my instinct and was I right ? Who knows? 3,000 miles done 3 times a year Ha ha
CuddlingSoul: Hey Miss jewel I'm sure you know there's a lot of creepy things in you area without even being online... Just take your time. It does seem over whelming. In the past, I've chatted with ladies on different sites that have said, they have to delete two of three pages of messages everyday without looking at them, just to help clear the mind, before beginning to open the mail messages.
You know..i've done THAT. Now that makes sense! Thanks.
Precisely why I would not initiate contact with a woman here. Their mailboxes are full malcontents, I would get deleted in the shuffle, and they would be far to leery. Plus a lot the Ladies here a for the forums. Again, the concept and purpose of the site is it's own enemy.
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is difficult without seeing any body language. I am
just wondering if lots of "use instincts".advice here
is true.
what does that mean?
The sky is purple, my instincts tell me no..But if
they say the sky is blue and its actually cloudy instinct
does not come into play...I believe in probable possibilities...
Guess we have to be somewhat risk takers and see what
happens? Going by looks alone, oh no..Is it a real pic? I shy away from the good looking pics lol Maybe I should just pen pal.......
Only been here for 3 weeks......confused lots and lots of responses
but really unsure of this...like walking into a singles event with a blindfold! (Actually did that on a dare lol)The imagined person
from voice to reality was a shock..
Help