janie1305Southampton, Hampshire, England UK916 posts
bettyboo19: Just doesn't seem to be any genuine guys on here interested in dating plus size
So many young girls sign up here and say the same thing. It's true that the media fuelled influence is geared towards thin, but that doesn't mean you are without any hope of finding a partner if that's what you want.
You are young and pretty from what I can see on your thumbnail pic, that counts for a lot. Many older women who are not plus size have a similar problem as you do but with age discrimination.
anilag: It's easy to change, stop whining girls, get your bum off the couch, throw all the junk food, go to gym, get fit, and the man you want !
A bit of a touchy subject for us guys to comment on but there are a lot of attractive women that would be absolutely stunning if they were able to lose some pounds. In all fairness there are women who's genetic make up would never allow them to be slim. There are many men out there that attracted to the larger women as well.
anilag: It's easy to change, stop whining girls, get your bum off the couch, throw all the junk food, go to gym, get fit, and the man you want !
We do... An instructor I have at the gym is 200 and she could probably outlast most of the other women on vs exercise wise. And for some of us it is in the genes and I'm not ashamed. Men just seem to want more of the women that have fake breast and fake nails and fake stomachs instead of those that are real. Regardless women should be proud of who they are inside and out and when people see the real you then someday a real man will want you...
janie1305Southampton, Hampshire, England UK916 posts
kennn: A bit of a touchy subject for us guys to comment on but there are a lot of attractive women that would be absolutely stunning if they were able to lose some pounds. In all fairness there are women who's genetic make up would never allow them to be slim. There are many men out there that attracted to the larger women as well.
Kenn I agree it's a touchy subject, but one can be honest in a polite way surely, particularly when the question is being posed by such a young girl.
She obviously knows that many men are not interested in plus size girls, based at least on her own experience, so all she needs is a little reassurance, certainly not taunts about her weight and advice to lose it from both men and women here sadly. The OP probably knows more than most about how to lose weight being a plus size, that kind of advice is not what she is seeking here.
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