My sister on the dating scene. ( Archived) (177)

Oct 27, 2013 11:51 AM CST My sister on the dating scene.
Girljuice
GirljuiceGirljuiceScottsdale, Arizona USA31 Threads 7 Polls 478 Posts
She's 38, a single mother of a 12 yr. Old son. Her husband left her after an 11 year marriage for another woman. My sister was blind sighted and devasted.

She signs up on a local dating sight shortly after the divorce and meets a nice police officer. They begin sleeping together and it turns out being a friends with benefits situation but my sister wants more. Then my sister finds out that he's been in a 2 year relationship with another woman and my sister feel guilty and bad for the other woman.

Not ALL men are dogs, but so far she hasn't had any luck.

Should she tell the other woman? After all, women SHOULD stick together, right?

Or if she does, the other woman may be in denial and not believe my sister which would leave my sister looking like a fool while the guy gets away with everything.
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Oct 27, 2013 11:56 AM CST My sister on the dating scene.
crazyblondeone
crazyblondeonecrazyblondeoneNo Scammers, California USA39 Threads 3,164 Posts
Juicy: Morning love!! hug

In my opinion (but I have horrible ones, just look at my track record), I think she should. The other lady needs to know what a dog he is. Can she show her the dating site he is on? Can she screen shot his profile before he deletes it? Can she find him on other sites? Cheating is just friggen wrong.teddybear
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Oct 27, 2013 11:58 AM CST My sister on the dating scene.
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
crazyblondeone: Juicy: Morning love!!

In my opinion (but I have horrible ones, just look at my track record), I think she should. The other lady needs to know what a dog he is. Can she show her the dating site he is on? Can she screen shot his profile before he deletes it? Can she find him on other sites? Cheating is just friggen wrong.



Agree!! I think the other lady has a right to know teddybear
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Oct 27, 2013 12:01 PM CST My sister on the dating scene.
Girljuice: She's 38, a single mother of a 12 yr. Old son. Her husband left her after an 11 year marriage for another woman. My sister was blind sighted and devasted.

She signs up on a local dating sight shortly after the divorce and meets a nice police officer. They begin sleeping together and it turns out being a friends with benefits situation but my sister wants more. Then my sister finds out that he's been in a 2 year relationship with another woman and my sister feel guilty and bad for the other woman.

Not ALL men are dogs, but so far she hasn't had any luck. Should she tell the other woman? After all, women SHOULD stick together, right?

Or if she does, the other woman may be in denial and not believe my sister which would leave my sister looking like a fool while the guy gets away with everything.
Sounds like He is playing games with all of their Hearts, He evidently isnt faithful, seem she should tell the other Women and all dump Him????

also depends what she wants???? She may just like what he has got??
But thats hard having kids in that kind of picture as well...
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Oct 27, 2013 12:02 PM CST My sister on the dating scene.
anilag
anilaganilagStaten Island, New York USA12 Threads 412 Posts
crazyblondeone: Juicy: Morning love!!

In my opinion (but I have horrible ones, just look at my track record), I think she should. The other lady needs to know what a dog he is. Can she show her the dating site he is on? Can she screen shot his profile before he deletes it? Can she find him on other sites? Cheating is just friggen wrong.


Why obsessing with screening, and sniffing around..
She now knows he is a cheater, move on..
She is not going to change him confronting.
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Oct 27, 2013 12:06 PM CST My sister on the dating scene.
Girljuice: She's 38, a single mother of a 12 yr. Old son. Her husband left her after an 11 year marriage for another woman. My sister was blind sighted and devasted.

She signs up on a local dating sight shortly after the divorce and meets a nice police officer. They begin sleeping together and it turns out being a friends with benefits situation but my sister wants more. Then my sister finds out that he's been in a 2 year relationship with another woman and my sister feel guilty and bad for the other woman.

Not ALL men are dogs, but so far she hasn't had any luck.

Should she tell the other woman? After all, women SHOULD stick together, right?

Or if she does, the other woman may be in denial and not believe my sister which would leave my sister looking like a fool while the guy gets away with everything.
..she should just drop him and run..do nothing more/less......a clean break......what goes around come around regards this guy.......
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Oct 27, 2013 12:18 PM CST My sister on the dating scene.
truheart1941: ..she should just drop him and run..do nothing more/less......a clean break......what goes around come around regards this guy.......
I Think this is good advice... Clean Break, stops all the Drama, and allows healing without CAUSING MORE DRAMA!!!! and more hurt!thumbs up
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Oct 27, 2013 12:18 PM CST My sister on the dating scene.
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
truheart1941: ..she should just drop him and run..do nothing more/less......a clean break......what goes around come around regards this guy.......
Good advice.
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Oct 27, 2013 12:19 PM CST My sister on the dating scene.
crazyblondeone
crazyblondeonecrazyblondeoneNo Scammers, California USA39 Threads 3,164 Posts
anilag: Why obsessing with screening, and sniffing around..
She now knows he is a cheater, move on..
She is not going to change him confronting.


No one said anything about changing him, nor staying with him, read the original post again. Juicy asked if she should tell the other woman, heck I would want to know if I were in a two year relationship if he was cheating for pete's sake!! And then she was worried the other one would be in denial thus the screen shotting his profile. No obsessing here at all. teddybear
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Oct 27, 2013 12:23 PM CST My sister on the dating scene.
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
omg This should have been on the advice thread.grin
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Oct 27, 2013 12:29 PM CST My sister on the dating scene.
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
SoonerGal: Agree!! I think the other lady has a right to know
She has the right to find out herself. Not others to tell her. JMO
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Oct 27, 2013 12:32 PM CST My sister on the dating scene.
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
chris27292729: She has the right to find out herself. Not others to tell her. JMO


thumbs up
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Oct 27, 2013 12:33 PM CST My sister on the dating scene.
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Unless she asks for your advice I wouldn't give her any.


She's a 38 yrs of age and has to take responsibility for for her own life.
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Oct 27, 2013 12:35 PM CST My sister on the dating scene.
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
chris27292729: She has the right to find out herself. Not others to tell her. JMO



and that's your own opinion sir wink I would want to KNOW
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Oct 27, 2013 12:36 PM CST My sister on the dating scene.
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
Don't be nibbling on me laugh I'm NOT the only one that thinks this wave
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Oct 27, 2013 12:42 PM CST My sister on the dating scene.
LadyDiz
LadyDizLadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 Posts
Ccincy: Unless she asks for your advice I wouldn't give her any.She's a 38 yrs of age and has to take responsibility for for her own life.


Agreed. thumbs up
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Oct 27, 2013 12:44 PM CST My sister on the dating scene.
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
SoonerGal: and that's your own opinion sir I would want to KNOW


wave I thought this is about the sister wrestling with the fact
to tell the other woman. Not what the other would or would not
want to know.
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Oct 27, 2013 12:44 PM CST My sister on the dating scene.
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
SoonerGal: Don't be nibbling on me I'm NOT the only one that thinks this
Nibbling on you, no way.Just think is wrong,go and tell the other women,she shares him with someone else.-JMOhandshake cheers
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Oct 27, 2013 12:45 PM CST My sister on the dating scene.
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
pedalguy59: I thought this is about the sister wrestling with the fact
to tell the other woman. Not what the other would or would not
want to know.




that's why I think she SHOULD tell her doh hug
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Oct 27, 2013 12:47 PM CST My sister on the dating scene.
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
chris27292729: Nibbling on you, no way.Just think is wrong,go and tell the other women,she shares him with someone else.-JMO



so let's turn this around, what if you were in a long relationship, would you not want to know that she has been being unfaithful to you?? or would you just not want to face the truth?? or do you think what you don't know doesn't bother you?
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