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Oct 18, 2013 1:27 AM CST ONLINE TRUST _ HOW??
canadajewel
canadajewelcanadajewelmatagalpa nicaragua, Nevada USA4 Threads 81 Posts
We are in the dark as to what is told to us here. Instinct
is difficult without seeing any body language. I am
just wondering if lots of "use instincts".advice here
is true.
what does that mean?
The sky is purple, my instincts tell me no..But if
they say the sky is blue and its actually cloudy instinct
does not come into play...I believe in probable possibilities...
Guess we have to be somewhat risk takers and see what
happens? Going by looks alone, oh no..Is it a real pic? I shy away from the good looking pics lol Maybe I should just pen pal.......
Only been here for 3 weeks......confused lots and lots of responses
but really unsure of this...like walking into a singles event with a blindfold! (Actually did that on a dare lol)The imagined person
from voice to reality was a shock..
Help
sad flower help
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Oct 18, 2013 1:36 AM CST ONLINE TRUST _ HOW??
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
canadajewel: We are in the dark as to what is told to us here. Instinct
is difficult without seeing any body language. I am
just wondering if lots of "use instincts".advice here
is true.
what does that mean?
The sky is purple, my instincts tell me no..But if
they say the sky is blue and its actually cloudy instinct
does not come into play...I believe in probable possibilities...
Guess we have to be somewhat risk takers and see what
happens? Going by looks alone, oh no..Is it a real pic? I shy away from the good looking pics lol Maybe I should just pen pal.......
Only been here for 3 weeks......confused lots and lots of responses
but really unsure of this...like walking into a singles event with a blindfold! (Actually did that on a dare lol)The imagined person
from voice to reality was a shock..
Help


wave I think you have had a lot of communication in a short space
of time I'm guessing. That can be overwhelming, especially if you
have run into bad eggs, like I think you have. You should know
who the real ones are by now. Here you are, a Canadian jewel,
3000 miles away, go figure.laugh
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Oct 18, 2013 1:39 AM CST ONLINE TRUST _ HOW??
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
Hi canadajewel wave

Yes this online dating thing is a minefield for sure and I really don't think anyone has the answers, regardless of how long they have been doing it.

My advice is simply to keep your head and keep your wits about you always.

You simply do not know who you are talking to until you at least see them on webcam and, if things progress and you want to, meet them in person .. always in a public place!!!

Just be super careful and super safe, don't hand over ANY personal details online and read the scammer warnings on here.

Good luck and all the best to you wine
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Oct 18, 2013 1:39 AM CST ONLINE TRUST _ HOW??
Torless
TorlessTorlessChristchurch, Canterbury New Zealand9 Threads 1,499 Posts
forums are a good place to talk with people, trust your gut...

teddybear
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Oct 18, 2013 1:41 AM CST ONLINE TRUST _ HOW??
ivajlov
ivajlovivajlovSofia, Sofia City Bulgaria25 Threads 12 Polls 387 Posts
sad flower
Trust your guts! You must have some!

Well in case you don't have any or much an option seems to be to publish all that stuff you have received and we'll sort things out for you!
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Oct 18, 2013 1:49 AM CST ONLINE TRUST _ HOW??
Hey Miss jewel wave I'm sure you know there's a lot of creepy things in you area without even being online... Just take your time. It does seem over whelming. In the past, I've chatted with ladies on different sites that have said, they have to delete two of three pages of messages everyday without looking at them, just to help clear the mind, before beginning to open the mail messages.
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Oct 18, 2013 2:19 AM CST ONLINE TRUST _ HOW??
canadajewel
canadajewelcanadajewelmatagalpa nicaragua, Nevada USA4 Threads 81 Posts
pedalguy59: I think you have had a lot of communication in a short space
of time I'm guessing. That can be overwhelming, especially if you
have run into bad eggs, like I think you have. You should know
who the real ones are by now. Here you are, a Canadian jewel,
3000 miles away, go figure.


Lol...without body language? And yes u r correct..bad eggs
based on my instinct and was I right ? Who knows? 3,000 miles
done 3 times a year Ha ha
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Oct 18, 2013 2:20 AM CST ONLINE TRUST _ HOW??
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
canadajewel: Lol...without body language? And yes u r correct..bad eggs
based on my instinct and was I right ? Who knows? 3,000 miles
done 3 times a year Ha ha


laugh Is 9000 miles.
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Oct 18, 2013 2:29 AM CST ONLINE TRUST _ HOW??
Pom_Pom
Pom_PomPom_PomBuenos Aires, Argentina71 Threads 32 Polls 1,740 Posts
Don't trust anyone, you'll get ur heart broken.
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Oct 18, 2013 2:30 AM CST ONLINE TRUST _ HOW??
canadajewel
canadajewelcanadajewelmatagalpa nicaragua, Nevada USA4 Threads 81 Posts
Torless: forums are a good place to talk with people, trust your gut...

Blind Guts?
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Oct 18, 2013 2:31 AM CST ONLINE TRUST _ HOW??
tommeymute
tommeymutetommeymuteBournemouth, Dorset, England UK1 Posts
I totally agree with you face to face is the only way to feel comfortable
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Oct 18, 2013 2:32 AM CST ONLINE TRUST _ HOW??
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
canadajewel: Blind Guts?


wave Not at all, read peoples posts.
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Oct 18, 2013 2:32 AM CST ONLINE TRUST _ HOW??
canadajewel
canadajewelcanadajewelmatagalpa nicaragua, Nevada USA4 Threads 81 Posts
CuddlingSoul: Hey Miss jewel I'm sure you know there's a lot of creepy things in you area without even being online... Just take your time. It does seem over whelming. In the past, I've chatted with ladies on different sites that have said, they have to delete two of three pages of messages everyday without looking at them, just to help clear the mind, before beginning to open the mail messages.
You know..i've done THAT. Now that makes sense! Thanks.gift
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Oct 18, 2013 2:34 AM CST ONLINE TRUST _ HOW??
canadajewel
canadajewelcanadajewelmatagalpa nicaragua, Nevada USA4 Threads 81 Posts
I can trust my "GUTS" then! Cause I can see! Thank You!cheering
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Oct 18, 2013 2:35 AM CST ONLINE TRUST _ HOW??
canadajewel
canadajewelcanadajewelmatagalpa nicaragua, Nevada USA4 Threads 81 Posts
pedalguy59: Not at all, read peoples posts.

Whats behind the "WORDS" And whom?
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Oct 18, 2013 2:37 AM CST ONLINE TRUST _ HOW??
canadajewel
canadajewelcanadajewelmatagalpa nicaragua, Nevada USA4 Threads 81 Posts
That's sad, isn't it?
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Oct 18, 2013 2:38 AM CST ONLINE TRUST _ HOW??
canadajewel
canadajewelcanadajewelmatagalpa nicaragua, Nevada USA4 Threads 81 Posts
Pom_Pom: Don't trust anyone, you'll get ur heart broken.
That;s sad, isn't it? Such mind games!frustrated
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Oct 18, 2013 2:38 AM CST ONLINE TRUST _ HOW??
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
canadajewel: That's sad, isn't it?


Yep
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Oct 18, 2013 2:41 AM CST ONLINE TRUST _ HOW??
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
canadajewel: Of course I have GUTS! I'm here, aren't I - in this scary place!


wave Scary no more, you know us now.
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Oct 18, 2013 2:47 AM CST ONLINE TRUST _ HOW??
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
canadajewel: Whats behind the "WORDS" And whom?


professor Precisely why I would not initiate contact with a
woman here. Their mailboxes are full malcontents, I would get
deleted in the shuffle, and they would be far to leery. Plus a
lot the Ladies here a for the forums. Again, the concept and
purpose of the site is it's own enemy.
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